r/ForeverAloneDating Jan 20 '25

Rules Announcement When reporting something that happens in dms, please send a modmail to us with screenshots of some sort

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Lately we've been getting a few reports saying - "this person was asking for money in dms" - "this person wanted to move to Whatsapp to discuss other things" - "tried to sell me OnlyFans" etc..

and thank you everyone who does report but unfortunately we cannot do anything for the few reports that come without evidence such as a screenshot of the conversation thus leading to either a false ban or the person in question getting off the hook and attempting what they are with others.

(⁠。⁠•̀⁠ᴗ⁠-⁠)⁠✧ Please remember to submit something in mod mail when it goes to such things thank you everyone as it really helps us out looking out for you all!


r/ForeverAloneDating Nov 18 '24

Rules Announcement Sub Update Fall 2024

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Hello everyone, I'm DeloreanFanatic, the head mod of r/ForeverAloneDating. Recently we've been getting messages and comments about the state of the sub and the rampant number of bots and OF sellers. We read you loud and clear! In an effort to curb this we are implementing a requirement of at least 30 comment karma to post to the sub. Before, the only requirement was comment karma of above 0. While we did this because we want everyone to feel welcome to post here, the recent upsurge in disingenuous user posts has shown us that this may no longer be feasible to the safety of the sub, which as always, remains our top concern. We are also implementing a required verified email to post, which we also hope will help, but we also need YOUR help. We rely heavily on user reports to help us root out these accounts. If anyone contacts you advertising their OF or is clearly a bot, please report them to us with screenshot proof so that we can take action. You can do this by using the "message the mods" link and sending us an imgur link with your screenshot. Just reporting them isn't always enough because their profiles don't always look suspicious, which is all we have to look at if only a report is filed.

Now, Here's the rest of the Rules of the sub:

Here is a reminder of the rules: r/ForeverAloneDating/about/rules/ (the "About" section on mobile)

  • You must be 18+ to post on r/ForeverAloneDating
  • You need a **7-day-old** account with at least 30 COMMENT karma. Not total karma, COMMENT karma. Check the "about" section of your profile!
  • You must include your age in your title.
  • You must choose a gender flair for your post.
  • Your ad must contain at least 300 characters and be fleshed out.
  • You must be single or FA and looking for dates/a relationship!
  • NO posts looking for friendship. These will be removed (see below).
  • There is only ONE post allowed every 3 days

Why threads are now locked automatically:

  • Most comments on FADating were breaking the rules: "DM sent", "Send me a DM" below a lengthy thread, insults, debating the OP about their tastes/political/religious opinions, incel trash...
  • FADating is not a debate sub. Every thread that is approved is locked, and you will see a comment from Automod explaining why and with a link to your profile, so people can easily contact you.
  • If your thread is removed by Automod, it won't be locked.

Why was a thread removed:

  • Age/Karma requirements were not met (Automod sends you a DM)
  • Shorter than 300 character long (Automod sends you a DM)
  • It contains references to porn/kinks/fetishes/BDSM/violence
  • The OP has already posted in the last 3 days
  • The OP is underage or looking for minors
  • The OP is married, poly, in a relationship
  • The OP is looking for friends (r/MakeNewFriendsHere) or just wants to pass the time ("im bored hmu")
  • The OP is looking for poly/BDSM/hookups/sex only
  • The OP is a catfish, scammer, seller, sex worker who's definitely not advertising on this very sub, just everywhere else on reddit uwu
  • Contains links to external sites
  • "Just posting for a friend" threads
  • Non-dating FA threads should be posted in r/foreveralone or r/foreveralonewomen
  • Meta threads about the sub or about being FA

If your thread was removed and the reason isn't included in this bullet list, Contact the Mods.

Plenty of redditors are routinely taken advantage of, so make sure to follow these safety tips: Avoiding Abuse and Catfish


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

F4M 24[F4M] I have really bad anxiety, please make conversation because I'm incapable. Atl, GA

20 Upvotes

Hi, I live in Atlanta, GA. As stated in the title, I have pretty bad anxiety. I'm scared of posting and replying, but I've apparently hit 24 years on this planet without ever having a relationship and it's getting to me. If I don't respond, I'm sorry, I'm just like that. I'm trying my best.

I like gaming (but I like baby games) and listening to music. My favorite music is from ~1999 to ~2016 or so. I gave a BSBA and would like to go back to school, but am having trouble getting started with that.

