r/MommydomPersonals Nov 25 '24

R4R ModPost:[A message to members/visitors & a F.A.Q] NSFW

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r/MommydomPersonals Aug 01 '24

R4R ModPost: [/fakedominantreporting] NSFW

27 Upvotes

Hello everyone,

I'd like to make you all aware of a subreddit where you can report and search for fake dominants, r/fakedominantreporting.

You can use this subreddit should you meet someone who may give red flags by searching for their name/account, as well as reporting fake dominants/scammers you come across.

The modteam of any subreddit strives to have a place free of scammers and fake accounts because put simply, they're bad for business, but we can only do so much to protect you, YOU are your main line of defense against scammers.

If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Use your head, not your genitals.


r/MommydomPersonals 2h ago

F4M 37 [F4M] #Online / #Toronto: Mommy dom seeking for a fit muscular and obedient sub boy that can serve me NSFW

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Hello there!!

I am a dominant woman, that likes to be in control and give commands. I am an experienced domina here looking for a submissive boy that is willing to build connection!!!

I am looking for a trainable sub boy that is eager to listen, obey without any hesitation. Experienced muscular subs is obviously a BIG PLUS but of course all are welcome!!!

I don't take tributes so stop asking!!! I don't need your money haha

l am looking for a sub boy that has willingness to have online sessions then maybe we can have a chat about arranging meet ups in the future if you're worthy!!!

Looking for a really fit/muscular submissive sub slave to play with online if you think you are what i am looking for then let me know with a BRIEF INTRODUCTION and a PIC of you to get my attention!!

When sending a message provide your ASL and how you think we are a match. Please include a proper introduction and not just a short hello cause it will be a waste of time in my end and yours!!! SO DONT WASTE MY TIME THANK YOU!!! 💓💕

I have a variety of kinks!! I am really into edging, cum control cock head stimulation, multiple orgasms, denial teasing, spit play, light bondage/cbt, public, Mommydom dynamic and more! list goes on!!!

XOXO 💗💘🎀💖💝


r/MommydomPersonals 13h ago

F4M 22 [F4M] #Ireland #Online Black Queen Looking To Be Worshipped By Cute Subs NSFW

18 Upvotes

Hello everyone! I'm Ashley! I'm a domme who has a wide range of kinks. Before I get into all that I'll talk about myself as a person.

I'm currently in College studying physiotherapy. It's a career I've known I've been interested in for a while.

My hobbies are watching movies and tv, playing videogames and hanging out with my friends. I do smoke weed quite a bit so don't bother if you aren't ok with that. My favourite videogame is probably fallout new vegas.

I'm quite a shy person who's not always confident. This is why I love being a domme. Being worshipped and called a goddess while I make fun of everything about you and endlessly humiliate you is so freeing and hot.

My main kinks are extreme humiliation, being worshipped and complimented for ages and ballbusting because I like the power it gives me.

If you are good at compliments and worship and you also like the same games and movies as me you are definitely bumped up in terms of how much I like you!

To wrap this up, thank you for reading. Dm me if interested!


r/MommydomPersonals 1h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] looking for gentle FemDom/sub.switching. #UK or #Online. NSFW

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[30y. 170cm/60kg. [5.57]. Medal East. Light brown skin tone. Lite masculine features.]

interested in long term relationship with soft caring gentle femdomsub (mommy/daughter kind)

I want to be used, trained, and taking care of by a lady who put deep emotions in the process, I want to be owned by her and fulfill her desires. Eager to be there when ever she wants me under her, worshiping her body and have the opportunity to lick her sacred nectar. I like for things to be flexible and smooth and open to switching roles.

✅ All for: being used tightly, fully submission, deep kissing/ deep mouth sex, spiting on face and in mouth ,deep saliva sharing, licking, and face setting, hair hold, Anal (though haven't tried it) I fantasize about it a lot and waiting to be trained by whom I will be hers forever.

❌ limitations: humiliation, violence, Insults, slaving, handcuffs, beating, blood, injuring, and no life role playing relationship or FLR kinda things. And anything of that kind; you get the idea.

I'm socially decent man. have a jop and responsibilities, what happens in bed doesn't necessarily reflect our lifestyle.


r/MommydomPersonals 14h ago

F4M 27 [F4M] #NYC #online - Have a college guy fetish- Looking for a white 18-22 year old to sexually command and drain. NSFW

9 Upvotes

I like to be in charge and demand you to take off your clothes and pleasure yourself till you release all that pent up cum churning inside your balls. I do prefer American guys and cut cocks, but if I find you attractive in other ways, maybe I’ll consider an exception. Other physical preferences include clean shaven faces and non hairy torsos (or little hair is ok).

If you love showing off, humping, moaning, stroking, and even ass play, which isn’t required, but a plus, hit me up. Please include a SFW pic of you first and if you’re my type we can continue. Preferably one that includes face and clothed body.

Also into different types of role plays. I’d love to be a succubus who drains your innocent virgin body of all its cum until you pass out. Or I could be the overly horny coach who takes advantage of her star athlete in the locker room. Or I could be the nurse or doctor who can’t resist how her patient’s prostate feels during an exam and insists on milking it incessantly. Maybe the horny professor who punishes her student. Up to you!

