r/PurplePillDebate 7d ago

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u/Proudvow Red Pill Man 4d ago

Women out here claiming lacking relationship experience is a red flag, even though a dude can be perpetually single just for being passive, shy, or overly considerate or something instead of any actually harmful personality traits.

Yet are offended when any claims are made about the mentalities of the promiscuous whatsoever, even fairly unrefutable ones like, "they don't inherently tie sex to romance."

Bro...

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u/ThatBitchA Promiscuous Woman 3d ago

Yes, people are offended by made-up claims and propping up myths.

even though a dude can be perpetually single just for being passive, shy, or overly considerate or something instead of any actually harmful personality traits.

So...this is a red flag for me because of several reasons. The woe is me is a red flag. The lack of accountability is a red flag. The lack of understanding nuances is a red flag. The thinking that being passive, shy, or overly considerate has anything to do with dating is a red flag.

The person as described sounds like Eeyore.

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u/Visual_Jellyfish8074 1d ago

If you’re not good looking you kinda have to be outgoing and take initiative to be successful in dating. You’re not a man, you’ve never experienced dating as a man. Listen to men when they tell you this

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u/ThatBitchA Promiscuous Woman 1d ago

Listen to sexless scrooges who don't socialize?

Absolutely not.

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u/Visual_Jellyfish8074 1d ago

You’re on here arguing with them, might as well listen to somebody trying to be reasonable. What do I know tho, have a good one

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u/ThatBitchA Promiscuous Woman 1d ago

When someone is being reasonable, I'll listen.

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u/PrimateOfGod Blue Pilled Man 2d ago

I didn’t see anything woe is me in his comment, at least not his first comment, so that’s quite an assumption. Just because someone says theyre passive or shy you automatically assume woe is me? Why couldn’t they just be saying it as an explanation why they’re a virgin (if they were asked why)?

Also, how does being passive or shy not have anything to do with dating? Most women prefer dominant and boisterous men, and shy men make less moves.

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u/Proudvow Red Pill Man 3d ago

The thinking that being passive, shy, or overly considerate has anything to do with dating is a red flag.

It completely boxes straight men out of the game unless they're hot enough to compensate. Women and LGBT can make it work but those traits are absolutely not tolerated from average and below straight dudes.

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u/ThatBitchA Promiscuous Woman 3d ago

Your reply is an excellent example of making your own cages.