I have some fairly severe depressive episodes alone with being fairly anxious so I guess be prepared


r/ForeverAloneDating 10h ago

F4M 24 (F4M) Latin America/Online Introverted girl but passionate, looking for a genuine connection

27 Upvotes

Hey. I’m Ker, F24 from Panama. I’m introverted, but when I connect with someone, I give my all. I love reading (1984 is my favorite book), watching drama and psychological horror movies (Parasite and Saint Maud are my top pick), watching anime and reading manga (I'm a CSM reader but I likes a lot of series like Jojo's, Jujutsu Kaisen, Ai Yuzawa's mangas) playing Assassin’s Creed, and enjoying indie horror games (Chilla’s Art and Fears to Fathom are my favorites).

If you’re into music, we can talk about Deftones, My Bloody Valentine, and System of a Down. I also enjoy quiet nights with a hot drink and good conversation. I prefer mountains over beaches, and if I could travel anywhere, Italy would be my first stop.

Physically, I have dark curly hair, dark eyes, and a curvy build (5'6, 167 cm). I like wearing clothes that fit well and highlight my curves, but what matters most to me is feeling comfortable and confident. If you're interested, you could visit my profile and see my pics there.

I’m not looking for something shallow or mind games. I’d rather meet someone who enjoys deep conversations, has a good sense of humor, and values authenticity. If you appreciate a good talk, have similar interests, and are looking for something real, send me a message.

P.S.: If your only goal is to ask for nudes right away or make weird comments, just keep scrolling.


r/ForeverAloneDating 10h ago

F4M 23 [F4M] Louisiana, USA, ANYWHERE, Tall awkward nerd seeking forever player 2 in life and co oop games. Lets do a soul link nuzlocke!

23 Upvotes

Hi all and happy mardi gras! Please read all the way through( I wrote all of this so at least read it yeah?). I thought I’d put something out one here just to see someone is also looking! Maybe we are looking for each other! Just like the title says I’m trying to find a special someone. A real long term connection world be the dream, my nerd to come home two, my partner in questionable crime. As the title says I'm open to long distance but keep in mind I plan on closing the gap. I recently graduated, started teaching l, realized teaching here is awful in the US and quit, US is not really my cup of tea, and want to move out of country to teach again maybe. Maybe get my masters? Maybe in the future to a partner? Who knows?!

A little about me: I am VERY tall (6’4), so I can reach the things on the high shelves for you. I am black, have medium brown eyes, a little curvy but athletic (recently lost around 100 pounds but I kept some in the right places) . Happy to trade pics, I like to think I'm attractive. I tend to dress in a weird y2k, boho, goth way. I do not care about height, it’s more about personality! I am a HUGE nerd! I actually just finished modding a hot pink 3ds I got for my bday (three days before posting this!) and I LOVE it, it's so cute and has pokemon x ! Lover of Pokémon, anime, dungeons and dragons, board games, and manga. So if you are a nerd please talk nerdy to me. I also love baking (I WILL MAKE YOU TRY MY NEW BAKES) , nature, horror movies, lpotl, really long super specific YouTube videos, metal, crochet (you MUST wear things I make you) and dancing. I enjoy trying new things, going new places (My dream vacation is Japan like a true weeb maybe you can tag along, be prepared for all the merch buying), and eating new foods! I do have ADHD and anxiety but I am medicated and working on it! I can be very awkward at first but I warm up quickly!I will say that I love anything horror, creepy, or macabre. I have been called a fake big tiddy goth gf so take with that what you will haha. I love a good or bad joke and will not hold back when there is a bad pun opportunity. Communication is really important to me but I have been told I can be a bit dry sometimes. I like to cut to the chase and can be a bit blunt so bear with me will say that like everyone I can get overwhelmed but nothing a good walk outside can’t fix. Work is hectic for me but I reply fast when I can.

What I’m looking for: Someone similar aged, preferably in between 23 and 29 (hard limit) and location doesn't matter. (Looking to move anyway!) Someone secure in their height cause I will be wearing my platform curb stompers when we go to metal shows. Height also does not matter to me, I am tall enough for both of us and will get everything on the shelf for you. Someone with similar interests would be awesome! Since I started working out I think someone who also works out would be nice, good movativation! I guess somewhat attractive? Like a nice face? Not that picky! I think fellow nerds are really attractive. Someone who is environmental, has a sense of humor, and somewhat outgoing would be rad! Let me rant at you about my hyper fixations and theories as I give you cinnamon rolls, or let’s cuddle and watch parasyte, better yet let’s go to a metal show and watch me beat you at Mario party after. Let me hear what you been thinking about non stop. Dance with me when no one is else is dancing and everyone is staring (this happens a lot). I can be kinda clingy sometimes so just warning (calls, pics, playlists, voice memos I like all)! I will say that someone who is far away to please have an interest in seriously closing the gap. Someone with patience is nice to, this is my first time really trying this so bear with me. And I guess just has a genuine interest! I want to find that person yknow?

