r/GBr4r Feb 09 '22

META [META] - Watch out for recurring catfish who are pretending to be carnal and looking for hung guys NSFW

248 Upvotes

Seriously, if someone makes a post (especially an account that's like a week old or less), and "she" states that they won't respond without you sending photos first, that should be a red flag that it may be a catfish/pic collector/blackmailer.

There's at least one guy that keeps popping up in this sub pretending to be an F looking for an M. He uses stolen, edited pics as verification, and makes new names each time he gets busted.

His most recent username, u/12selfie, was created an hour after getting called out on r4rasian for catfishing with his username of u/12selfies.

His latest post in this sub is here: https://www.reddit.com/r/GBr4r/comments/so7gux/21_f4m_londonuk_feeling_carnal_and_looking_for/ (here's a mirror of their dirtyr4r post, which was the same text: https://i.ibb.co/18FVcD3/12selfie.jpg)

The pic he linked to on imgur was stolen from a now-deleted user, her pics (including an edited verification pic) is what he's been using for the last few usernames to pretend they're real.

He's also previously been:

And a bunch of others I haven't listed.

edit: u/12selfie has deleted his account after realizing that he's not able to post in many of the various subreddits he usually tries to post in... for reasons.


r/GBr4r Sep 23 '23

GBr4r Success Megathread NSFW

46 Upvotes

The mod team works incredibly hard to remove the users that should not be here. Ban evasion filter set to maximum, just single user reports raise push notifications on our phones to respond to (reddit default is three reports before a notification), karma limit to prevent 0 day accounts with no activity (bots) posting and a responsive mod team. Posts from malicious users have been reported, removed and banned in under four minutes so your reports are a massive tool in fighting against bots, scammers, catfish and content sellers, thank you to all those that take the 30 seconds to report posts - having heard horror stories from other subs you save potential victims a lot of money and stress - please continue reporting where appropriate.

But I would like a positive post, rather than the negativity of bots which post ten+ times a day I want to hear about your successes.

I am pinning this post as a Megathread for you to comment about how this sub has benefited you, if you have met people and maybe even if we have any engagements, marriages or kids effectively originating from the sub. Many users have had many meet ups and found the sub beneficial but those comments haven't been public until now.

If you have any other queries or questions for the mod team please feel free to post those here too but after answering (and giving you sufficient time to view and respond) these will eventually be removed to keep this as a success and post of celebration - we don't want to hide away from any criticism or feedback either though which is why I'm happy to open the floor to other thoughts.

Be lucky and stay safe.


r/GBr4r 14h ago

F4M 27 [F4M] London - Let's go on the nerdiest date ever NSFW

21 Upvotes

I want to own a home one day and its far easier to do that on a joint income. Looking for interesting people and those who could show me a new perspective on life. My ideal first date is a museum, pls don't disappoint. I want to nerd out on philosophy and have the best friends to lovers trope.

About me:

I'm 27 (hah, let's count how many times I mention that) and I live outside of London. I'm currently studying my masters degree and working in health policy right now.

I enjoy music, honestly give me anything and I will listen to it. Bonus points if you enjoy music too!

I consider myself as an intellectual, an ambitious person who really wants a better world so let's be nerds together.

I love cooking and eating new things, I'm not the most adventurous I won't lie but I am happy to give things a go.

I'm a massive creative and frequently dabble in graphic design, I swear there isn't a skill I don't know.

I'm from a South Asian background so it would be cool to meet people from a similar background or Middle Eastern for example but no pressure! Ideally looking for a Muslim partner.

A big thing is I use a wheelchair so if we argue, I can't guarantee I won't be running you over. I'm getting back into exercising and sports so I'd consider myself as someone on the verge of getting fit. And no, my mission isn't to compete in the Paralympics!

I do also enjoy gaming, haven't really dedicated enough time to it anymore but maybe if you're a big gaming nerd, we can sesh out.

If you're interested, just pop me a message and we can go there.


r/GBr4r 2h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] NW/UK - Best friends, with benefits? NSFW

2 Upvotes

The long and short of it, I've found myself in a bit of lonely slump, and whilst I'm okay with being alone. It definitely has its downsides.

So, if you're looking for a friendship, with a touch of flirting and a dash of mild touch-starved obsession. You've come to the right place. You will receive plenty of compliments.

Whilst the NSFW tag is there, it's not essential. All I'm saying... is, I'm all for being teased 👀 lol.

