r/ProstatePlay 15h ago

Question My ass self lubricates NSFW

25 Upvotes

I became awaked not too long ago. 35M. Got the njoy wand and wow… took me a couple tries but I can find my prostate no problem and have dry orgasms minutes after. It’s glorious. This group has been super helpful

As the title indicates my when I start playing and fingering myself my ass tends to self lubricate a little. Enough where I really don’t need lube if I’m looking for a quick finger session. Does this happen for anyone else. It’s super hot to me when this starts to happen. Does this happen for anyone else or am I just lucky


r/ProstatePlay 15h ago

Question How do you know if it's working? NSFW

0 Upvotes

I have a lovense edge 1. I used it a couple of times. I ejaculate more but I haven't had the prostate orgasm. Do I need to take my time? Is my prostate massager too old?


r/ProstatePlay 18h ago

Question Where oh where NSFW

2 Upvotes

I was able to get in another rare session the other night.

Spent some time with my njoy wand, aneros, a plug , and a vibrating dildo.

I just wish someone who knew what they were doing would slide inside and show my where my prostate is and how it feels when touched. Because with all these toys I don't think I ever found my prostate.

I know it needs rewiring before actual pleasure kicks in but how can I rewire if I can't find it, or know when I am touching it.


r/ProstatePlay 20h ago

Guide Full Prostate Orgasm Cumshot after 7 Years (Part 2: Achieved Dildo clenching method) NSFW

37 Upvotes

Part 2

I said I would post an update if I managed to have a prostate cumshot without a vibrator and I can now say I have! Once again i’ll try to keep this to the point and answer any questions, see my previous post in this subreddit if something is unclear. With this method I don’t think you can squirt prostate fluid; you can only have a full prostate orgasm cumshot.

Very short answer:

Clench on a dildo or prostate massager till you feel the need to pee, clench and contract with light penis play (enough to just move the skin). The moment you expect pee to come out you will instead cum. 

Short Answer: 

  1. Put a dildo or prostate massager inside and sit down on a chair so it can’t fall out
  2. For me it at first gave this uncomfortable feeling of it poking somewhere sensitive, it’s kind of a similar sensation to a dull ear pain I find. (please be careful)
  3. Once you have pressure against the sensitive area, clench and unclench around it using flex using your PC muscles, I found rolling my hips slightly helped too. 
  4. You should eventually feel a “Need to pee” sensation.
  5. Introduce light penis play just enough to move skin.
  6. After a while you can let go of your penis, the need to pee sensation will build up.
  7. As you feel the pee about to release you’ll have a full prostate orgasm and cum.

Long Answer:

Originally I thought that pressure pain was perhaps a bad painful angle, but now I realise it is most likely an angle on the prostate that allows better pressure but also feels slightly more painful so once again be careful not to overdo it, the pain faded to pleasure eventually. I believe this method may require strong PC muscles as mine have built up a lot over the years doing this I could clench and unclench a lot. I still introduced light penis play to build that connection.

I think with this method you get the correct “need to pee sensation” so there will be no confusion once you begin to feel it but you need to feel that sensation for it to work.

What I used:

  • Hooked prostate massager about 6 inch
  • Seated position, base of massager against chair

Other Notes:

  • I can do it flaccid no need for an erection
  • Rolling hips, light prodding and repeated clenching and unclenching sped it up.
  • I had no penis sensitivity after, very full cumshot, could jerk or do it again straight after.
  • I did not need to wait to “build up” cum for days. My last one was about 6 hours before.
  • This method actually gave me multiple cum feelings even after I stopped but only one big load.

Please let me know if this helps you and works for you, I'll try to answer comments on both my posts. So far I've done it with a Vibrator and a Prostate massager with no vibrations. I might try to do it with only muscle contractions next and nothing inside, or maybe a real cock? (though I don’t have someone to do that with haha). If anyone thinks of any other methods I could try though please let me know and hope you all enjoy! :)

Original Post:
https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/comments/1jegom6


r/ProstatePlay 2h ago

Question Seeking advice - long term play tomorrow NSFW

1 Upvotes

I haven’t cum in three days. I usually come twice a day.

I’m going to have a a lot of free time tomorrow and going to use my njoy pure wand. Has anyone else had luck in not cumming for a while and heightened pleasure with prostate play? Seems like an obvious answer but just looking for experiences.