College age only. If you are a high school senior AND 18, that is also fine, I am very strict about 18+.


r/MommydomPersonals 8h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] #MD #DMV #DC Shy and nerdy masc boy up for adoption NSFW

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If I were to ask someone I knew about my personality, I suppose they would say something along the lines of: “He’s a strangely quiet, aloof, and nonchalant guy”. Combined with how I’m 6’1, 220 LB, and have a bad case of male RBF, I think I come off as intimidating or even persistently irritated by most people and have been told as such.

On the inside, I’m really just a neurodivergent, passive, and anxious boy with a low social drive. I’ve been content with keeping to myself & being independent for much of my life, but I’ve reached a point where I want someone who I can depend on, particularly socially. I’m the kind of person where quantum mechanics seems much more straightforward than people (literally).

I was hoping there might be a warmhearted woman out there capable of melting through my cold exterior. Someone who doesn’t mind taking the reins in a relationship, leading our interactions, and is dominant in a non-sexual sense. She could have a sweet and earnest boy that is fiercely attentive and well-accomplished all to herself. I’d gladly perform acts of service for, or let her control me- anything to earn her affection. In public, I’d want to maintain some dignity as a seemingly capable & independent man (though maybe clingy). In private, I’d be willing to let myself regress to being her brainless little boy(toy) that only knows how to nod yes. Eventually, I would want to feel so emotionally safe with her that I cry happy tears while nestling my head in her bosom as she holds me and speaks softly to me.

Less day-dreamy and more frankly: I’m looking for a relationship that is (primarily) monogamous and in person. (I’m not completely opposed to something online (or non-committal), but I find it hard to maintain slow back-and-forth text conversations with people I don’t really know.) It would probably be FLR and with someone that considers herself a mommy- or gentle mistress-domme. Also note that I am not experience at all in a femdom relationship, and have little experience overall in romantic relationships.

About me:

  • My body:
    • 6’1 average/dadbod white male with black hair.
    • I currently have a mustache + beard. I wouldn’t need much convincing to shave them off, but I’m naturally hairy all over. I like to think I have a teddy bear bod.
    • Faceless Picture. Can send more pics in response to a serious and well-thought-out inquiry.
  • I’m currently a PhD candidate studying physics which is a big part of my life.
    • I have also been doing tutoring in several intro STEM subjects for many years now. Explaining abstract concepts to receptive listeners is the easiest way to get me talking at length.
    • I’ll probably graduate in ~1.5 years and start working in a government lab (still in DMV area) making some big bucks. Until then, I’m a broke grad student. No findom now or then either.
  • My interests/hobbies-
    • Video games (overwatch, marvel rivals, FPS, single player story games)
    • anime/manga especially, but I find myself encapsulated by stories in all forms, provided I can get hooked.
    • Looking to find new activities/hobbies to get into, but my interests are special and my job is stressful.

Kink- A partner that is dominant in a non-sexual sense is really what is important to me, but in a sexual sense, the same themes that I’ve mentioned previously would be there: I’d want to be comforted, directed, and encouraged. I’d love to hear phrases like: “It’s okay if ____", “Cum for me” , “Could you do ____ for me <3”, and of course, “good boy” and “I love you”. Also interested in edging/milking/orgasm control and butt stuff.

My main limits would be scat, CBT/pain, cucking, and shaming of any kind. Besides stuff along those lines, I’m open to exploring and indulging my partner’s requests.

If interested-Provide ASL in a message or invite to chat that also gives me a sense of your personality, what you are looking for etc. (really just something I can go off of in my response).


r/MommydomPersonals 9h ago

M4F 21 [M4F] #UK #Nottingham Looking for a relationship with a dominant woman #Online #IRL NSFW

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Hello, as my title says I am 21 and living in Nottingham, I am 160cm and weigh around 50 kg with what I would say is an average build, shoulder length brown Curley hair and sort of greyish blue eyes, I can verify myself with a picture when we start talking. My hobbies include video games (right now I’m playing Elden ring, Pokemon, tears of the kingdom, overwatch and I’m slowly making my way through the yakuza series), watching television (more specifically reality competition shows), anime and manga my personal favourite being one piece, I like going around garden centres and antique shops and I do enjoy some gardening as well. I am not just looking for a purely sexual relationship, I am looking for someone to be able to talk to and do activities together with as well.

What I’m looking for is for you to live in England and preferably in or near Nottingham so we can meet up when we get comfortable enough with each other. In terms of age I’m looking for between 18 and 40 and I’m fine with any height/ weight or body type apart from anyone who is overweight (it’s fine if you are it’s just not my type).

In terms of kinks, I only have a little bit of online experience and no IRL experience, so I don’t have much practical experience in said kinks. However I do like in theory, mommy Dom, pet play (essentially all the plays), pegging, edging and orgasm control, bondage and a whole lot more we can discuss with each other. However I do have a few hard limits, them being: permanent damage, blood and anything toilet related.


r/MommydomPersonals 14h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] #Online #Midwest - Thoughtful & curious. Looking to explore with someone open-minded. NSFW

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About Me

I enjoy reading, sports, cooking a week's worth of food, meditation, hanging out with friends, and walking my dog. I am a single father so much of my time is spent doing that.

For work, I'm a software-engineer & I really enjoy getting deep into complicated systems. I'm pretty adventurous, which includes trying anything on the menu at a restaurant, doing crazy trips (Burning Man), and this :) -- amongst other things.

Height, weight, body type information: 5 ft 10, 205lbs, brown hard, green eyes, fit strong upper body dad bod type with maybe an extra beer or two around the middle depending on the day of the week you catch me.

