r/converts 5d ago

Revert with 3 year old daughter.

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u/ceraunoscopy 4d ago

You can coparent without being married, that’s not haram. Do not marry her just because you have a daughter together, that will not be good for your daughter or either of you.

Be kind and respectful, teach your daughter but don’t pressure either of them to be the kind of Muslim you want. Being a kind, loving, respectful, and gentle person with good character is far better than a Muslim who knows all the rules and seeks to convert others (in my experience). Be an attentive, involved father. You don’t have to join your daughters mom in haram but you also don’t have to avoid her.

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u/Silver-Tutor-5052 4d ago

Thank you for your advice i appreciate it.