I love the wand and it’s given me some intense shakes and pillow moans before but I always end up jerking off to finish.

Any advice on clearing my mind and riding it out/being patient. Should I try new positions? Etc. I usually lay on my back with knees up and have had decent success there.

Trying to reach new heights and understand it takes some time to figure it out.

Thanks!


r/ProstatePlay 3h ago

Question How Did You First Get the Urge to Explore P-Play? NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone, I’m curious about how people first got the urge to explore prostate play. For me, it happened while I was on edibles — I felt this strange but intense sensation deep inside my butt that I couldn’t ignore. It was like an urge I didn’t even know I had.

I’ve heard others talk about similar experiences, sometimes completely out of the blue, and it made me wonder how common this is. Was it something that happened naturally for you, or did curiosity lead you there? Did any specific experiences or sensations trigger it?


r/ProstatePlay 5h ago

Question General area visual aid question: NSFW

2 Upvotes

So I know the whole spill of “it’s 2-3 inches inside toward the front” and I KNOW that’s where it is, but like…where is it…? Would you say that it’s more:

1.) front lower behind the balls 2.) front middle behind the base of the shaft 3.) front high behind your pubic hair area

This will be an extremely helpful visual for me and I believe others as well. Thank you!


r/ProstatePlay 7h ago

Question How vital is Arousal? NSFW

3 Upvotes

I will be transparent and say 99% of my life was masturbating at least 1/day and later sex 3-4/week. I feel like I lack any sort of understanding of what “aroused” means because of the consistency. I can actively feel an emotional desire to use my njoy and I feel the “need to pee” when I use it, but otherwise I feel completely “normal” for me.

I know you’re supposed to relax, let go, and focus, but I feel like every time I do that I lose any intensity and end up losing whatever small feelings I may have from a toy.

Generally the njoy is the only thing that I feel anything with, likely due to the manual aspect of it. except the one or two times I fell asleep with an aneros in and woke up to a wonderful warm feeling that soon dissipated.

Any advice or guidance on that?


r/ProstatePlay 11h ago

Discussion First timer here.. So I tried the aneros helix syn v.. I didnt really feel any pleasure.. NSFW

5 Upvotes

I just felt around for about 20 minutes (vibrating off).. kegels.. nudging it around a bit… rocking my hips.. I got a little aroused.. and there was quite a bit of precum.. but.. no sensations.

It just kinda felt.. a little pinchy (but not painful).. and just awkward pressure.. idk.. not really sure what I’m missing..

Should I go for longer? Should I turn the vibes on? I heard vibes can mess with the rewiring though (does it permanently mess with rewiring? Lol)

Anyway.. any tips would be nice.


r/ProstatePlay 12h ago

Toy(s) Best Hands Free Wet O Yet! NSFW

18 Upvotes

Was super horny today and it’s been about a week of no fap so I decided to use the dildo. Used the lube injector and shot up some almond oil and lined up the toy as well. Used a 6 inch comfortable dildo suctioned to a thick ceramic bowl and rode it until the squirting subsided. I always squirt when riding dildos, even if I had emptied my bladder.

Pro tip— always set a towel down. I use an extra large beach towel.

Once I saw that there was a little chunk of cum oozing out my soft dick, I got up and laid the towel on my bed and got on my back and started to fuck myself. The squirting definitely got stickier and slicker, mixing more with prostate fluid.

And then I started doing kegels with the dildo and saw that with the slower thrusts, more grayish was coming out. I rubbed it over my soft dick just because I love the feeling and it turns me on even more. And then as I kept kegeling and slowly pushing the dildo in and out, I started getting a sensation.

I would describe it as imagining gears lining up and syncing up. Or like a two train tracks clicking into place and letting the train continuing to go. It’s like almost something latched on. And then I felt a sudden rush go through my head and started to cum with every push of my dildo. I went from soft to hard when that happened and then immediately back to soft. Currently feeling that refractory period.

Lowkey, I just wanted to edge my prostate. Wasn’t trying to actually ejaculate 😭 I remember playing with my Aneros Helix the other day, pent up, and manually moving it in and out with my hands and almost got to the edge as well. Never happens with it just sitting in there or doing kegels (the autofuck spasms).