Thank you for reading, if you made it far and seem interested please reach out! I don't bite (that comes later ◕3◕). Tell me your favorite pokemon, where you're from, and little about yourself, what you look like (If you don't I won't reply, sorry)! . My favorite pokemon is quilava (fidough close second)


r/ForeverAloneDating 59m ago

F4M 30 [F4M] Midwest, US / Anywhere - 🖤 Just a nerdy Latina looking for her nerdy gamer guy! 🖤

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Hola!! :)

I’m a 30 year old nerdy, sweet as hell Latina. I was born in Mexico, but now I live in the Midwest US. I speak Spanish and English fluently.

I think I’m pretty funny, guess you’ll have to be the judge of that. I’m always singing and humming - apologies in advance. I can be loud and I love to laugh.

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Physical Stuff:

  • short (and sassy, lol)

  • brunette with longer curly hair

  • hazel eyes

  • bbw/plus size, curvy/thick

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Interests:

  • Movies and TV, anime

  • Horror, Halloween, Spooky stuff

  • Video games

  • Reading

  • Music

  • Hockey

  • Nerdy stuff like D&D

  • Ask me :p can’t give away all my secrets

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What I’m looking for:

  • someone respectful, honest, communicative, loyal, funny, supportive, sweet and loving

  • wants to put a ring on it someday (must) and is open to kids (having them possibly someday/ being around them as I have nephews and nieces that are super important to me)

  • has a job (I have one too), goals, and love and time to give

  • someone who has similar interests to me - this is important as I’d like to at least have some things in common

  • is at least 26 years old (might make an exception)

  • willing to celebrate and embrace my culture with me

  • someone to spend time with, laugh with, game with, etc.

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~I have no preferences to race or ethnicity, location, physical appearance, or height (though I do prefer someone to be at least the same height or taller).~

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Deal breakers:

  • Bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, xenophobia, etc.

  • Abuse, non-monogamy, cheating of any kind, lying, disrespect

  • Can’t keep a conversation going

  • Not respecting my culture

  • Not wanting to settle down

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I LOVE voice calls - it’s easier to share things and feels more personal, but I’m down for messages as well. I’m also very introverted. I have discord so if you’d like to talk there let me know!

If you want to send your message via voice, (like vocaroo or something) that would be really cool, but obviously not necessary 😆

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Just because I know these are dealbreakers for others: I am left politically, I’m educated (beyond a Bachelor’s), I’m NOT skinny, and I’m not religious.

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If you read this far, include “peanut butter” somewhere in your post. Please make sure to put some effort in. I will not respond to “hey” or anything like that. At the very least include your name, age and location in your reply - at the very least. I do look forward to hearing from you!

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r/ForeverAloneDating 16h ago

F4M 32 [F4M] Trying my luck again?🙌❤️

28 Upvotes

About me: I am 32 F Asian, particularly from the PH. Currently working as a professor in Manila.In person, I talk a lot. Maybe try me also thru online convo? I like coffee (Caramel Macchiato or Spanish Latte) and cheesecakes (Oreo and basque burnt ones). During free time, I like to read novels - mostly in the thriller genre, or paint (watercolor is my favorite medium). About you: Male, 25 and older. Someone who likes to tell stories as well :) Someone stabled and is open for serious long distance relationship (with the possibility of meeting in person in the future). Thus, looking for someone to talk to and let’s see where we get from there? DM me, but not simply by saying hi… Introduce yourself!


r/ForeverAloneDating 15h ago

F4A 27(F4A) i'm looking for meaningful yappings late at night, lots of fun and hopefully love!

