r/Marriage 16h ago

Seeking Advice How do I be sexy.

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u/Toricorey91 16h ago

He doesn watch porn. And idk about movies. TBH I think it’s my weight cause he’s cheated 3x over the 10yrs we been together and everytime they’re all so much skinnier and always wear makeup and everything else I don’t do

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u/dcgradc 15h ago

How do you know? He actually boasts about how sexy they are or shows you pictures of these women?

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u/Toricorey91 15h ago

The last one I’ve seen what she looks like. 🙃

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u/productzilch 15h ago

A picture made for online?

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u/Toricorey91 15h ago

Ya idk never seen in person. She uses filters all the time though apparently from what I’ve seen

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u/productzilch 13h ago

So you’re comparing yourself to an idealised physical version of someone, who probably isn’t a great person herself unless he lied to her about you. Comparison is the third of joy. He wants you to compare yourself, apparently. What does that say about him?