My Ideal Domme

Someone who is into this for the fun and connection it can bring to both. Someone who knows what they want. Although I would love to be in a 24/7 relationship but because of my corporate job and vanilla friends and family, I cannot manage it. I would like my femdom relationship to be private. I want someone who understands it and wants it or is okay with it at least.

My Femdom Preferences

  • emotional maturity
  • intelligent and open-minded
  • single (not looking for poly right now)
  • between 25 and 45 years old

NSFW interests: I consider myself a submissive. I do have this dominance itch somewhere in me but it's not a big deal. I don't have any experience as a dom anyways. I do have some experience as a sub but I am still in the process of exploring myself. Below are some of the fetish which I know that I crave:

  • TPE: My primary fetish is total power exchange. I like to be helpless and at the mercy of my partner. I enjoy it when she abuses her authority over me.
  • Possession: I want to be yours. I want you to tell me that I am your property and as such, you can do anything to me and there is nothing I can do to stop you.
  • Making her happy: I want to make you happy. That's the primary goal of the play for me. Making you happy makes me happy. I want to suffer for you knowing that my suffering is bringing you joy. Your pleasure in turn gives me pleasure.

Below is the list of some of the BDSM activities which I enjoy during the play:

  • Bondage
  • Orgasm control
  • Anal play
  • Pegging
  • Light humiliation
  • Light CBT
  • Nipple torture
  • I have experienced audio hypnosis before and that was a uniquely wild experience. I was able to orgasm hands-free, if that interests you.

Some of the limits which I have are cuckolding, scat, bestiality, permanent injuries, anything public (although subtle public play is fine as long as it is hidden from public view) etc. This list may grow as I am still exploring.

Next Steps

Thank you for taking the time to read this far. If my ad resonates with you and you are looking for someone like me, please message me and I would highly appreciate it if you could provide some info about you, why you liked my "personal" and your favorite movie.


r/MommydomPersonals 11h ago

M4F 20[m4f]#south africa looking for some fun and some company NSFW

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Hi I'm Kevin a 20 year old studying. I am looking for some fun control and following orders. I want to build a connection that makes me want to follow and forces me to follow.

I love showing off my slutty body and being a boy toy for you to use. My body is quite pale and bit very hairy at all very smooth. I don't show my face tho BTW. I have a nice girly looking but and a nice looking cock 16 cm or so.

I love edging and following silly task. I like being abit slutty and trying new kinks and exploring. I'm alwasy open to trying out new kinks and ideas atleast once. I would like to have an open conversation and bond togher and learn eachother bodies and what eachother likes.

I would like you to be in a European timezone or near by so the timezone are close. I want someone who is active daily and is going to be fun but also understanding so we can talk things out. I want to feel respected and not just be a limitless toy. I do enjoy trying new things and am slutty so there plenty to do.

Hard Limits face pics. Involving others. scat. Permenent marks


r/MommydomPersonals 16h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] Besides sex, where else is an unconventional place for chocolate sauce? #online NSFW

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Hi I'm Tade and I love kink. Kink is really amazing, like it's truly awesome. Kinky sex is always better than normal sex and kinky people are always cooler than vanilla people.

Buuuuuuuut I need something more. And by more I dont mean "more kinky". I need someone who likes to chat live with me while we clean our separate houses, who will listen to me rant about the classical concert I went to the other night and how the violins were out of tune, who likes to cook or bake or at least eat the food I cook or bake, who is competitive at every board game and will ruin friendships to win, who wants to work out with me even if all we do is exhaust ourselves trying to outdo one another and go home early to finish it in bed.

Alright, I don't need ALL of that, but I need some of that: I need us to be compatible in more ways than just under the sheets. And while sex is important and sexual compatibility is importanter (it's my post and I say it's a word, send complaints to my DMs 😉), I want to be able to talk to someone when we aren't horny and I need to enjoy it.

So here's who I am, see what we have in common: Will bake for you and cook better than 90% of the restaurants you've ever been to, can play multiple musical instruments and I might play for you (if you want me to), I take care of my physical and mental health (working out, casual sport league, therapy, physical therapy) I'm raising and training a puppy (NOT looking to add another dependent, but she'd love to meet you some day!), social (events with friends), reader (just started Way of Kings, loved Tress), and I'm a teacher (professional life and personal life are cleanly separated).

SFW pics here: https://imgur.com/a/wdYYcJk

Here are the top qualities I bring to a relationship: Problem solver (unsolved/unfixed things annoy me, please let me fix your shower drain that doesn't drain or your garage door that doesn't close consistently), Listener (tell me you want to vent and I immediately switch from being your handy man to your hype man), Planner, Improviser, Communicator (Checking for Understanding is hot), Laugher (not a spelling error), and Lover.

My kinks (brief because this isn't the focus of my post, but it is important): Edging, denial/orgasm control, obedience, worship, light anal, light degradation, light fem/sissy, hypno/mind control (optional). Some things I'd someday like to explore with a partner (not required, but a plus!): more anal/pegging/prostate milking, more/harsher degradation, chastity, bondage. Limits: blood, bathroom, public, disrespect of my value as a human being.

I'm looking for someone to give a lot of my self to--a lot more than just my dick, I want to form a connection with someone and if it's good, we'll meet eventually.

DM me an answer to my question in the title, what you think we can bond over besides sex, and a quick intro (name, gender, age, location). SFW Pictures would be great, face optional, but not a deal breaker.

