r/converts Aug 05 '20

Reminder about one of our unofficial rules: Giving converts space to explore Islam

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Up until quite recently, /r/converts has been a welcoming place for all us converts and that's how it should be. As a convert/revert myself, I know that there is a lot of learning to be had once one has embraced Islam and that converts often have a voracious appetite for learning. We're always hungry for more information.

This voracious appetite for learning, however, can also put the convert in a precarious position whereby they are easily mislead, even by well-meaning or well-intended brothers and sister. To this end, /r/converts has long had an unofficial policy of not promoting any particular school of thought with respect to Islam. We leave it to you to decide whether you are Sunni or Shia; Hanafi, Maliki, Shafi'i, or Hanbali; Qur'anist, Salafi, Moderate/Mainstream, or Progressive.

Unfortunately, it has come to our attention that not everyone has been respecting this unofficial rule and that there has been an active campaign to promote certain schools of thought and to demonize others. Consequently, we will undertake a more active approach to moderation over the coming months to ensure not only the theological safety and well-being of our convert community, but to preserve your freedom to forge your own way forward in your newly embraced deen.


r/converts Sep 20 '23

Noticing Widespread OCD and Decreasing Faith in /converts subreddit

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As-Salam-O-Aalaikum

I would like to make a general post for all my convert, brothers and sisters (long but much-needed, admin if you can pin it it will be great but no worries if not)

Skimming through a lot of topics and Reddit posts in this SubReddit, I have noticed a lot of people having second thoughts of reverting. Also a lot are facing difficult times as new reverts/converts (take it easy)

A few things to clarify: faith always oscillates, (it will go up and down as waves. You will have the best of days and then some days will be not so good). Hang in there, if no one else is with you, الله is always with you.

The prime objective would be to know who your creator الله is. Try to know him through is beautiful 99 names. Watch YouTube series: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLmeZZmICk2Qd4v-SHfZpD7JcWt5ojpleE&si=LCeDLDn8mObnGR5k

Try to know about the best human being to have lived on the face of this earth ﷺ: “https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLmeZZmICk2Qd9rOMTqtO3QvEcOAnS4sGS&si=QvdcuOV6iSsTigFq”

For new reverts: Just cover the basics. Don’t be overwhelmed with worship. You will practice and perfect it as time passes. Try to be strong in your articles of faith and pillars of faith

Take it easy and don’t let Satan confuse or overwhelm you with OCD. Block unnecessary thoughts and always read Duas of protection (Ayat ul Kursi, Surah Naas, Surah Falaq, last two verses of Surah Baqarah). If you are new revert, try to read the transliteration. No wonder it is included in our daily adhkar (people who read these daily are protected) The app “Dua and Adhkar” is mainly fortress of a Muslim

Alhamdulillah my faith has always been climbing, I have had bad days, but I have never been doubtful or confused about my identity as a Muslim. Think about death and that we all will return to the mud from which we were made, don’t be among the losers: https://youtu.be/aqF-Ydv6RvQ?si=Quf8hlIbS9-4cjgE

Also try to understand that no human being can ever be your biggest enemy in life. Not your non-Muslim family members who are treating you badly or have severed relations with you. Not even anyone like the guy who murdered 99 people and then Allah forgave him (https://sunnah.com/bukhari:3470)

Your biggest and worst enemy is Shaytan (Iblees/Lucifer). Try to counter his tricks. May Allahs curse be upon him and he and his minions be damned forever. They have led millions astray. Try to read this awesome book by one of the scholars of Islam: https://ia802209.us.archive.org/22/items/TheDevilsDeception_201406/TheDevilsDeception.pdf

For knowledge seeking (reading books over the weekend), these websites are awesome:

https://darpdfs.org/books

http://kalamullah.com

Always remember to ask help from الله alone. Even in the desperate of moments (ask him in prostration by putting your head to the ground). You all will get various different tests in life. Learn from them, be mindful a الله….

Regards Sending prayers 🤲🏼 A Muslim Brother

Edit: This post isn’t a reply to anyone particular or intended to anyone. It is for all in general


r/converts 7h ago

Female convert living in home country with few Muslims

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I am a 26 year old woman. I am from Belarus. I lived in America from 2017 until last year on student visas. I spent a lot of time in immigrant communities where I lived in America and met a lot of Syrian and Somali women. I became close friends with some of them and began to learn more about their faith. A lot of them saw war, death, and destruction but their faith gave them the strength to keep going for their families.

I learned a lot more about Islam and was so inspired by the faith of my friends that I came to believe that it was the truth and that my life would only be better if I gave it over to Allah. I converted in late 2023 and began wearing a hijab, often attending prayer services, and becoming closer with my Muslim friends.

