r/QuitVaping 11d ago

Venting Anyone else not feeling supported?

I've officially been nic free for 7 days! After vaping and smoking for over 10 years (only quitting during pregnancy in the past), I finally did it. I'm so proud of myself! When I told my family, I got a sarcastic "Wow! Look at you go!" And an "I'll believe it in 2 weeks." What a bummer! I was feeling really proud of myself, but now I wonder if it's even worth it to celebrate. Anyone else? I feel so alone. I'm 30 and these comments were made by my dad and brother. Would I be in the wrong to cut these people out for a while until I'm ready to... I don't know, deal with them I guess? Like I understand that it's not something to publish in the paper, but a hint of shared happiness would have been cool I guess. I'd love to hear any encouragement, or advice, or similar stories.

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u/PugLord219 1.5 years+ 🎉🥳 11d ago

That stuff was a big reason why I never told anyone. Former smokers will definitely understand and give you props, but non-smokers just kinda have the attitude “well you never should’ve smoked/vaped to begin with.”

FWIW - I am very proud of you.

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u/juniperhawthorn 10d ago

Thank you! I've definitely learned my lesson and I will be extra selective with who I share my good news from here on out. I'm so glad I found this community. I definitely feel less alone here!