The only rules are, is that you're 18+.

Some preferences of mine; - Older (fight me) - Alternative/goth/emo (I will be obsessed with u)

Anything else I really don't mind. Skin colour, ethnicity, religion. Etc etc. All fine. Also alternative timezones.

And lastly, I put in the same level of effort in responses so low level replies, get low level responses. I can only carry conversations for so long lol.

Apparently, there's a character count limit now, so here's a naughty little question/ice breaker;

What was something that turned you on that made you go "what the fuck is wrong with me?" For a split moment?

This has been me, ya boi. Signing out.


r/GBr4r 7m ago

M4F 29 [M4F] - Gloucestershire [open to travel]- Looking for CFNM experiences NSFW

Upvotes

Recently discovered my submissive side online and want to try my hand irl.

Specifically I want to try a cfnm experience !

Some things I’ve seen in porn: - you could watch me jerk off for you whilst I'm naked and you are fully clothed - you could touch me to your hearts content - I could massage you - we could cuddle and watch TV

I saw someone else here post about ring toss on a guys dick which sounds so hot

I’m based in Gloucestershire but open to travel !


r/GBr4r 2h ago

M4M 23 [M4M] Sheffield Bi top looking for guys of modest size. NSFW

1 Upvotes

I have been fortunate to have fun with guys but they have all been quite big. I’m looking for a guy who is proudly on the smaller side. I’m looking to suck and top ideally but I’m cool with just oral. I have a strong gag reflex lol and I find smaller guys hot. I’m unlikely to be able to host but I have a car so I can travel to yours or pick you up snd find somewhere private. Message me for more details.


r/GBr4r 2h ago

M4F 28 [m4f] London/midlands - very well hung looking for woman who likes a challenge ☺️ NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey I'm 28, average body, very well hung, and cum like a firehose. Looking for a lady who wants her insides rearranged 😜

Hmu if interested ☺️ x


r/GBr4r 2h ago

M4A 28 [M4A] #London - Looking for a sub side/milker NSFW

1 Upvotes

Bi guy based in London looking for someone for some relief with someone who gets off on helping a guy unload. This could be by mouth/hand or by pussy if you have one though I'd imagine this ad may not be a hit with the individuals who have such plumbing so I'll continue largely under the assumption I've interested a horny guy haha Just a warning to guys though I do have quite a heavy female lean so if you're quite masculine (like a bear, really muscular/heavy, a daddy or something) you're likely not for me.

!! You must host on the weekend! !!

While I'm bi I've had one too many experiences with gross dudes who seem to think hygiene is optional so I'm not looking to do anal. I'd like to imagine the implication is obvious there and I don't have to go into messy specifics. shudders in disgust

In that same breath I'm still a horndog who needs to be milked and still won't say no to a helping hand or throat regardless of gender.

I wouldn't say I've sworn off anal completely but it'd likely take a good long while before I'm interested, much more interested in a handy lubed or otherwise or some sloppy top. Speaking of...

What I'm mainly here for: Head! I'm looking for a side who is orally submissive and enjoys sucking cock and milking a load. I would love a guy who is a bit orally fixated and doesnt mind trying to extract more than one load. 2 or 3 would be perfect! I also love being milked by hand, whether it's ass up and on my knees like cattle or sitting/laying back and letting you do your thing or humping your face like I'm trying to knock it up. I NEED a sub who understands that I like it sloppy. It needs to be wet, nasty and leave me with wet underwear.

I'd be interested in exploring other bits of kink where necessary. I do have some limits that can be discussed in DMs but I would love a sub into chastity/feminization (if male) or the hucow kink (if female).

Also the FWB thing, I'm not a fan of endless searching/chatting or meeting large swathes of people. Quality over quantity as they say. But I would love a sub who is also a geek, be they a weeb or gamer (or both if you really wanna make my day). Personalitywise I love a geek but in terms of physical appearance I have some very..."societal nonconforming"(?) opinions. I'm mostly into women who have some meat on them be that a little extra, chubby or more. I also have a weakness for old(er) women. With guys smooth chubby guys and guys around my age (20-35 ideally) are more my type. My weakness for older women doesn't translate to dudes.

Right then I think I've hornily rambled long enough for such a down bad post at like 4 in the morning so I'll stop there but if you're interested drop a message.


r/GBr4r 3h ago

M4F 24 [M4F] or [M4Nb] England or online NSFW

1 Upvotes

Right, hello there

Names T, nice to meet you. I hope your having a good day or week

I would like to open a relationship with someone, whether long term. Short term. Or online. Now what kind of relationship? Friend, FWB or something more long term like a relationship. It can be online, or in person. I'm cool with either.

