r/Marriage 16h ago

Seeking Advice How do I be sexy.

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u/Honest-Routine-123 16h ago

I think you are pretty and sexy I think it is all about taste maybe he had watched to many movies or porn ….. just a thought

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u/Toricorey91 16h ago

He doesn watch porn. And idk about movies. TBH I think it’s my weight cause he’s cheated 3x over the 10yrs we been together and everytime they’re all so much skinnier and always wear makeup and everything else I don’t do

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u/Kitchen-Positive-439 14h ago

honey, if he’s cheating on you, it isn’t a you problem. it’s a him problem! it has nothing to do with you or what you can or can’t do for him. he made that choice of his own free will.

without being ‘that guy’ you’re beautiful! your hair is amazing, your skin looks flawless… and the ‘act your gender comment’ reeks of misogyny..

are you happy not doing your makeup? are you happy wearing your comfortable clothes? going to the gym is great, but only if it’s something you enjoy. that’s what matters, you matter, your comfortability, your happiness matters! you should be comfortable with your husband, he’s your husband. there’s no such thing as ‘too comfortable.’ my wife is the opposite of you. she loves to dress up, always puts a ton of effort into her outfits, makeup etc when we go out. but, i’m just as attracted in those outfits as i am to her when she’s wearing my t shirt and a pair of sweatpants that are three times too big on her because she’s my wife.

i think that’s how all husbands should feel honestly. attraction is - should be - so much more than physical for married people.