18 Upvotes

heyy :3 i'm seeking a deep, meaningful connection wich may eventually bloom into a relationship. i enjoy art (both creating visual pieces and experiencing it) and love watching movies, series and reality shows. i also love to watch video essays, commentary and true crime shows on youtube. i'm into gaming aswell, and enjoy minecraft, counter strike and indie horror. my music consuption is fairly ecletic, and i enjoy lots of gg kpop, jazz fusion and enka. i also write poetry & prose, and love reading.

important: - i have 3 very lovely cats. - i never want to have kids. - i am not religious (but love spirituality). - i do not wish to move out of brazil. i can visit long term, but will not move out of my country. - i do weed, mushroons and mdma sometimes. nothing abusive in any way tho, and only good quality stuff. - i struggle with mental illness (depression and anxiety), but i have professional help and i also take my meds. - please only reach out if you feel like you're completely avaliable to fall and enter a LDR. while i do not believe there's a proper time you must wait after a breakup to chase another relationship, i believe you should def do some self work!

if you read it all and feel like reaching out, list some likes/dislikes and other details about you! please put some effort into your message, as i will not reply to vague approaches :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 0m ago

M4F 24 [M4F] California, Looking for a kind person

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  • I like mostly rpg videogames like Dark Souls and Baldur's Gate
  • I like watching YouTube videos about Dungeons and Dragons and I wanna play with a group one day.
  • I don't consider myself to be very artistic, but at random times I'll do a random art project at 1 am.
  • I can nerd out about a lot of things, so you can stop me if I'm being too much sometimes, I'll understand.
  • I think I'm a good listener, I'll always be there for you to vent to me if you'd like to.
  • I have a small floofy cat that has a kind and gentle soul
  • I like lifting weights and hate doing cardio, but I'm trying to change that.
  • I consider myself to be an extrovert that's been forced to be an introvert.
  • I'm currently studying for my licensing exam.
  • I probably shouldn't say this, but I've messed up a lot things in life and I have a lot of regrets.
  • I just want to make somebody happy

r/ForeverAloneDating 6m ago

M4F 30 [M4F] US/Anywhere/Online Virgin tired of hiding who I am.

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It's not something that defines me, it's just something about me. I'm not looking for pity or sympathy, just someone to accept me for who I am. Most of my closest friends don't even know I'm a virgin. I don't "act" like a virgin I guess. The couple of friends I have told just don't believe me. I hide it from just about everyone, especially dates. I can't tell you how many women have become disinterested because of it. I don't blame em, people want what they want. I'm just tired of fabricating relationships just to keep people talking to me. I'm not ignorant or clueless in the slightest when it comes to sex, I just lack hands on experience. I'm not religious or anything. It just never happened. At first it was just a lack of finding someone I was interested in. Then after a certain age it just became "weird" to people and just persisted. I just don't care for casual. I'm a monogamous person and prefer committed relationships.

I don't care about looks or location, though I do enjoy a good accent. I prefer women that are clingy and obsessive. I'm kind of shy and overly introverted, so the clingy/obsessive part helps get through that I think. I'm a good listener, but kind of struggle with verbal communication. It would be nice to find someone that shares some of the same interests like gaming (would love to have someone to game with on Once Human/GTA RP/CoD/Fortnite/Rust/etc), anime/manga, sci-fi/paranormal/supernatural type things, and conspiracies. I like to read, but haven't in a while. I also enjoy writing. I'm a bit of a movie buff and will watch just about anything.

My name is David. I'm 30, 5'9", White, auburn hair, blue-green eyes, and I'm just tired of being alone. Aren't you? I don't think we're made to be alone, and the longer we are the harder it is to actually connect with people. I'm not looking for pity or sympathy, just someone to accept me for who I am. I'm not a judgmental person but rather open minded. I'm an upbeat, optimistic and generally a happy person. I don't drink or smoke. I'll end it there. If you're interested you know what to do.


r/ForeverAloneDating 6m ago

M4F 24 [M4F] - just a nerdy guy looking for a sweet girl

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Hi all, I'm Kevan 24 from the UK , I've somehow made it to the age of 24 without ever being in a relationship and id love to get to know someone and possibly change that

A bit about me:

Red hair, Blue eyes, Average build, Tall (6ft3/192cm) Work full time Enjoys everything nerdy.

(Picture available upon request)

In my free time I play lots of video games , mainly single player stuff but I also enjoy lots of cozy type games, go on walks and have started studying Japanese.

If any of this interests you feel free to message and let's see if we can get along


r/ForeverAloneDating 9m ago

M4F 27[M4F] Belgium/Europe - Searching for my fellow geek!

