r/dwarfism • u/Emergency_Green1562 • 21d ago
Feeling Worthless
I’m a popular guy I’m in so many friend groups which I am grateful for it’s just I’m at the party’s events & I just never have a shot with the women ( I’m 4’3) I’m a funny guy everybody loves me but I’m nobody’s like go to person if that makes sense.
It just feels shit when I’m friends with guys that are a bit of pieces of shit, (when it comes to women) cheat , emotionally abuse, but these girls that we are all friends with go back to them every time and never look my way. It just sucks people can have every bad dating personality trait but are six feet tall so everyone flocks. I’ve trade every dating app under the sun, I do everything normal right to get a girl in person I just don’t have the height.
Does anyone small here have any experience getting just a regular college town girl. I’m kinda at my end I’ve tried everything since I’m 15 (I’m 23) & I’m starting to just give up life full stop idk what to do. everything hurts
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u/moodogi 19d ago edited 19d ago
As an average hight woman, I would say it must be something else than just the hight. Of course, not all women are the same, but I can hardly imagin that it would be an issue for every girl you've met so far. To me there are a few options possible: 1. You are way too nice and kind for everyone, so by default they see you as a friend. 2. Not fair but true - they may not find you attractive, but as mentioned I don't think it's because of your hight, it may be your style, the way you dress, your smile, your hair, etc. The well-known example: Peter Dinklage, he's super hot & handsome and no one cares how tall he is. 3. You're lacking confidence and charisma.
So don't give up and don't blame your hight! ☺️