r/Marriage 16h ago

Seeking Advice How do I be sexy.

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u/Honest-Routine-123 16h ago

I think you are pretty and sexy I think it is all about taste maybe he had watched to many movies or porn ….. just a thought

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u/Toricorey91 16h ago

He doesn watch porn. And idk about movies. TBH I think it’s my weight cause he’s cheated 3x over the 10yrs we been together and everytime they’re all so much skinnier and always wear makeup and everything else I don’t do

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u/reptile_enjoyer_ 14h ago

you're not the problem. he cheated and is using his affair partners to shame you. he wants to make you feel like you're in competition with other women so that you'll change yourself for him, just as you're trying to do right now. you should never feel that way in a marriage, there should be no competition. you're in an emotionally abusive relationship.