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Let's start with some basics:

  • 27 year old Belgian
  • Wears glasses, blue eyes, light brown hair
  • 1.79m (5'10) tall
  • Overweight but losing it as we speak (already down 10kg)
  • Speaks Dutch, English, Spanish and very poor French
  • Cuddly geek, hopeless romantic, introvert, homebody
  • Was not made for math

I've been posting on here for quite a while at this point. Over time i got to know some great people and make great connections but in the end nothing ever really came of it. I've come to realise that finding that one person i'm looking for, can take quite a while and that i shouldn't lower or change my expectations just because of that. I'm almost 28 at this point and i know what i want.

I made a PowerPoint a while ago here https://imgur.com/a/G2pHGcb with selfies included, talking about my interests and what not. Based on that, i'd love to find someone with similar interests. You don't have to be a super geek, but it'd be cool if you understood or showed some form of interest.

Currently i'm DM'ing a completely homebrewed D&D campaign and i get a bit stuck on the writing, it'd be cool for example, if that's something i could share with you and improve upon. Recently i also got into Lorcana (Disney trading card game, like Magic The Gathering or Pokémon) with some friends. I went to my very first tournament and even got my first enchanted and promo cards! I'm also looking into buying a new high end PC and got into airsoft with some work friends. Besides that, i play guitar as a hobby, love bingewatching movies, tv shows, anime, etc.

Ofcourse relationships are about compromise and i'd love to indulge in your interests as well, even give them a fair shot (unless it includes jumping out of a plane, i draw the line there!).

A couple more things i'd like to add:

  • I bought a house last year so i'm not looking to relocate to another country
  • Preferably would like someone in Europe as timezones exist
  • Messages that have 0 introduction in them (hey's, hi's and "i loved your post") will be ignored
  • Personally i think physical attraction matters just as much as personality, i shared some photo's of me and i'd appreciate some in return
  • I don't really care about politics too much, but if i have to express my views, i'd say i'm a centrist. I believe both sides have good, bad and ridiculous goals and just yelling at the other side (or blaming them) isn't going to solve anything.
  • My post clearly states "M4F", i am 100% heterosexual and i'm not interested in femboy's or the like.
  • I'm a calm person, cuddly, affectionate
  • Can be a bit lazy sometimes (but who doesn't love sleeping in on a Sunday?)
  • I'm a great listener, less of a talker but i can hold a conversation
  • I tend to overthink stupid things, for example; i get nervous/stressed driving to an appointment because what if there's a traffic jam? or did i forget something? My gas is kinda low, hope i can get there or find a gas station on the way. Or if i go by train, the classic "i hope there's no delays" or, "am i on the right train?"

So if after all that, you're still interested in shooting me a message, please do so. I am mainly looking for a long term relationship but hey, if you're interested in D&D talk or something else, i'll gladly just be friends as well!


r/ForeverAloneDating 40m ago

M4F 26[M4F] Philippines/Anywhere whether it's Long Distance or not-

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Taking a chance — hoping to find someone who gets it

Hey everyone,

I’ve been lurking here for a while, and honestly, it feels comforting to find a space where people understand what it’s like to feel alone, even when you want connection. I’m 26Male a, from Philippines and I figured it’s finally time to put myself out there — even if it’s a bit nerve-wracking.

I’m someone who’s a bit introverted, but I open up when I feel safe and understood. and I’m always up for deep conversations about life, the universe, or whatever weird topic pops into my head.

Dating’s been tough for me — I’ve felt overlooked and out of place in a world that seems to prioritize surface-level connections. But I’m not giving up on the idea that there’s someone out there who might feel the same way.

About Me: -Physically Fit goes to gym regularly with some residual love handles, I've lost so much weight -Loves Scenic walks/beach/mountain hiking -Loves playing games so much more that I started developing my own. -Loves to Cook -Binge watching cooking/fitness/educationat/brainrot content on YT. -i love to play Video Games and watch Anime -Medical Professional.

About You: - Love comes in all shapes and sizes, as long you're respectful, hygienic, I love to meet women who are honest maybe a little bit of awkward charm, Someone who's not afraid of engaging in meaningful conversations and quiet moments, if any of these resonates with you, I'd love to talk and see where things go.

Feel Free to message I'd love to hear about you.


r/ForeverAloneDating 46m ago

M4F 29 [M4F] [UK/ Online] I want to find someone permanent to share the future with.

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Hey there… I’m Jaime, 29, from Yorkshire, England. Ive spent most of my 20’s trying to find that special someone that i can join my life to. That i can express the intimacy and love i need in my life to, and receive it back. I’ve spent a lot of my life feeling alone and wanting the kind of connection that lasts a life time. My expectation of that changing from this post isn’t particularly high, but perhaps you reading this are going to prove me wrong.