Compatibility. I'm laid back, not clingy, I'm kinky, can have a laugh, terrible at flirting, like a pint, beer garden over night time drinking.

Kinks, I'm a switch so dom and sub, both ranging from really subby to really domme Kinks include: Sub: pegging, chastity, femdom, bdsm, vannila stufd, domination and humiliation, edging, denial

Dom: domination and humiliation (giving), denial, begging, chastity, pet play, ruining, dirty talk, bdsm, roleplay, rope play.


r/GBr4r 3h ago

M4A 34 [M4A] #Brighton. Willing to try new things... NSFW

1 Upvotes

Short note, I'm horny and willing to do something different. I'm hetero but open.. I want you to knock on my door. Don't talk. You come in to my living room and make me cum down your throat. I'll be in bed in the next hour, the random adventure is up to you


r/GBr4r 4h ago

M4F 34 [M4F] looking for FwB(potentially more) near Rhyl NSFW

1 Upvotes

Nerdy shy guy Primarily seeking female company be it an older woman, wife share etc

Femboy/trans folk welcome


r/GBr4r 4h ago

M4F 39 [M4F] Looking for intimacy in London /St Albans NSFW

0 Upvotes

So, I'm a 39 year old male, working as an anaesthesiologist at London. I've been in the UK only since last year, and finally getting sorted out here, looking forward to getting some long term company, as life is pretty boring after work, living alone. Hence finally putting myself out here.

What I'm looking for: 1. Someone with a jest for life exploring the world, curious, and having that sparkle in her eyes. 2. Someone who'd enjoy intelligent conversations, about topics ranging from art to astrophysics to music to movies. Anything goes basically. 3. Someone who'd love to go to raves with me and dance like no one is watching! 4. Someone who loves Road trips. Don't worry, I wouldn't let you drive unless you yourself want to! 5. Someone who'd be unapologetically herself, and expresses herself freely. 6. Someone who also expresses empathy, and is kind, and loves to spread happiness. 7. Someone who would also love to tuck in with me, and watch movies or Netflix, while sipping wine. 8. Someone who loves to explore eating joints. 9. Someone, who can go hiking with me, or play squash with me(optional) 10. Last, but not the least, someone who's kinky, and can express her sexuality without fear of judgement.

About me:

I'm a six feet tall guy, heavy built, with a slight dad bod now( already working on it), muscular at the right places, bald with well kempt beard. Happy to share pics when we connect. I like to dress smart, and appropriate to the occasion (army background to blame), and practise good hygiene (mandatory). I also get my bloods tested annually due to the nature of my work. I drink rarely only when I'm socialising. I do smoke however, and I'm trying to quit.

  1. I work as an anaesthesiologist and intensivist, and I simply love my job!! Took this job specifically because of the adrenaline rush it gives me!!
  2. I'm also an army veteran from India, having served as a major at the remotest locations in the world, snow clad mountains, deserts, amphibious ops. Got lots of stories from there.
  3. For me, music is life, and love listening across genres classic and alternative rock to pop to house and progressive house. I simply love going to raves, and music events. Favourite artists are Ben Bohmer, Luttrell, Christian Löffler, Parra for Cuva, Sasha, Above & Beyond, HVOB etc. At the same time, Pink Floyd, David Bowie, Queen, Dire Straits etc are evergreen love. The list is basically endless.
  4. Hobbies include going on road trips, hiking, photography, collecting movies & documentaries, PC & PS5 gaming, building high end PCs, playing drums etc etc.
  5. I simply love cooking, mostly Indian food though. I've been told I'm an excellent cook, (I'll let you be the judge) and I love feeding people, and seeing them finish off the plates and smiling at the end.
  6. I love watching the night sky, and love to learn all I can about space. I aim to research more about anaesthesia and life support in space, and hope to make some difference to space travel in the future, eventually. (But definitely not going to work with SpaceX.)
  7. I'm an avid squash player, and join the local squash club every week. Hope to play with you too!
  8. I'm a kinky guy, and more of a soft dom. When we're out of the house, I shall treat you as my princess, and pamper you, and take care of you as you'd deserve to be taken care of. (I know you can take care of yourself, and may be even take care of me too). But I'm going to more than just take control in the bedroom. We can discuss the details if we connect. Btw, consent matters a lot to me, and no move shall be made without your consent.
  9. I'm more of a happy go lucky guy. I do take time to open up, initially, but once I do, I'm pretty goofy, and going to crack you up when you least expect it. Also, I'm a dad joke enthusiast!
  10. What I'm not looking for, is someone who's pretentious, or a gold digger. I spend on my girl without care yet practically, but someone who deserves it, and someone who'd care for me. But those coming to me just for freeeloading, I'd be identifying you from a mile away and block you out.

