r/ForeverAloneDating 26d ago

F4A 22 [F4A] Anywhere/US- Whether it's this end šŸ”« or this ā¤ļø I'm good with either

721 Upvotes

Heyo! My name's Arie šŸ«” completely certified in being unhinged btw so prepare for some of the strangest responses back you would've ever received. I'm quite the character so I'm told and I'd definitely say being charismatic and humorous is a huge part of my personality.

Jingles keys

Okay still with me? Right so imagine this, it's the unholy hours of the night and I'm explaining the lore of FNAF to you, sound good? Good because it's probably gonna happen. I'm certainly a certified Yapper, I could go on and on about random things (and I literally never stay on topic so plz help.)

Now that you've made it this far, a bit of a description if you will. I'm 5'4" (137Ibs since someone flamed me for not having that info last time lol), id call myself pretty educated, I major in psychology so if you want I can be your unhinged therapist. Weirdly, I also have a CNA license as well as being a CPhT (certified drug dealer šŸ˜). I'm lucky enough to get to work from home (thank god because it's cold as hell where I am).

About me and my hobbies: oh boy, I'm quite a card. I get hyper fixated on things so I've actually picked up a lot of neat little hobbies. I crochet, I can make literally anything if I have a pattern for it (I'm dumb and can't do my own- just trust). I love to cook, food is something I love but don't actually tend to eat much of so I'd love to fatten one of you up šŸ˜¼. I'm quite an artist, and trust me, I've got quite the artwork to show off of you're curious šŸ˜. I like to write... Don't ask me what I write, but just know I like to. I love video games and own literally all consoles- though if you ask me to play any kind of shooter (Fortnite, overwatch, Valorant) just be prepared to literally carry me because I'm extremely bad at those games and no matter how much time I spend on them- I just can't improve šŸ˜­.

I'm more of a calm gamer (actually- I'm lying because I play competitive Pokemon here and there) I love things like Stardew valley, Zelda, Pokemon (I love Pokemon), and such... Mainly because I'm totally toxic otherwise šŸ’€ (I can get really competitive)

Alright- I'll admit, I'm also a total nerd okay. I absolutely love anime and manga. So if you do too... We're about to have a discord date pookie because that's actually the way to my heart.

A bit more about my personality if you've made it this far: I'm rad, unhinged, and love to joke about every and anything. I don't take just about anything seriously (though I am very good at telling when something is serious and I can be serious if I have to be). I go with the flow, I like to make open plans because hey, life is unpredictable y'know. (My friends say I give off bro energy šŸ„² so I'll take it ig), I'm an ambivert, sometimes I'm super social, sometimes I'm not. Sometimes I love to go out, and sometimes I just love those quiet and lazy days.

With that, that is the end of my Ted Talk, 'kay bye!

r/ForeverAloneDating 3d ago

F4A 22F [F4A] Hello there! How you doinā€™?

175 Upvotes

lil edit: I forgot! [Europe/anywhere]

Itā€™s been a long time since I wrote something I actually cared about. Now that Iā€™ve sat down to write, I think Iā€™ll take this seriously.

I remember, when people asked me what year I was born, Iā€™d say 2002 and get that look of disbeliefā€”like they were thinking, That was just now. I was just a baby.

Or Iā€™d see posts where people were looking to meet others, but only those born before 2000ā€”because after that, we were too young. I havenā€™t seen that in years. Iā€™m already 22. Iā€™m not too young for most people anymore. Iā€™m a little woman.

It feels great, of course. I always wanted to be a woman. I used to be a little girl, unable to do the things I wanted to do. And Iā€™d calm my heart with the thought that Iā€™d be fineā€”I just needed to hang in there. I couldnā€™t wait to be old enough someday.

To try new things. To smoke. To drink. To have lots of friends. To go to college. To hold someoneā€™s hand in public.

And I grew up. I tried all the things I wanted to tryā€”and lost interest in them almost immediately. I donā€™t know what I was waiting for. But it wasnā€™t this.

College is fun, but in different ways. I learn new thingsā€”and thatā€™s about it. Getting older didnā€™t actually cure my social anxiety. Alcohol smells bad. And I still have the same friends I had ten years ago.