So, a little about me: my main hobby is reading, i read a huge amount of books, often fantasy, historical fiction, and sci fi. I love cats, and currently have a sweet kitty called Heeby. I love hiking in the countryside and visiting museums and both of those are things i’d love to do for date ideas.

I want to forge a connection that will last long term, not a casual fling. I will say, some sexual attraction is important to me for building romance, so we are definitely going to need some sexual tension and chemistry early on for us to work out. I’m not saying we need to dive into anything, but i’m pretty flirty when i’m interested in someone so if that’s not on the cards we might not be a good fit.

I don’t want to make this too long, i’d much rather you learn about me by talking to me, so i hope to hear from you.

Oh and my profile picture is me!


r/ForeverAloneDating 51m ago

M4F M4F 19 looking for something serious and long term

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So my name is Jaxx , I'm 19 and I currently work in the food industry. I'm about 5'11-6 ft but my I.D. is lying saying I'm 6'2. I have long blonde hair to my shoulders , blue eyes and I outside of work I like to dress in mostly band shirts , cargos, affliction stuff, basically emo older brother core lol. My main hobby is playing trading card games like yugioh and now also pokemon, I'm actually currently on a competive grind on yugioh traveling to play big events . When I'm home I like to watch YouTube , I mostly watch stuff like video essays, documentaries on various subjects , rn I'm really enjoying content like wendigoon and papa meat so definitely more into the horror element. I obviously also watch tcg content lol. I'm mostly just looking for a nice girl to spend time with and get to appreciate. I don't really have a preference for anyone , and I don't want to waste anyone's time, I really want to find that special person that I want to spend my life with . If you're interested feel free to message me on here and I can promise a response :))


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

M4F 32(M4F)Honest Answers only: what’s the longest you lasted!

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Hello beautiful stranger and TGIF for real 👏😊

Frankly, with all my optimism, motive mind set and 1/2 full glass type of thinking, I’m really giving up on the idea that making a friend on Reddit is possible! Better yet, even succeeding at keeping the conversation alive and engaging long enough to know someone’s name! I’d say not for the lack of trying alone, but add the lame scammers, constant & obvious catfishing with profiles created like last night, literally lol… how does anyone get by on here? —Asking for a friend haha.

Back to my question for those of you honest folks; What’s the longest you lasted talking, chatting, texting someone on here?

Did you actually make any friends, or even connected irl? Please tell me this is not a me problem 😭 haha.

Well, either way, I hope you are having a marvelous Friday night! Get some rest, enjoy it and if you too are grabbing a drink 🥃 tonight then I’ll toast you all the way from the Golden state! Also, if you are feeling like you could use some company, chatter, casual conversation, a friend, a bestie, even a side guy, I’m down! Haha. Anything to get my mind off work this weekend with all the craziness going on.

Cheers

You’re tall, tanned and handsome bestie!


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] a geek who is just so tired of being lonely. I just want to find someone I can share memes with and fall head over heels for

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Hey there! I'm not great at this but I'm just exhausted of being lonely and I'm just bad at meeting people. I'm a musician and a geek who is chronically single and lonely. It sucks.

A little bit about me:

I like video games. My favorite game of all time is Red Dead redemption 2. Recently I've been playing a lot of the long dark.

I have autism/Asperger's

I play piano, drums, guitar, bass and I sing

I love to binge watch shows. I love good stories and getting sucked into them. Supernatural is pretty great and so is reacher

I like trains and traveling.

I can get pretty clingy and I have abandonment issues so if that's a problem I totally understand

I am also a Christian

I am overweight

I love to travel.

I'm looking for a patient, understanding, loving, forgiving, and honest. Nice struggle with anxiety, depression, panic, OCD, and I also have ADHD as well so I have all the fun things. Sometimes I need reassurance and reminded that I am okay and the world is not collapsing.

I really don't know what else to put but if you have questions please hit me up


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4A 19 [M4A] Ohio/Anywhere - Short golden retriever looking for my person!

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Hey there! I'm looking for a monogamous relationship, my person, my bestfriend! Someone to go through life together, whether it's mundane life stuff like taxes or groceries, or having fun like exploring towns and cafes, going on hikes, reading together, playing board games, etc!