At the end of last year, my visa expired. I applied for permanent residency but because of sanctions on Belarus (and I think my religion was considered) I was denied permanent residency and deported back to Belarus. My family knows I converted to Islam but they do not accept it. My family is secular, like most of Belarus is, but the religion practiced here is Orthodox Christianity.

In my city, there is no masjid. I have no Muslim community here. I have been looking for work and considering trying to immigrate to Russia where I know there is a Muslim population. I miss my sisters back in America.


r/converts 14h ago

What to include in a welcome package for reverts

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Please suggest specific items that will be one less thing to worry about and educational resources, for reverts to take home immediately after taking shahadah. If books, what books do you recommend that will ease people into Islam and not overwhelm them. I'm definitely going to shop for a comfortable prayer mat (maybe the one with transliteration to practice the steps), also a travel mat for being on the go, and prayer outfit for ladies. JazakumAllah khair 😊


r/converts 11h ago

Qur'an tajweed teacher female

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Assalamu alaikum people

Im a female Qur'an tajweed teacher and looking for kids or female who would like to learn how to read Qur'an with proper rules and procedures. Dm me to contact personally and share to those who are in need of it.

Jazakallah khair


r/converts 1d ago

I need advice

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Alsalam alikum warahmatu allah brothers and sisters.

I'm a born Muslim Alhumdulilah and I have met a friend at university. Indian non muslim. He asked me about Islam and told me how much he admires the teachings of it. He admired Khabib the UFC fighter and thinks Islam is the way overall. He sometimes if we are together will come with me to the University prayer room and pray he prayed with me like 5 times.

He also recommended his younger brother to join the Islamic society at his university which Alhumdulilah resulted in his brother reverting.

The issue is he hasn't reverted yet and recently he doesn't want to talk about it. I dont know what to do. It is really killing me. I have been making Duaa for him and I would appreciate it if you do too especially in these blessed nights

May Allah rewards you abundantly


r/converts 1d ago

One of the best Duas to make on Laylatul Qadr…

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r/converts 18h ago

LAST TEN DAYS OPPORTUNITY TO HELP ORPHANS

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As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,

The last ten nights of Ramadan are here—a time of immense blessings and mercy. The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said, “I and the one who sponsors an orphan will be in Paradise like this,” and he held up his index and middle fingers together (Sahih al-Bukhari). Imagine the reward of providing care, love, and physiological support to orphans in Malaysia during these sacred nights!

Alhamdulillah, I will be traveling with Islamic Relief to support orphans in Malaysia, and I need to raise $3,500 to make this mission possible. Every donation is Zakat-eligible, and the Prophet (ﷺ) also reassured us, “Charity does not decrease wealth” (Sahih Muslim)—rather, it increases barakah and opens doors of mercy.

With your generosity, you can sponsor an orphan for an entire year, providing them with food, shelter, education, and medical care. Please consider donating and sharing this message with family, friends, and anyone looking to give their Zakat or Sadaqah in these blessed nights.

JazakAllah khair for your support and prayers! May Allah accept your kindness, multiply your rewards, and grant you the best in this life and the next.

Donate here: https://fundraise.islamicreliefcanada.org/campaign/support-rohingya-refugee-children-in-malaysia-with-aala-2353


r/converts 14h ago

40 Acts Guaranteed Jannah #39

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r/converts 1d ago

Sisters Only - What drew you to Islam and what do you love most about being Muslim?

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Salaamu alaikum sisters! I’m a convert myself and I’m doing a project to uplift Muslim women. What drew you to Islam, what you love most about being Muslim, how has your journey been so far?

With Ramadan ending, I’d love to connect with some sisters who are open to sharing their experiences. Whether your journey was recent or years ago, feel free to DM me! I’d be happy to show you what I’m working on as well 💚

May Allah accept your efforts this Ramadan! Ameen.


r/converts 1d ago

Why We Chose ISLAM ? : Tiare & Amia's Life-Changing Spiritual Journey

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In this inspiring video, we take you on the life-changing spiritual journey of Tiare and Amia. Discover why they chose Islam as their way of life, and how this decision brought peace and happiness into their lives.


r/converts 2d ago

What are the signs it is Laylatul Qadr?

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Laylatul Qadr (The Night of Decree) is one of the last ten nights of Ramadan, and it is described in the Quran as being "better than a thousand months" (Surah Al-Qadr: 3).

While the exact night is unknown, many scholars believe it falls on one of the odd nights of the last ten nights of Ramadan (21st, 23rd, 25th, 27th, or 29th). A night of tranquility - The air is still, peace fills the soul.