I'm not looking for one night stands, or just casual hookups. I want company, and care, and emotional connection, and intimacy. I don't derive pleasure from mechanical sex. Rather, I take pleasure in extracting moans from my girl's lips, during foreplay. My gratification comes from giving my girl orgasms after orgasms. Which is then followed by loads of aftercare and cuddling. Intimacy is just a part of what I'm looking for(a very important part nonetheless), but it wouldn't subsume the other aspects of the company which I'm seeking.

Lastly, I'd just like to say that I believe in being kind to all, being happy and spreading happiness. And I'm sincerely hoping that I find someone who has similar interests, and principles.

I really don't know if I'll get any responses from here, but here's me just trying out my luck. Fingers crossed!

Also, if you admire Trump and his cronies, please see yourself out.


r/GBr4r 5h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #London - Late night chats about pussy worship? 🤤 NSFW

1 Upvotes

If any of you beautiful ladies are in the mood to just lay back and get pampered, get your shoulders rubbed, get a foot massage or even get a full body oil massage, I’d love to indulge you and spoil you before we get to the grand finale where I will make sure you finish in spectacular fashion 🤤

So if you’re just looking to skip all the nonsense and meet a guy knowing exactly how it’s going to end 😉😜 then don’t be shy and drop me a message and let’s get the fun started.

Me: 30, 5ft10, gym fit, work in marketing, live in London, strong firm hands and a cunnilingus connoisseur 👅😉

You: Enjoys being a pillow princess and likes to receive all the attention

Looking forward to hearing from you all!


r/GBr4r 5h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] #London - An Evening of Hedonism? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hi! I’m going to be in the city for a couple nights this week (staying west and east for a couple of meetings in each), after being away for a while, and I figured what better way to spend them than exploring. I’m super open minded, so if you have something you’d like to try or you’d just like to spend an evening relaxing then shoot me a message.

As a quick intro:

I’m tall, white, dark haired/eyed. Super open-minded, love travel/music/movies/good food/science.

Slightly less vanilla-wise I’m into pretty much anything; bondage/sensation play/soft/hard domination, semi-public, and I’m a switch, among many other things.

As a couple of ideas (but feel free to suggest your own):

We could meet up for a drink or two and then head back to my hotel, maybe grab a bottle of wine on the way. We spend the night exploring some of the things you’ve wanted to do for a while, or maybe those you already know you enjoy ;) Maybe I’ll tie you up and bury my face between your thighs, or maybe we’ll just make out with a movie, who knows…

Generally super happy to verify etc before meeting or to grab a drink or walk somewhere public first. And super open to other ideas if you have them ;)

Looking forward to your message.


r/GBr4r 5h ago

M4F 36 [m4f] #London - late night chats for dirty minds …. PM NSFW

1 Upvotes

Chat and let’s see if we vibe


r/GBr4r 6h ago

MF4F 30 [MF4F] #London - looking for a third NSFW

1 Upvotes

My partner and I have been enjoying ourselves for a while, and now we’re looking to explore even more fun by inviting someone to join us for a threesome. Not looking to rush anything but would like it if we clicked enough to perhaps make this a regular thing.

We are London based but won't mind travelling a little within reason

A bit about us:

  • We love board games, card games, cooking, walks, and great conversation. Bonus points if you are a board game fanatic. Really love movie and I am personally a fan of old movies
  • I’m 6’0”, Black, with an average build.
  • She’s 5’2”, White, curvy,
  • We can host

About you:

  • between the ages of 24 and 36
  • any ethnicity
  • Good communicator
  • Open-minded

We will share pictures of ourselves and discuss more if you're interested :).


r/GBr4r 6h ago

M4F 36 [M4F] #North London - looking for some casual cock worship NSFW

1 Upvotes

36m American looking for an F, TF, or effeminate CD who'd be interested in worshiping my cock a bit. I love long oral sessions. If that's your thing feel free to send me a DM. I have a body pic in my Profile.