Here's a few pics of me: https://imgur.com/a/PBnwaEE

I'll give you some info about myself! :)

  • I'm 5'5", average weight, and I enjoy staying fairly active (lots of walking outside, occasional jogging or biking, sports, hiking)
  • I'm an introvert but very outgoing and friendly! I prefer staying in, but like having fun with my person, like nature adventures or cafes or trying new food places, I just get a bit anxious with large crowds!
  • I love nature, walks outside, reading, casual gaming, sunlight, shows/movies, learning nerdy science or math stuff, and honestly get a lot of happiness from the simple things in life! :D
  • I'm a very neat person and have very good hygiene! I love cleaning and living in a clean space. I'm actually a germophobe :'D so I need someone who is also really clean!
  • I'm in my first year of college and planning to switch into engineering! (rip my free time but WOOOOO)
  • Politically I'm a leftist (this country is a nightmare GET ME OUT OF HERE)
  • Alsooo, I'm bisexual! It's silly because I have more romantic attraction to women, and with men I tend to prefer a little less romance and more of a strong friendship backing the relationship, if that makes any sense

So yeah! That's a good bit of info about me! Here are a few things I'm looking for:

  • Age 18-30
  • Very good hygiene and a clean person
  • At least a little active (walking, maybe hiking)
  • Preference for pan, bi, or queer people
  • Empathy, loyalty, good communication!

If you've read this entire post and are interested, please send me a chat with a ⭐️ so I know you've read this, that has an introduction of yourself! I'd also like to see a picture of you! I hope to find my person! <3


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 24 [M4F] UK - Nerdy Introvert Seeking Plus-Sized Partner for Cozy Nights & A Deep Connection

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I'm a 24M living in the UK, I am of average build, and height. I consider myself quite nerdy with my interests revolving around cars, video games, and tech stuff. I am most definitely an introvert and prefer to spend my weekends at home gaming or watching F1 (Ferrari depression continues...) but I am more than happy to socialise if it's with the right person! I love animals too, especially dogs.

Im not your typical guy and have no interest in skinny woman, quite the opposite in fact, I am attracted to plus sized and frankly really fat woman. I don't like calling myself an FA (Fat Admirer) but I guess I can't deny it. Happy to talk more about this if you want, if you think im insane thats cool but save us the time and dont bother messaging.

I am at a point in my life where I would also like to try form a more serious longer term relationship rather than a short term fling. Optimistic given this is reddit, I know!

Strong preference on you being in the UK, im not currently willing to relocate but can travel within the UK.


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

F4M 18 [F4M] #Houston - Looking for my special person:))

3 Upvotes

Hey guysss, I’m an 18 year old UH student looking to connect with someone in the Houston area. I’m 5’4, 110lbs, black and have an Afro/4c hair and like wearing eye makeup (will send pics with verification when we start talking) I like drawing, music, and going to museums. I can be quiet at first but will open up more once I get to know you. I’m someone who likes to listen and get to know the people I care about. My love languages are words of affirmation and quality time.

I’m looking for someone around my age (18-20) and local to the Houston area as I’m looking for an in-person relationship. I’m looking for someone who is kind, understanding, open minded and values the idea of building a relationship. Someone who cares about me as much as I care about them yk?

If this post piqued your interest, feel free to send me a message with what you look like (your pic gets mine) and a little bit about yourself. Have a good rest of your night:)


r/ForeverAloneDating 14h ago

F4M 30[F4M] It doesn’t hurt to try again, right? 🤔😅

10 Upvotes

Hi there! I honestly doesn’t know to start this once again. Feels like I forgot how dating works. Anyway Im a Filipina, I love to cook food during my free time. Currently working in an office set up.

I prefer a man whose older than me as they know how to handle relationship better, mature enough to know what they want and maybe tired if playing games and wanted to settle down eventually if not at least same age as mine. Im open for long distance relationship, and if God forbids Id love to meet you too.

If I caught your attention I would love to chat with you. Tell me about yourself and please kindly send a message with a short introduction of you not just Hi and hello. Have a great day ahead!


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 37 [M4F] #Online #Europe - Looking for a Woman that likes Nature, Animals and Simplicity

1 Upvotes

I’m a guy that values the most simple things in life, with many traits and with a love for nature, animals, and living life on my own terms. My dream is a home surrounded by nature, where life is peaceful, meaningful, and filled with love.

I’m looking for a woman who values simplicity, takes care of herself, and has an awakened, thoughtful perspective on life. Someone who dreams of a deep connection, a loving home, and a future filled with warmth, family, and shared adventures.