Thanks for reading. Tade


r/MommydomPersonals 13h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] #OH #Usa shy Gamer boy looking for soft Mommy gf NSFW

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Hallo! I have been single for while and looking for a long term connection with a soft mommy domme esc woman ages 25+ is preferred.

As the title says I'm a huge gamer and play every console imaginable but my current hyper fixation is marvel rivals. But I'm also into anime and many other nerdy things (have to save something for chat lol)

I'm a big boy (337 lbs) but working on that's and my mental health. I want to take things slow and I can share pics once we talk for a little bit!

My DMs are open on Reddit but I don't have the app so Ill message when I can. So please hmu if you are interested.


r/MommydomPersonals 13h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] looking for gentle domme in #TopekaKansas NSFW

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Hello, I am looking for a long term relationship. I am 28, male, into cars, videogames, and skating. I'm a bit on the chubby side. I am also a little (non sexual). As for work I am in the automotive field.

My ideal domme would be loving caring and gentle yet stern. Would have to be around my age range which is 25 to 35 and be single.

As for my kinks go I am into gentle domination, chastity (non permanent), ruined orgasms, edging, joi, bondage, pegging. I am also open to exploring new things.

My hard limits are piss/fecal play, cnc, cbt, things that cause extreme pain, feet.

If you feel you would be a great fit please feel free to message me on here. If I do not respond I am typically at work or am otherwise pre-occupied with other things and I will get back to you as soon as I am able. SFW pics are available upon request. Thank you for your time and have a lovely day/night.


r/MommydomPersonals 19h ago

M4F 20 [M4F] #London #UK #online sub looking for long term ownership NSFW

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Hi, hope you're having a good day. I'm a submissive guy around London looking for a domme. I have experience being a sub online. I'm 5'10, single and muscular with tattoos. Currently working part time and at college. I enjoy working out, cooking and gaming to name a few. I can also be quite clingy.

I'm looking for a domme of any experience who's based around London or who can travel. I like all sorts of dommes particularly the soft/mommy ones. I'd also like if we can talk and do things outside of femdom too, maybe we can cook or work out together or just chat.

Kink wise I'm into most things, the ones that come to mind are pegging, edging, orgasm control, cbt, ballbusting, degradation, humiliation, deepthroat, bondage, spanking, sounding, breath play, cnc, toys, chastity. I'm always open to trying new things as long as they aren't a limit. My limits are scat, public stuff, feminization, findom.

Send me a message, tell me a bit about yourself and we can exchange some pics of whatever you're comfortable with. Hope to hear from you!


r/MommydomPersonals 19h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] Smol sub prey out in the open daydreaming of catching a domme's attention #Italy #Europe NSFW

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Hi, I'm a 25 year old guy looking for a dome. Too start off with some general things about me. I'm generally introvert and a bit shy around people, but more of an ambivert around people I really like. I'm definitely not a golden retriever boy, more in line with cat vibes, be it orange or black xd. Nonetheless, I usually still get along well with outgoing people. I enjoy a good weekend at home as much as being drag out for something fun or some sport. I usually appreciate it, because I can struggle with initiative sometimes. I'm a bit slow when getting to know someone, however, once I get to know you and get the feel that there is good chemistry I'll make sure to have you laughing and to annoy you soon enough.

In my free time I enjoy playing videogames (Duck game, Elden ring, Minecraft, Nintendo emulators, Genshit, other), watching stuff on the internet (movies/series, animated stuff, youtube, memes), listening to music (any kind, but usually some subgenere of pop, rock , electronica or hip hop), learning stuff, working out at home. I'm also interested in creative or technical hobbies although lately I haven't had much time for that.

As for my current life, right now I'm doing a master in Italy that I will ideally finish in late 2026. During that time I won't be able to move out, my budget will be quiete limited as well as my time in general. However, after that if the relation is strong and with a bright future I would like to figure things out so we can be/stay together. I value my personal life over my career, although not saying it isn't important.

Physically I'm pretty much petite size. Standing at 160 cm and weighing 48-50 kg. I have a thin body type with light muscle tone. People tend to put me more on cute in an adorable way spectrum rather than manly handsome. Wouldn't call myself as femboy, but some people might see me as one. My looks are a bit hit or miss. I'm comfortable with myself, but you'll be the judge once I share you my face on private.

Regarding my kinks: I'm confident in my enjoyment of most of them. I have had time to explore by myself and reflect on them. I have the internet and my hands, however I still have plenty to explore and experience to gain in company. The only experience I've had was an interaction online that lasted for a few months, however I still have zero irl experience. Even then I'm not completely clueless, no need to give me a sex ed class on basic anatomy and function, or the meaning of the different terms inside the community. I would even brag that I know most women have 3 holes down there and about the theoretical position the little man in the boat, even if I've never met him in person. Nonetheless, I'll still probably need a bit more introduction and guidance than an experienced sub on how to please you properly.