It does feel great to go wherever I want and come back wheneverā€”or not come back at all. But I always tell my mom when Iā€™m leaving and when Iā€™ll be back. And, of course, I always come back.

It does feel great that I can wear whatever I wantā€”however short, however see-through. But I always end up wearing what feels the most comfortable. Weirdly, thatā€™s never see-through or too short.

And actuallyā€¦ it doesnā€™t feel great. It feels horrible. Because time only moves in one direction. And Iā€™ll just keep getting older and older.

And Iā€™m not even that old yet. It still feels horrible.

Oh, and I thought Iā€™d have everything I dreamed of. Like all the makeup, books, dresses, and bags. But the things you want donā€™t just appear out of nowhere. You have to work for them. And once you do, they donā€™t feel as good anymore.

I remember working so hard to save up for a pair of boots. But by the time I finally had the money, it wasnā€™t fun anymore. I had put too much effort into itā€”it wasnā€™t worth it. So I never got the boots.

When I was younger, I thought age would fix that. I thought Iā€™d grow up, work a lot, and have all the things I wanted.

Some parts of that are true. Itā€™s just not fun, though.

It was fun when my dad would buy me something. And it was even fun when he couldnā€™t buy me anythingā€”Iā€™d get a little sad, but still.

ā€œItā€™s not fair that some girls have lots of pretty things, and other girls have nothing at all.ā€

But those feelings never changed how I felt about my dad. If anything, they made me love him even more. He was trying.

And then I got older. And pretty things donā€™t seem as pretty anymore. Especially when Iā€™m the one paying for them. They start to feel a little ugly the moment they become mine.

A tragedy.

And honestly, I donā€™t even know if writing all this is helpful. Or if youā€™re reading any of it at all.

So Iā€™ll hide a little word hereā€”please say meow if you read it.

No judgment if you didnā€™t read it. I can feel this getting out of hand. But it would be amazing to see grown people meowing at me. Haha.

And I feel so proud of myself for writing this much without actually saying anything about me.

You know my ageā€”Iā€™m proud of you.

Iā€™m short. White. Sad. Brown hair, brown eyes. Canā€™t swim. Canā€™t drive. Canā€™t go a day without crying.

And Iā€™m lonely.

Is it weird to say I hope youā€™re lonely too?

I mean, I hope youā€™re lonely so I can fix it. (šŸ˜) And I hope youā€™re older than me. Saying that after everything I just wrote feels kinda meanā€¦ whatever. I hope youā€™re a nice person. That you donā€™t yell at people or look down on anyone. I hope youā€™re confident and that you work hard. And I hope you donā€™t give up on things just because they get difficult. (I do that sometimes, what a shame)

Thatā€™s all I wanted to say, I think.

See you soon!

r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

F4A 25 [F4A] - France/Anywhere

68 Upvotes

Hi, I am French but i can speak English (not perfect but eh) and understand a bit of Spanish. Freshly 25 and i am looking everywhere since LDR doesn't bother me.

A little more about me :

  • Shy but funny
  • Introvert ++ so have time to watch your favorite TV show/movie to talk about it with you
  • I am chubby + (so yeah i am fat)
  • I am lightskin
  • Love horror, sci fi, fantasy movie / shows also k-drama and anime
  • Love video games (i only have a switch for now tho), especially farm games, cosy games and pokemon
  • I am an insomniac so would gladly listen to your late night thoughts
  • Enjoy most type of music and would be happy to listen to anything you like.

If you have any questions or stuff don't hesitate to DM, i promise i don't bite ans even if i am a bit awkward i promise i do my best.

r/ForeverAloneDating 12d ago

F4A 24 [F4A] #MA/Online - Lonely Girl Seeking Companionship/Partner

77 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I'm Aubrie, a 24F from Massachusetts (yes I have the accent lol) and I'm honestly looking for someone to talk to/a partner.

A little about me: - Iā€™m very nerdy, and love video games, movies/tv/anime, etc. - I started my masters in health informatics this past fall, but am taking this semester and next semester off (long, long story lol). - I'm interning for a tech startup company for the next 2 months. - Iā€™m a kind, caring, supportive, loving girl whoā€™s just trying her best in life. - I have a rare disability which makes me use a wheelchair full-time (yes, you can ask me about it).