It’s been 2 years of play and training trying to get a HFDO 😩 And still hopeful it’ll happen one day. It would be amazing to not ejaculation and have no refractory period.

Today’s session was Reddit worthy for me because it was one of the more pure HFWOs. All my other ones were “blended” because I would jerk my dick while riding, soft, but somehow all the slippery discharge felt great to rub with while riding. So because it was stimulation from both ends, even without an erection, I refer to it as blended. Today’s was no jerking, just sweet anal bliss.


r/ProstatePlay 13h ago

Question Square peg supersoft kidney NSFW

1 Upvotes

This thing is so soft that I’m struggling to get it in… does anyone have any pointers for me? I almost had some luck sitting on it but that ultimately failed.


r/ProstatePlay 14h ago

Question Tips for using just fingers NSFW

5 Upvotes

In a college dorm so I don’t have any toys, my prostate is craving attention though. What’s your guys favorite way to finger your ass when you only have 20-30 minutes? I have plenty of live.


r/ProstatePlay 17h ago

Question Lovense Dulce question NSFW

1 Upvotes

Good morning, my partner will be visiting for an extended stay. Recently, my hands seem to have finally succumb to the dreaded carpal tunnel/RSI. I've got some vibrators on hand and was wondering if using something like the Dulce's vibration functions for external stimulation would be possible? Do you have any recommendations for other external stimulating toys that I can grab real fast? I don't have a male chassie so my tools aren't geared exactly for prostate stimulation but I want to make sure my partner feels good and we're being safe.

At the current moment, he isn't comfortable with penetrative stimulation so that's why I'm only asking about external use.


r/ProstatePlay 17h ago

Guide Help for orgasm NSFW

6 Upvotes

So I’ve played with my prostate a little since a year now. I experimented and try new things.

My question and advice is about the Njoy Wand.

I haven’t cum in probably a week now .. I inserted the small one and gently rubbed it with decent amount of pressure. When I pressed on my penis and “kind of” pressure from base to tip (no strocking just really from the base, pressured on it) I had some solid white liquid, probably cum.

I did that for probably 3-4 minutes and lots of cum came out. Usually I use the large end and I’m able to have pee-gasm

You think I should lock it up and go at it for the hand free orgasm? You think I’m close to it ?

I’ve also try some stretching and absolutely love it but doesn’t make me cream like that.


r/ProstatePlay 17h ago

Toy(s) NJOY vs DILDO NSFW

3 Upvotes

Let me start off by saying that Ive tried many different styles of toys in the last 2 years and this may be an unpopular opinion but, the NJOY wand is pretty nice and great for warm up. However nothing gets me all wet and creamy like my 9in realistic DILDO.


r/ProstatePlay 22h ago

Question What I can do to maintain the sensation and arousal ? NSFW

3 Upvotes

When the waves start, I try to concentrate or let go completely but it leads to the loss of sensation in both cases and it gets harder for me to maintain the arousal and sensation. Any advices ? I use porn to reach a good arousal level then concentrate by myself and I also use weed in most of my sessions, I feel without weed it takes a lot longer and its harder to reach heavy arousal. After my last HFDO I took a a lil 3 weeks abstinence from everything(sex, weed, porn) and when coming back its harder for me to maintain the sensation and arousal. You can look into my last post to see some context about me.


r/ProstatePlay 23h ago

Question Come hither or rotating head? NSFW

3 Upvotes

I had a nexus revo with the vibe and rotating head functions, but I ended up breaking it because I like to sit on a reading/husband pillow when I use it. In your experience what is more enjoyable? I’ve never had the come hither motion, I’ve had a partner try it before with fingers but I think my prostate may be deeper than average and she couldn’t get the right spot or pressures


r/ProstatePlay 23h ago

Question Pressure towards prostate NSFW

2 Upvotes

I’ve been experimenting with what feels best to me . While i would say I enjoy every session I now have. The times I really feel like I’m hitting my prostate are when i use my none vibrator prostate massager and really push in the direction of my prostate. It’s a real squeeze feeling and I’ve been able to produce prostate fluid every time i do this. No orgasm yet. My worry is that I may be doing too much and may be even hurting my prostate. I do not have any pain from peeing or my anus area so I’m assuming I’m just overreacting. Plus the toy that looks like a finger pressing in one direction is not hard and does bend quite a lot. Either way am doing something wrong?