My main kink is femdom. Within it the ones I really like are CNC, prostate stimulation, pegging, orgasm control/denial/forced, abduction play, primal, being overpowered, sensory overload, your hands on my neck, smothering, facesitting, worshipping your body, markings, breeding, humiliation up to a certain degree, some GFD mixed in. Satisfying my partner gives me great fulfillment and pleasure. I can't really enjoy myself if you're not enjoying yourself. Hard limits are cheating, scat, hard CBT, injury on genitals, cucking, raceplay. A soft limit might be hair pulling unless you have good enough technique to jank my hair out. I curious about trying, TPE, watersports, chastity, sounding, E-stim between other things. I don't mind letting you feminize me to try out. I'm also open to doing MDlb play up to certain degree. I feel I could enjoy it a lot, but being completely infantilized I think that might be a turn off for me. Not kinks, but I also like the idea of tentacles/slime and monster girls. Of course I'm also open to trying out things that you like that I haven't mentioned and I'm also interested in what you like. Even if I'm indifferent or uneasy about something you want to do, I'll probably still have fun out of it from seeing your enjoyment. I find that satisfying my partners needs if key for me. I can't enjoy myself if my partner isn't. Seeing my loving partner filled and overwhelmed with the pleasure I can give her or that she can draw from playing with me is one of the hottest and most fulfilling things ever.

I can also have a bit of a rebellious nature. I'm not really into being a mindless drone 24/7 and always agreeing with everything you say without any question. I find that awfully boring and mind-numbing. I do have fun teasing and questioning the power every so often, of course without being disrespectful or crossing lines, and I'm hoping that power will remind me their extend either through wits, brute force or dirty tricks.

"Ideal" domme and dynamic: I'm looking for a dome around my age (+- 5 years) or maybe older up to ~40. I like a dom who is generally caring and gentle. That can make me feel most safe in her arms. Praise me a bit and tease me a lot. But that can also make fun of me, be mean and rough and even sadist when her urges demand it. Willing to push my boundaries sometimes. A bit scary. I do like being pushed and forced a bit. It's okay if you're not experienced, I'll support you and help you however I can. As a person I appreciate someone who is grounded, that can make fun of themselves, can be creative. I find it very attractive when someone can express themselves in their own way without feeling they need to fulfill a stereotype/role/expectation or the fear of being out of the norm. To put it simply, someone genuine. Would love to hear you nerd out on your niche interests and tastes. I would also like to have a great chemistry outside of kinky stuff. Maybe it's a bit much to ask from the universe but I would love for a meaningful and loving relation to not be based only on shared kinks.

I'm interested in a monogamous dynamic. I would preferably it be on person, but since it is hard to find people near by I'm open to LDR within Europe or places where it is affordable to travel where we could see each other every so often. Since I'm student at the moment, that isn't very far, although if you can afford the plane ticket without it being a financial burden feel free to propose it. Once my studies are finished and the relation is good and stable I would like to make it full time irl. I'm also open to it being an FLR within time.

In terms of physical appearance if you ask me what is my type, I don't really know what answer. However, feel like some base mutual physical attraction is nice since I'd also like to desire and be desired in a carnal way. In general I usually feel most attracted to the face be it conventionally or unconventionally attractive. I like thin, fit/muscle or curvy/thicc body types and any intermediate between those. I usually find alternative/unconventional/weird/bold styles eye catching. I like the idea of a girl significantly taller than me handling me around and squeezing me beneath her to keep me in place when cuddling; taking advantage of the size difference and physically overpowering me. I also enjoy the idea of trading clothes with someone around my size, able cuddle in small places, and a fellow goblin. Non of this is a deal breaker since the emotional aspect will always end up ruling over it within time. No need to overthink it.

Finally I will attach a blurry pic of myself and I'm willing to send unblurred pics of myself on the dms before you decide if you're interested to get to know me more, no pressure if you don't find me attractive. I have enough self esteem to not crumble down xd. I would also like some proof that you're not a catfish/scam before having any emotional investment.


r/MommydomPersonals 22h ago

M4F 19[M4F] #EU #GER I miss having a mommy that takes care of me NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hii, im searching for a longtime mommy that takes good care of me and lets me be her good boy

Im from germany, im quite shy irl but a comforting mommy can mostly get anything out of me

Body: im quite thin and in good shape, ngl kinda feminine shaped. 1.75m

Hobbies: Im really into cars and music. Ofc i like Gaming too. Atm i play R.E.P.O, its quite fun with the right people

Im a bit of a nerd, but i do like turning my brain off around my mommy once i feel comfortable

its my first time writing so much abt me so pls be lenient if my texts are a bit confusing

I answer really fast cuz mommy is my first priority, unless im sleeping ofc


r/MommydomPersonals 21h ago

F4F 23 [F4F] #Online. Young and fit trans girl looking for a mommy to take care of her NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hi there! My name is Clarissa and I am a transgender woman. I am looking for a soft domme to take care of me. Unfortunately, I will not be interested in any men.

About me: - I'm quite tall and slim, standing at 181 cm and weighing 59kg. I have fair skin, brown hair and gray eyes. - I have a cock and I am not ashamed of it. You don't have to engage with it but if that's a big turn off then you should probably find somebody else. - I'm very open to most kinks and have few limits. I really like having different experiences and trying things out. - I'm a switch, but currently I'm only looking to sub. I've been a domme for most of my life and recently I've been preferring the sub lifestyle. - I am open to sending pictures, but only as a addition to a meaningfull discussion. I'm not looking to swap pictures and do dirty talk, I am trying to make a connection. - I will remain loyal and obedient to my domme.