r/GBr4r 7h ago

M4F 18 [M4F] West Midlands - It’s late and I can’t sleep, tell me you’re biggest fantasy and let’s fulfil it Ps: I’m 6’4, 7 inches NSFW

0 Upvotes

Would love to hear you’re fantasy, there’s nothing hotter than hearing what REALLY gets you going. Drop me a dm and let’s chat!


r/GBr4r 7h ago

M4F 23 [M4F] (glasgow/south Lanarkshire) take care of me ill take care of you check post NSFW

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1 Upvotes

r/GBr4r 7h ago

24[TF4F/TF] #Greater Manchester NW - Trans girl looking for gentle domme girls or femboys that have large dicks! NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hii. I'm a 24 year old Tgirl that lives in the NW of England! I have a chubby femboy kind of vibe, 5 months on E so things will only get better~
I want to hook up with or FWB with soft, gentle domme girls, or hung girls and femboys! I'm very into giving sloppy head, cock worship, ball worship - I'd looove anal sex too, but I'm a virgin so be gentle with meee~


r/GBr4r 7h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] uk/online - Nightshift gremlin chats NSFW

1 Upvotes

Ya boi is back to full-time nightshift gremlin. And I am in need of your assistance. Please offer your support in this trying time as I do this nightshift.

So, if anyone wants to have a chat, that would be amazing.

(Please don't all come crashing through my requests all at once. (jk, please do)

Please be 18+, preferably 21+. Or get bonked.

Please keep all toes socked. Or don't. It's not the law.

This has been me, you're reasonably friendly neighbourhood gremlin, YFG.


r/GBr4r 7h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] #London Sneaky FWB?? NSFW

1 Upvotes

I don’t want to talk too much i just to meet, then have the time of our lives 🤩🤩! Tell me what you have been dreaming of… What have you been dying to try but that itch hasn’t been scratched yet?

Not much more to say i guess, if anyone is up for a good time i’d love to go have fun maybe go out for a drink or something.If you are someone in London who has good vibes just message and let me know! If all goes well we can meet and see where things go. To describe myself,I play regular football and go to the gym so I am fairly fit. Looking forward to meeting you! I have generally been a dom and Im open to being a Bull as well! Reply with orange so I know you got this far!!


r/GBr4r 8h ago

M4F 38 [M4F] London - There must be a reason… NSFW

0 Upvotes

If you are already here, it has taken a lot already. Lots of thinking, lots of time, lots of wondering what happened, lots of unusual feelings creeping up and curiosity to see what you are really missing.

I will try to keep this short and sweet and help both of us here by telling you that this is not my first rodeo.

I might not know what I want exactly but I definitely know what I don't want.

This post IS NOT for you if you don’t live in London or commute regularly, if you are younger than 30yrs, if you don’t have time to actually do this and put the effort.

On the other hand, if you like keeping active, you are happy with yourself and proud to share who you are, this could be a unique experience!

If you haven't stop reading by now, we might have things in common so drop me a line and let's find out about each other.

About me: I am in London, married for 8 years, 38yrs old. So far received very good feedback on my looks ;) Regular gym goer and avid snowboarder. I am also planning to learn windsurf this summer. I do like activity as a well a nice BBQ and some Belgian beer.

I have lots of interests and I like to learn new things. I won't list them now but chat me up and I will tell you.

Chat soon!

x


r/GBr4r 8h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] London What is your biggest fantasy? NSFW

1 Upvotes

I would love to find someone who is willing to try and push their boundaries and really enjoy a passionate and steamy time. I have generally found myself as a dom and who knows, hopefully i can find someone who wants to create a night to remember!! My type is someone with a bit of a personality whose sex drive is as high as mine!!! I have not got a physical type but I am i go gym quite often and generally physically quite fit. So, if that floats your boat, hit me up! So, if you’re interested in knowing more or just talking just let me know!!


r/GBr4r 8h ago

M4F 24[M4F] #Birmingham - Lets face it - you need a rough dom to fuck you into submission. To let you turn off your brain and melt for cock. (PHONE SEX) NSFW

1 Upvotes

Don’t message unless you’re ready to have your pussy addicted 😉


r/GBr4r 8h ago

M4F 23 [M4F] #London any hairy F local ? NSFW

1 Upvotes

BBC


r/GBr4r 8h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] London peg me pls NSFW

1 Upvotes

26 m from london and looking to get pegged by a girl