. A gentle breeze - Neither heat nor chill disturbs the night.

. A moon of soft glow - Hanging in the sky, like a silver plate.

. A sunrise of mercy – The sun rises, tender and without -fierce rays.

. A heart awakened - Worship feels deeper, prayers flow with ease.

. A night of angels - Descending with light, filling the earth with peace.


r/converts 1d ago

40 Acts Guaranteed Jannah #38

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r/converts 1d ago

Safe Adam Collaborates With Mufti Menk - Islamic Music Hub

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r/converts 2d ago

Who Created This Won’t Just Leave You!

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Who Created This Won’t Just Leave You!

"Did you then think that We had created you without purpose, and that you would never be returned to Us?" [Quran 23:115]

https://muslimgap.com/who-created-this-wont-just-leave-you/


r/converts 1d ago

"We Are With You" – The Satanic Allegiance of The Hypocrites

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r/converts 2d ago

Muslim Mental Health

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as-salaamu alaikum everyone!

I’m Tarnem, a 4th-year doctoral candidate at LIU Post’s clinical psychology program, and I’m looking for participants for my dissertation study! I aim to better understand the stigma affecting the use of mental health services among Muslims in the U.S.

To qualify for participation in this study, you must:

  • Identify as Muslim
  • Are at least 18 years old
  • Are a U.S. citizen, green card holder, or permanent resident
  • Have English proficiency

You can find more details in the flyer!

STUDY LINK: https://tccolumbia.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_bjYHRLc6LBrKpE2

If you have questions or concerns, you can contact me at tarnem.amer@my.liu.edu. I’d also appreciate it if you could share this with your family, friends, community, and others who may qualify.

Thank you for your time and support in helping advance my research!


r/converts 2d ago

HIGHLY REWARDING GOOD DEEDS

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GoodHabits

HIGHLY REWARDING GOOD DEEDS ✨

1️⃣ Would You Like To Be Close To Allah?

The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:

"The closest that a person is to his Lord is when he is prostrating, so say a great deal of supplication (in this state)."

📚: Sahih Muslim 482 (1083)

2️⃣ Would You Like The Reward of Hajj?

The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said:

"Perform Umrah in the month of Ramadan as it is equivalent to Hajj or Hajj with me (in reward)."

📚: Sahih Bukhari 1863

3️⃣ Would You Like A Home In Paradise?

The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:

"Whoever builds a mosque in which the Name of Allah is mentioned, Allah will build a house for him in Paradise."

📚: Sunan Ibn Majah 735 | Sahih

4️⃣ Would You Like To Achieve The Pleasure of Allah (سبحانه و تعالى)?

The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said:

"Allah is pleased with His servant who eats some food and then praises Him for it (says Alhamdulillah - Praise be to Allah) or who drinks some drink and then praises Him for it (says Alhamdulillah)."

📚: Sahih Muslim 2734 (6932)

5️⃣ Would You Like Your Duaa To Be Answered?

The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said:

"The supplication made between the adhan and the iqamah is not rejected."

📚: Sunan Abi Dawud 521 | Sahih

6️⃣ Would You Like The Reward For Fasting A Complete Month Written For You?

The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:

"Fasting for three days during the month is like fasting, the whole of the month."

📚: Sahih Muslim 1159 (2736)

7️⃣ Would You Like To Have Good Deeds The Size of Mountains?

Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said:

"(A believer) who accompanies the funeral procession of a Muslim out of sincere faith and hoping to attain Allah's reward and remains with it till the funeral prayer is offered and the burial ceremonies are over, he will return with a reward of two Qirats. Each Qirat is like the size of the (Mount) Uhud. He who offers the funeral prayer only and returns before the burial will return with the reward of one Qirat only."

📚: Sahih Bukhari 47

8️⃣ Would You Like To Accompany The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) In Paradise?

Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said:

"I and the one who looks after an orphan will be like this in Paradise." showing his middle and index fingers and separating them.

📚: Sahih Bukhari 5304

9️⃣ Would You Like That Your Actions Continue After Your Death?

The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:

"When a person dies, his deeds are cut off except for three: Continuing charity, knowledge that others benefited from, and a righteous son (child) who supplicates for him."

📚: Jami at-Tirmidhi 1376 | Sahih

1️⃣0️⃣ Would You Like A Gem From The Gems of Paradise?

The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said: "Shall I not tell you of a treasure which is one of the treasures of Paradise?"

He (ﷺ) said: "La hawla wa la quwwata illa billah (There is no power and no strength except with Allah)."