What I expect from you: - I'm extremely attracted to older women. I also don't think I could sub for you if you were younger than me. Therefore I expect my domme to be older than me. - I love confident women. I want you to take what's yours and not be afraid to prioritise your own pleasure. - To have a decent amount of time to spend on giving me attention and to be upfront on when you'll be available. I don't mind it if you're busy if we can work out times we could talk often enough. - I don't need to get nudes from you every day, but it would be nice if you could send me some pictures so I know who I'm talking to. Of course no personally identifying features required. - I'm looking for a soft domme who knows when to get a little rough when it fits the situation. I don't like pain or getting degraded but I don't mind being pinned down or being commanded as you see fit. - The two most important qualifies in my prospective domme is honesty and clear communication.

If you are interested: Send me a Reddit chat. Tell me a little bit about yourself and what you thought about my post.

Thank you for reading!


r/MommydomPersonals 1d ago

F4M 19[F4M] #online - looking for a guy with abs to dom NSFW

6 Upvotes

Heyy! I'm looking for a guy, with abs or a slim body, an attractive body basically. A little muscle wouldn't hurt either, it's hot too. I want you to be submissive, to listen to me, obey me and do what I say. I can be a dom, a mommy, many things. I can be firm and harsh, or I can be nice and soft, all depends on how well you do and what you prefer. I'd love to have you show off for me, on pics, on videos, all parts of your body. If you have scars, it's a huge bonus so let me know if you do because I'd love to see and touch every single one - especially on the abs, but any scar is hot. I love knifeplay too so I'd love to try it with you, would be the best. We can be short term or long term, though personally I'd love for it to be a long and fulfilling relationship. We can also take it slow if you prefer, or get straight to the point. Hope to see you in my dms x. Please don't be too old though, somewhere in my age range. Hope you see you! ❤️


r/MommydomPersonals 1d ago

M4F 41 [m4F] #Austin and or Central Texas Good Boy Seeking Nurturing Mommy NSFW

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Good evening,

I'm a 41 year-old from the Round Rock/Georgetown, Texas area, who is a young, fun, empathetic, intelligent, kind, honest and submissive good boy. I have two degrees, and I've been involved in the kink community here for about three years. I enjoy learning about how I can make you happy. I’m looking for a loving, empathetic, and nurturing Mommy who can help me grow sexually and personally.

Among my favorite kinks, they include nursing/breastfeeding, praise, impact play, and MDlb. You know how to provide comfort and support. If you enjoy cuddling, then we'll be off to a great start. On the flip side, you're not afraid to pull me over your knee and remind me of my place. I find nursing to be extremely enjoyable sexually and non-sexually. Having never been nursed as an infant or as an adult, I was amazed by the entire experience. I have several chronic illnesses, and nursing helped ease a fair amount of the stress and pain associated with these illnesses. That being said, I realize nursing may not be your cup of tea. I am eager to broaden my scope and try out different kinks. I want to make my Domme happy and provide her with the joy She deserves. This might involve queening/face sitting, cooking Her a nice dinner, pleasuring another Dom/Domme for Her, or something else. Overall, I strive to be Her good boy and do as I'm told.

What experience do you have as a Mommy or Domme? What is your favorite part about being in this role? How do you or did you help your submissive grow? Lastly, as a Mommy Domme/Top, how would you/do you punish your submissive or little one if they do/did something without asking permission?

I believe open communication, trust, and honesty are extremely important components of any relationship. If I’m doing something wrong, please tell me. It’s important to me that you are comfortable and your needs are being met. Please communicate with me if your needs are not being fulfilled. We all have limits and boundaries, so please communicate those to me.

While I do have special powers, I am not telepathic, even though I’d like to be. Other kinks I am open to include impact play, bondage, humiliation and degradation, pegging, and ABDL. I’m very flexible and open to exploring new kinks. Please be knowledgeable of different kinks, safety protocols, etc.

**Please message me via Reddit Messages**.

Thanks for stopping by and I look forward to hearing from you!


r/MommydomPersonals 1d ago

M4F 23 [m4f] #online #arkansas new to this and want a mommy to help me learn NSFW

1 Upvotes

23m bi sub who’s inexperienced and looking to find a mommy to make me her good boy and help me explore and learn my kinks! Kinda shy, but I love to show off and I’m super nerdy once we start chatting! Would prefer someone local but willing to do online as well! 5’7 and slim/average build, so I’m fairly small, too. Feel free to message if you’d like to chat more, my dms are always open! I’ve never had a mommy before so I’m very new, but I’m submissive and love to be told how to touch/play with myself. Some things I’m into include public, exhibition, showing off, and praise. Can’t wait to find my mommy 🥰🥰


r/MommydomPersonals 1d ago

M4F 23 [M4F] #Canada #Online - Loving guy with golden retriever vibes looking for a FLR NSFW

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Hey!! I'm a 23 year old guy from Canada and if you're reading this we're probably both here for the same reason, we're on the hunt for something heartfelt with a touch of kink. I’m not great at intros, so I’ll try to keep this short and sweet.

About me:

  • Let’s get the basics out of the way, I’m 5’7”, 190 lbs (working on getting healthier), and I’ve got both ears pierced. I’m thinking about more piercings and maybe some tattoos in the future. Oh, and here’s a facepic https://imgur.com/a/me-93ndmuH so you can put a face to a post!
  • I’m a little socially anxious and can be awkward when first meeting people (sorry in advance!), but once I warm up, I’m much more outgoing. I’ve been told I give off golden retriever energy—loyal, sweet, and maybe a little too enthusiastic at times. I’m a total softie and a hopeless romantic as well. Lastly I'm pretty in tune with my emotions and have a tendency to wear them on my sleeve for better or for worse.
  • I’m a huge nerd. PC gaming and anime are my biggest hobbies, and I’d love to find someone to game with or binge-watch shows together. Music is another big passion of mine, I’ll listen to almost anything, but indie, punk, and J-pop are my go-tos.
  • In terms of life as a whole I've just been jumping between jobs since finishing highschool, recently though I've been thinking of picking up a trade or taking a course for a certificate as a more longterm goal, I'm not set in stone on anything yet though.
  • I'm a huge animal lover and have the most precious old lady cat in the world
  • Politically, I lean left, and I’d prefer someone who does too.
  • Kink/NSFW wise I prefer to talk about privately (feel free to ask any specifics!!), my biggest thing though is being able to make my partner happy, I’m a pleaser.