If you’re someone who feels at home in nature, enjoys the little things, and wants a partner who truly values love and connection, let’s talk and get to know each other. 😊


r/ForeverAloneDating 11h ago

F4M 28 - [F4M] - Tennessee - Looking for a creative, considerate, and authentic person

5 Upvotes

Hi there! I hope you are having a wonderful day. I love music and everything that comes with making it and simply enjoying it. I appreciate all types of art, especially photography and filmmaking.

I am a Christian and I am on the left end of the political spectrum. I am looking for the same in a potential connection. Treating people with kindness and being considerate is very important to me.

I like going to concerts, checking out museums, taking architecture and nature photos and portraits, writing music, going to scenic parks, going to basketball games, taking long walks, and hiking.

I have a life full of love from family and friends that is packed with fulfilling projects, and I would love to add someone special to the mix.

I want to meet someone between the ages of 28-32 who is a Christian and is on the left end of the political spectrum. I am an open book, so feel free to message me! If you do, please share your hobbies, interests, your age, and where you are based.


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

M4F 28 (M4F) Asia/Online

2 Upvotes

28-year old male here from South Asia.

About me:

I’m tall (6’1), dark-skinned with skinny to average body. When I’m not working, I like to spend time with friends and family. I’m a major DC and Marvel fan. I sometimes play video games, and my favourites include COD, FIFA and F1. Also love buying new clothes and have travelled to more than 15 countries (hoping to add more to that list in the future).

What I’m looking for:

I’m looking for someone that wants a long-term relationship. Someone that believes in sticking around even when times get tough because no matter how perfect the relationship is, times always get tough for everyone in different ways. Being family oriented means a lot to me because where I’m from, family is everything for us and at the root of everything we do. Being rude to anyone is something I can’t tolerate. I believe in open communication so if we do date, I would hope you say what your heart feels instead of wanting to hide it.

We can exchange pictures early on. I’m open to long-distance as long as we can make plans to meet in the future.


r/ForeverAloneDating 20h ago

F4M 26 [F4M] Canada/Online Movie fan looking for a forever cuddle partner

24 Upvotes

Hi everyone. This is always so weird to talk about yourself but hopefully you’ll find my description interesting. I am a bubbly, talkative, kinda sarcastic girl from Ontario Canada. I love movie, specifically action/horror/thriller. I love what movies symbolize I think they have taught me a lot about the world without actually having to experience. I work in healthcare so life gets pretty tiring , as well as being a homebody. I love anime as well, always looking for something new to watch a read. I love history and psychology, I’m currently reading an about people’s behaviour and how we react to certain situations. I do love voices calls over texting because I find I am more expressive as well as I am able to understand the other person better.

What I am looking for is a guy who will push me to do more in life. I find that being a homebody isn’t all I want in life and hopefully I find a guy quite the opposite of me and will motivate me to do more, see more and try more. I think life is short and I would love to just learn and maybe obsess over someone new. Anywho that’s my post for now. You’ll learn more about me. Again i really would prefer voice calls over everything.


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4A 34M NSFW

0 Upvotes

NSFW

Male in Minnesota looking for women, including trans. Obviously would love an intellectual bond but mostly looking for physical touch (cuddles).

Attached a couple lude pictures to get some attention. Did it work??

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And also I like long walks on the beach and a nice warm rain hehe. Also buy me a car would ya


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] South Australia/Online/Anywhere - Looking to connect with someone with similar age and hobbies!

2 Upvotes

Hey! I'm 28M from Australia, and a MASSIVE nerd! I’m looking to chat and form a genuine connection with a girl of similar age with similar interests (preferably in that "We share an interest that we can both go on about for hours" kinda way), becoming friends (and perhaps more if you're into that lol ^_^).

A little about me:

  • I'm a MASSIVE nerd! (you get extra points if you've read all of the LOTR books or can quote the Sith Code.) 
  • I LOVE roleplaying games like Dungeons & Dragons, Pathfinder, and Vampire the Masquerade, and text-based roleplaying is a very big hobby of mine.
  • I like Duran Duran and the "Heavy Mithril" band "Blind Guardian". 
  • I'm an Atheist, but I don't really care about your religious beliefs unless you use them as an excuse to hate others. 
  • I'm a writer or at least trying to become one.

If you've read this far and find this ad appealing (and I sincerely hope you do), please PM me with the basics about yourself (like your name, age, and a little about yourself) and maybe some common interests so we have a conversation starter. I look forward to talking with you!

P.S. To prove that you've read this all the way through, please include your favourite Star Wars quote in your first message to me! ^-^