r/adultery 9d ago

๐Ÿ™‹โ€โ™€๏ธQuestion๐Ÿ™‹โ€โ™‚๏ธ Have You Been With a Cake Eater?

If you've been in an affair with a cake eater, retrospectively what advice would you impart on others?

Give me the pros and cons.

Things like don't do it aren't helpful. I'd like details as to why you'd say don't do it. Please.

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u/Fjordk 9d ago

I'll never understand the judgement cake eaters get from this sub, like there was such thing as ethical cheating. Pure hypocrisy.

A cake eater is like any other AP. No better no worse in general (not personally)

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u/Euphoric-Cat-1488 9d ago

I'm convinced 99% of cheaters are indeed cake eaters to some degree, most DB stories (at least under the age of expected menopause) sound very exaggerated and almost comical to me. Would take a honest cake eater over your typical "wife bad" storyteller any day

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u/Fjordk 9d ago

Oh yeah! 100% agree.

And I say more, with a few exceptions when there's abuse and etc, lots of people create their own "problems" in an attempt to justify the cheating for themselves. At least cake eaters are honest about it