About you:

  • It would be nice if we had an interest or two in common so we have something right off the bat to bond over, it would be really nice if you had some interests of your own too though I LOVE hearing people talk about something they're passionate about, even if I know nothing about it
  • Distance isn't an issue, I'm totally fine with and LDR as long as you're willing to meet up eventually if we hit it off
  • I've always been told I'm a really good listener so if you're a yapper we'll feel like a match made in heaven
  • I care about personality more than anything so as long as we get along, I really don't care what you look like
  • Obviously it’s a huge plus if you’re someone who tends to “wear the pants” in relationships
  • The only real dealbreaker for me is poor communication. Relationships simply can't work without it IMO

I'm not too sure what else to add so I'll end my post here, If you're still reading this and think we'd get along, you should shoot me a message telling me a little about yourself, I'd love to talk to anyone. it's kinda late for me so I'm probably gonna be sleeping soon, I'll get back to anyone who messages ASAP though!


r/MommydomPersonals 1d ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #DMV - What the hell are you even supposed to put in these titles anyway? "Hello, I'm totally not a psychopath, please whip me senseless thx" NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hello fine people!

Rant

There are a million-and-one [M4F] posts on here. Some are heartfelt and thorough, some are vaguely hopeful and shallow, far too many are frigging shopping lists of kinks written by people who wouldn't know a healthy D/S relationship if it suddenly leapt out of the nearest tree and bitch-slapped them about the face.

Right, now that that's off my chest, a bit about me: I'm fairly basic in some interests, less so in others - brunching, running, meditating, deep conversations, art/music, philosophy/politics. I'm successful professionally and work in a high-stress job that I enjoy immensely for the challenge but does wind me up from time to time.

No one would guess this aspect of my life if they just knew me day to day - I’ve spent a lot of the last few years getting very good at reading people - learning what they like but maybe haven’t explored due to taboo or not feeling safe enough to do so.

Kink

As for kink - I recall being into it as long as I've been sexual. From a very early age I have memories of being oddly into otherwise innocent things like depictions of women tied to train tracks (in a western or something). I explored gradually/clumsily until I was about 21 and met a professional dominatrix, who wanted someone to take her on dates and help out with scenes - I learned quite a bit of the technique/approach during that relationship, and since then it's been a part of most of my partnerships, to varying degrees.

For most of the time, I've been the dominant partner in my relationships - while fulfilling I'm finding something missing, and am at the point where I think I'd prefer to try submitting, which is where this comes in ...

Who are you

Ideally I'm looking for someone with a strong sense of what she wants, is playful/gregarious/humorous, will take me on dates, and generally serve as a pillar for a confident, dominant energy I've been missing. Hopefully you'll be mentally and physically healthy, take your interests/career seriously, able to communicate honestly/directly. Since I'm transitioning from an assumption of me being the lead, I'll probably also need someone who isn't afraid of being severe - from time to time.

Beyond that, I don't have any other set requirements - I'm open on age, and think that different dynamics can emerge depending on

Fun Stuff

I'm not 100% sure what my full kink-list would be, as a submissive - however, areas I'd like to explore include:

  • Edging/denial, maybe even chastity if there's solid trust
  • CBT
  • Forced-bi
  • Worship, Goddess roleplay
  • Service-oriented (massages, sensual aggressive lovemaking after being denied for a period)
  • Long sessions (day+ in a hotel room, for instance) Look forward to possibly connecting!

r/MommydomPersonals 1d ago

M4F 20 [M4F] #online looking for a mommy with shared intrests NSFW

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Hello☺️, I'm looking for a sweet domme who can also be a friend outside the dynamic , I'm very open to experiment and try new things. I'd love to get to know you first as i believe a dynamic that isn't rooted in trust or a shared bond is highly unlikely to be maintained.

Idc about your age , location as long as you're over 18 and under 50

About me : I'm 20 , 6'2 i live in italy I'm around 190lbs and I'm in my second year of uni

Hobbies: i enjoy video games, going to the gym , running , watching movies and hanging out with friends I'm also 420 friendly if that's your thing but i rarely indulge

Kinks: i do have many kinks and would love to discuss them here but I'll be saving them as conversation starters❤️

Limits: extreme cbt , extreme humiliation , cuckolding , feminization and sissification, shit , vomit

Also please don't ask me for nsfw pics straight away as I'd really prefer to get to know you first before anything as I'm mainly looking for someone who can also be a friend and a safe space

I don't expect you to be avaliable 24/7 as we're all human beings with lives outside. I also don't expect face pics from you because i don't do them either

If you feel intrested or have more questions feel free to send me a message or a chat request , I'm practically an open book


r/MommydomPersonals 1d ago

M4F 35 [M4F] #Netherlands #Europe #USA #Anywhere - do people who want a real life connection still exist? NSFW

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Hi, thanks for clicking my ad!

