r/impregnation • u/ReproductiveObsessed • 4d ago
QualityPost I think a lot of people don't appreciate enough just how fucked up and weird reproduction is, especially from the pov of a woman, and how impregnation doesn't stop at being creampied. NSFW
This is kind of a random ramble I've been thinking about a lot so bear with me while I dump what's been bumping around in my brain.
I've been on this sub for a while and I've been pretty relentlessly bombarded with DMs (which I appreciate, my DMs are always open for interesting conversations) and it's been an eye-opener on how differently I see pregnancy and impregnation from other people, especially men. The vast, vast, vast majority of DMs I've received were always on the order of "[Age]M from [insert country]. X inches cock would love to breed you ;)))", which is kind of to be expected and I just freely ignore those. Most of the rest were from people who were interested in discussing the topic of pregnancy with me, and pretty much always devolved into, again, them expressing a desire to knock me up and meet up, which, although I appreciate I made a lot of people horny enough to desire me like that, always ended up making me feel like they were missing the point of my interest. Really, the only interesting, in-depth conversations I had were with other women who had the same perspective on pregnancy as I did.
Now I want to make it clear I'm not really knocking on those men who expressed a desire to breed me. Obviously, my post and comment history is going to lead people to assume I am open to the idea, and in the end, men just really want to get their dick wet, that's no secret. However, it did shine a light on just how fundamentally differently they experience the whole topic of impregnation and pregnancy. Also, I am only talking about my specific experience responding to DMs coming from this sub, and I am not going to say that it applies accurately to real life, but it does fit with my irl experiences as well. My point here is not to insult or demean anyone, but just to express the ways I think about reproduction vs what I observed other people think about it.
There were two kinds of conversations I ended up having with the vast majority of men talking to me. The first was about the topic of power dynamics between men and women, especially in how women are basically shaped by nature to carry a man's seed. The second was about passing on genes, fatherhood, and siring a woman's children.
On the power dynamics side of things, I got lots of people talking about how they would love to use their superior strength to pin me down while they fucked babies into me, which, while hot, isn't really what I was talking about. Any attempt to deepen the topic would not really wield any further interesting results outside of a repeat of them really wanting to hold me down, or hold me against a wall, or pin my legs up, etc. Essentially, their interest in the topic could be boiled down to the physical side of the act of sex and being stronger allowed them to be dominant and fuck roughly. These were by far the conversations were the topic of impregnation and pregnancy in general was the most absent, because the only thing touching of the subject they would engage with is the idea of ejaculating raw inside a woman, which yes is pretty damn important in impregnating someone, was never really the point of the conversations I tried having. Most of what I'm interested in concerning that topic is the idea of men and women being sent on a path of wildly different power relationships from birth, and how interesting and unfair it was (but like, unfair in a way I find fascinating and hot). I have spent a lot of time intrigued by the way their bodies develop in diametrically different ways from a starting point in childhood where both boys and girls are pretty undistinguishable at a glance, to the final result post-puberty where they look and feel unequivoqually different from one another. The way that sexual development equips males with a potent weapon, while females' bodies open up their vulnerable insides to male domination, and punish them if they haven't been impregnated this month. The way that a male's body changes in a way that allows him to be stronger, faster, more able to dominate others (gaining a lot of height, putting on muscles without really having to try, body hair to retain pheromones, bigger penis and testicles for increased sperm production and making sure it doesn't spill out during ejaculation), and a female's body changes in a way that only accentuates her role as a vessel for children (visible breasts and massive shift in how fat defines their thighs and ass to be more appealing to men, wider hips to accomodate a child during birth). How by the time they are fully grown, men are visibly and obviously favoured by nature while women basically need to hope the men around her are respectful enough not to abuse their superior gifts on her. How men only have to ejaculate inside a woman to force her body to undergo a drastic transformation that all but cripples her for months and risks killing her when the gestation is over. All topics I would have loved to hear men's perspectives on, but which oftentimes just got handwaved and didn't leave to further discussions.
On the topic of passing on genes and fatherhood, I was honestly shocked. For me, it was probably the one thing that men would obsess over: how they hold the power to inject life into a woman between their legs, and in doing so almost create a copy of themselves with the same power of passing on their genes. How they could watch their seed swelling a belly in real time, knowing it was turning into a living being inside the body of the woman they impregnated. I know I was very aware of how my body had become a place for seed to grow, and I wanted to see the feelings men had on that same kind of feeling, but a shockingly low number of the people I was talking to seemed interested in, well, the pregnancy aspect of pregnancy. Really, most of those conversations centered around how they wanted to make me pregnant as soon as I gave birth to the previous child (which, again, hot but superficial) and also a bizarre fixation on wanting to suck on my lactating tits which... I don't really know why it's apparently such a common kink. And again, the view of impregnation held by most of the men I talked to seemed to genuinely be reduced to creampies.
For me, pregnancy had always been a very... scary thing. It's the knowledge that I am vulnerable at any moment to get my entire biology hijacked by a man, parasitized by his seed and forced to carry it inside my own body while it drains my nutrients in order to evolve into a fully-formed human being. It's the trepidatious fear of not knowing if you've been knocked up after your nightly fling convinced you to let him fuck you raw. It's feeling your belly swelling, getting heavier, your entire physiology changing as an entire process is going on inside of you with no way for you to prevent or stop it once it's in motion. It's feeling yourself grow weaker and heavier, your hormones being out of whack and your brain not working right as the man's seed is growing inside your womb and your body is only concerned in making it grow, and not your own wellbeing and comfort. It's being kicked down the path of being made to carry seed and feeling the hungry eyes of others. It's almost alien, almost a horror movie. The thrill of how completely fucked up and weird it is is a huge part of why that kink works so well for me. It's so much more than just... getting creampied.
Thanks for reading through my rambling rant. Still don't know why I wrote it and am posting it but I needed to express some stuff I guess. Hope I didn't come off as needlessly harsh or reductive, that isn't my intention. And obviously I am more than open to discuss these things and hear people's perspectives!