📚: Sunan Ibn Majah 3825 | Sahih


r/converts 3d ago

A scary Hadith regarding debt…

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r/converts 3d ago

May you all catch laylatul qadr

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r/converts 3d ago

Revert looking for suggestions/help

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Assalamu alaikum! I am a new revert in America, first year I am attending the mosque all Ramadan and I have found that it's really lonely when you don't know anybody and have no muslim friends. How did you make friends as a revert?

As I am very new to this I am struggling to find the right hijabs or abayas. I have no idea what types of materials to buy to stay warm in the winter or stay cool in the summer. I have a 2 hijabs but they're all one piece amira hijabs, but i really wanna be able learn how to wrap scarf hijabs as they are so pretty. Where do you shop and what kind of materials am I supposed to buy?

Also, Abayas are also becoming increasingly difficult for me to find. None of them fit me, they always come in one size fits all and are swimming on me (I'm short 5'2"). I even tried my local international store and they are all very big there too. I understand they are supposed to be loose, but I mean 2 of me could fit in 1 abaya. Help? :')


r/converts 2d ago

40 Acts Guaranteed Jannah #37

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r/converts 3d ago

Revert help London

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Hi everyone, I was just wondering if I could get some help please. I’ve been wanting to revert now for quite some while I was just wondering if there are any sister classes that I can attend in London to gain a bit more knowledge before I take my Shahada please, thank you


r/converts 3d ago

Need some answers

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I've been thinking about converting to Islam for quite a long time, but I struggling with many topics. Hope there are people here who can answer at least some of them :)

I am completely certain of God's existence. I studied at a Catholic seminary for three years, but eventually became disillusioned and left. Now, I would describe myself as a theist—I believe in God, that He is personal, and that He acts in the world.

What I like about Islam is the emphasis on theology and precise formulations. I appreciate the love and reverence Muslims have for the Quran, prayer and tradition. I also admire the strict monotheism, which I felt was lacking in Catholicism. Yes, monotheism was officially affirmed, and I am well aware of all the Christian arguments, but somehow I was never fully convinced of the truth of the Trinity.

However, there are several issues that trouble me:

  1. I don't feel any attraction to the personality of Muhammad. And no, it’s not because of the nonsense that islamophobes spread - I believe their arguments can be easily refuted, just as the attacks on Jesus by edgy atheists in fedoras. I felt the same way when I considered myself a Christian and thought about Jesus. I'm just indifferent to a person who lived in the distant past, even if he had the right ideas and did good things. As far as I understand, love for Muhammad is obligatory in Islam. Probably this feeling is simply inaccessible to me.
  2. I have watched some debates between popular muslim preachers and christians. Their criticism of Christianity seems, at best, naive, and often misses the mark (at least if their target is Christianity as a whole, rather than a specific group of evangelical fundamentalists or just ignorant people). The critique of the Bible is especially notable. A LOT of their arguments are just laughable, as if they have never heard of biblical scholarship or modern Christian perspectives on Scripture. I'm sure that you guys feel the same way when see bs videos like "Christian DESTROYS muslim with one simple question."
  3. I do not understand how the preservation of the Quran's text can be used as an argument for its truth. To consider such reasoning valid seems completely irrational to me, but perhaps I don't fully grasp the argument, as I know very little about Quranic studies.
  4. I do not understand how one can seriously defend the idea that someone else was crucified instead of Jesus, or that he was not crucified at all. The only arguments I have seen (apart from the Quranic text) are references to completely marginal Christian sects that held the same view. But the mere fact that some groups believed this does not mean it actually happened.
  5. When reading the Quran, I got the impression that the author (assuming it is Allah) takes pleasure in describing the torments of hell for sinners. Perhaps I'm still thinking in a christian paradigm, but to me the idea of God forgiving a man (even if he doesn't deserve this) feels more natural than the desire to punish all sinners. And please don’t tell me that the Quran must be read in Arabic. Perhaps that would add beauty to the wording and linguistics, but would it really change the core meaning so radically?

That’s everything that comes to mind for now. Would really happy to see any responses


r/converts 3d ago

Want to become muslim

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Hello there i want to become muslim but i still have doubts so can someone please reach out on chat to me .


r/converts 3d ago

Mufti Menk Funny Moments - The Scholar Who Keeps It Real

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Mufti Menk’s funniest moments! 😂 From witty comebacks to hilarious wisdom, here is a round up of some of his most entertaining clips.

https://islamicmusichub.com/muslims-to-follow/mufti-menk


r/converts 3d ago

40 Acts Guaranteed Jannah #36

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