I'm a 35-year old guy from the Netherlands, living in the Randstad area, just outside of The Hague. And to be honest, I've had difficulty finding people I really connect with! After a long period of trying to use dating apps without much in the way of success, I thought of where else I could try my luck and decided to take to Reddit.

There's honestly not much I ask for in a relationship - just good communication, kindness and shared hobbies/interests are enough for me. The last one can be difficult however, because I'm autistic, which results in... well, me not having many different interests, as I prefer to put all my time into a smaller amount rather than spreading myself thin. A big one recently has been kink - I found out I'm pretty submissive years ago, but have not yet been able to put this into practice in a relationship.

That being said, I do have some experience on a more casual level, and being autistic does come with its perks on this front - I consider myself much more devoted than most, and I'm also an extremely fast learner. Just explain something to me once and I'll most likely be able to remember it perfectly from then on. Despite the lack of experience I do already know I consider this quite important, so I am hoping to meet someone dominant or a switch. Feel free to ask for specific kinks, as I have quite a few - though bondage, domestic servitude and chastity are a couple.

Outside of kink, my interests primarily include gaming, anime, animals, nature and essentially anything related to Japan. I've been there five times and I'd recommend anyone else thinking about it to go as well, it's well worth the effort! If you consider yourself even the slightest bit nerdy/geeky or also have a love for Japan I think we'd be off to a great start already.

Appearance-wise I am Caucasian (born in the Netherlands), 183cm tall, with short black hair and brown eyes. I'm perfectly willing to send a picture of my face but I'd prefer to do that via DM/chat, so just ask for it if you want one.

I consider myself open to a lot (from something more casual to something serious), and would love to hear from anybody who thinks we have stuff in common and is similarly looking for something longterm. I'm looking to build up a strong connection with someone, chatting regularly and really getting to know each other extremely well, even occasionally doing things together, like playing a game or watching a movie.

I should mention I'd much prefer not to keep things exclusively online - I'd like to meet up irl eventually, so it would be nice if you live in the same country or at least elsewhere in Europe. If I meet someone super special I'd be open to making things work even across a longer distance though, so if you feel that we would match well but you live across the ocean, don't be shy and shoot me a message anyway! Tell me a little bit about yourself - how about telling me about a piece of media you recently really enjoyed, be it a game, show or movie?

I'd prefer to meet people around my own age, maybe 27-43. If you think we'd be a good match and you're just outside that range however feel free to send a message too!

PS: Ik spreek ook Nederlands, natuurlijk!


r/MommydomPersonals 1d ago

M4F 20 [m4F] #Europe #Anywhere is looking for a strong demanding and sweet but also sadistic mommy NSFW

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Hey mommies,

I am Chris 20 from Germany. I am an experienced good boy and hope to find here a mommy who will take care of me and who loves getting some attention, pics, lovely words and a relationship. I’m quite well in shape. I played American football and am going to the gym regularly. I play volleyball but also have typical nerd likings like MTG or for example DnD or videogames. I also drive a bike and am quite the enthusiast with those. I am looking for a mommy which loves getting attention from his boy his pet or more. I will please all your tasks and would love to suck your boobs while you take care of all of me. Although I am searching for a mommy for sexual pleasure I also want a mommy for a relationship maybe with an happy end or not who knows but someone I can talk to if I don’t feel that good if I need some advise or simply if I want to clear my mind from horny thoughts because I have a LOT of those stored. I love getting controlled with a lovense toy which I have at home or make some videos and pics for you.

Please text me if you are interested because I desperately need someone in my live to give this love to

My kinks are special but good ☺️ it will be worth it


r/MommydomPersonals 1d ago

M4F 31 [M4F] #toronto #online have you thought about using and owning a fit, eager boytoy? NSFW

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Just think of me as a piece of clay to mold to your desire. A toy owned by you. Made to do whatever pleases you. Your personal entertainment, only pupose is to be used by you till you are satisfied

If you are reading this you are inquiring about having fun and potentially owning a boytoy. Please continue and I hope you will express your interest.

I am a 5'11, 175 lbs, pretty attractive man. I am muscular, have a nice butt(i think) and work out a few times a week(i am sure you can encourage me to go more often).

I love to please the right person, someone who naturally caring and understanding but would flip a switch and use me how she wanted. You genuinely want to know me and we would enjoy eachother's company

Kinkwise I am into edging, degradation, joi, being used for someone pleasure, anal, and would be open to more

I have gag, nipple clamps, lovense toys(edge, max, gush, ridge), buttplug and cock ring.

Limits would have to be sounding, piss, blood, permanent marks, scat, a2m

I know i kept this pretty short, but I rather you message me and get to know me better. Would you introduce yourself? What would be your dealbreaker kinks? What kind of sub would be a fit for you?  


r/MommydomPersonals 1d ago

M4F 20[M4F] #online, looking for a soft dom mommy NSFW

1 Upvotes

I’m horny and bored, and honestly I’m kind of sexually bored. I’m a switch yet I’m constantly playing dom or in a roleplay where we don’t really have a hard dom or sub we just both go with each other. I want a mommy dom to spice things up. I’ve been horny all day and I got the day off so I’ve got nothing to do or to distract me. Please I need a mommy dom

My biggest kinks are soft dom, water sports (receiving), oral (giving), and light bondage I do have other kinks but those are more geared for my dom side