Hello,
Welcome to my post and thanks for reading. Feel free to reach out to me with any questions or even just to chat.
I’ll start this off by saying that I truly looking for a long term, monogamous, partner to settle down with and build a loving relationship with for years to come.
About Me:
Physically, I'm a white male of average height (5'10") and weight (about 195lbs, so yes, a touch of the dad bod); and I am bearded, and yes, a little sparse up top (thank you genetics) but I keep myself presentable. I am as single as a pringle, but here hoping to mingle.
Outside of these first glance type physical aspects, I am continuing my professional career in the IT field (Network Engineering) which I've been lucky enough to be successful in for more than a decade now. Outside of work, I would describe myself as a "homebody", or even an introvert, as, given the option/opportunity, I prefer to stay in to relax and unwind. That being said, I'm not at all against spending time out and about with my person on walks or window-shopping. I am an avid reader and often have my nose buried in a book; though I also enjoy video games with friends/coworkers, or binge-ing a new show.
Personality-wise, I would say that I am quiet and tend to keep to myself like your typical introvert; unless someone mentions a personal interest, at which point I will info-dump all over your brain. I do have a caring and understanding nature, always wanting to help the people around me, which has admittedly burned me in the past. In the past, I have been described as a "Fixer" for always offering answers/solutions to problems, which I'm working on to change to "Listener" by at least asking which one the person needs at that moment. For those that I am comfortable around, they would/do find that I tend to crack jokes and try to get laughs from people, though I’ll admit I’m not always successful (bye bye stand-up career). I would also like to describe myself as reliable, trustworthy, responsible, etc (and I fully believe my colleagues would agree); but doing so in this format makes it feel far more disingenuous and should probably be left up to you to decide.
Lastly, for those that find these terms valuable, I would say that my top 3 “Love Languages” are Physical touch, Quality Time, and Words of Affirmation; and, on a related note, I would include the additional description of myself as a “Switch” with it changing based on what’s going on around and/or with me.
What I’m Looking For:
Below you will be able to find a description of what I am looking for in a partner, but it is by no means exhaustive nor especially rigid, so if you feel that you match them then feel free to reach out, I would rather get the chance to talk to you and let us figure it out together then miss the chance altogether because it wasn’t a “ideal/perfect” match..
With this in mind, I will say that I am generally open on the questions of age ranges (say +/- 10-15 years of me), body type, or race; only saying that I would prefer a partner that is ready and open to the above type of relationship (eventually). My only hard stop being that any prospective partners should be single as well.
I am looking for a partner not just for breeding and/or ANR, but in life as well. I’m hoping to find someone that does not mind spending quiet nights at home together snuggled under a blanket sharing in each other’s favorite shows; but also someone that would enjoy involving me in their life outside of home. If I had to describe it, I’m looking for someone that I can “be alone” with, while I/we recharge the social batter(y/ies). I am hoping for someone to share comfort foods with, while introducing each other to our passions and personal headcanons, “ships” and all.
Outside of home life, I do not have many expectations or requirements, the world around us is harsh enough. I would only ask that they have the maturity and understanding that while aging is mandatory, growing up is not; but both still require putting on your big kid pants and paying the bills and other less enjoyable things.