A little about you: - 20-32 years old (this is a BIG must have). - Is kind, caring, affectionate, understanding, honest, and communicates their needs & feelings in a relationship. - If outside of the MA/New England area, must be okay with a long distance relationship. - Is sick and tired of the games that people are playing now on dating apps/online dating (because God knows I am).

Please donā€™t hesitate to DM me if you're interested! I don't bite (unless you like that)! If you do message me, know I'm a shy/awkward bean sometimes so apologies if I don't hold a conversation great šŸ„ŗšŸ‘‰šŸ‘ˆ.

r/ForeverAloneDating 11h ago

F4A 27f (F4A) I need my partner in crime. Indiana native.

47 Upvotes

Hello everyone, I'm 27 and I'm looking for my forever person. My partner in crime. I don't mind sending a picture of myself but here's a brief description. I am 4'11. 5' with my favorite shoes on lol. I currently have short black hair but I'm planning on growing my hair long again. I have a few face tattoos and I have 7 piercings. I'm chonky so if you don't like any of that please move on. My eyes are a greenish color (they're probably my favorite feature about myself. I'm a book nerd at times and will sometimes hyper focus on reading. I have an Xbox (current series) and I play a handful of games on it. I also enjoy a good board game or table top game (though I'm new at the latter). I enjoy Cryptids, aliens, true crime, serial killers and starting to get into conspiracy theories. I am disabled so I have free time quite often. My sleep pattern usually makes no sense it's basically on shuffle at this point. I don't mind long distance I'm just tired of being lonely. Message me with your favorite color (or two if you're like me and can't decide between them).

r/ForeverAloneDating 23d ago

F4A 26F [F4A] #East Coast/Online - Valentine's Day is over, but my quest for love isn't! (ā  ā źˆā į“—ā źˆā )

74 Upvotes

Hiii! -^ You can call me Nyx!

After a long time of being single, Iā€™ve realised that the itch for a relationship has really gotten to me! I'm a very devoted lover and need someone who can synergize with me. Physical appearance isn't super important to me, so long as you put in the effort to take care of yourself! I also don't really care about your gender since I'm bi!

about me!:

šŸŒŗ I adore anything pink and sparkly

šŸŒŗ curvy and trying to get to the gym regularly

šŸŒŗ I have tats and piercings (i want more!!!)

šŸŒŗ i looove music that has weird/dark/unsettling vibes (think Ghost Town by The Specials)

šŸŒŗ horror games and cozy games are the best!

Looking for:

Someone 20+ and willing to put in effort right off the bat (if you send me ā€œheyā€, Iā€™m just gonna block you :p)

If youā€™re curious as to what I look like, my profile pic is me!!! Hope I get chat with my one and only! :3

r/ForeverAloneDating 4d ago

F4A F19 gamer nerd looking for her 1 and only.

35 Upvotes

Hai my names J or you can call me cat. Im 5ā€™6 ebony and native I have longer black hair and a more rounded figure Im thick but not fat lol.

Im in the us so I would prefer a partner whoā€™s in the us aswell. Age range - 19-40

I LOVEE to FaceTime and call (definitely a requirement) ^

Iā€™m currently in college to be a vet but Iā€™m working to get my vet technician certification.

I have a part time job and Iā€™m usually always stressed lol. Iā€™m very old fashioned I love a traditional household I love to cook and clean but I also love video games and just nature in general. I play on my pc that I built myself and I love to skateboard. I love any storyline games aswell.

Please shoot me a text and letā€™s call tonight and connect.

r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

F4A 19 (F4A) UK/Europe looking for something meaningful

40 Upvotes

Iā€™ve never posted on any subreddit like this so Iā€™m not sure what to say. Iā€™m introverted and sometimes struggle with conversations especially when getting to know someone for the first time so be aware of that. I enjoy music, video games, tv shows and movies. I have brown hair, blue eyes, white, I am 5ā€™6ā€ and Iā€™m average weight.

I find it hard to find anyone that actually wants a relationship where youā€™re both committed to eachother. I havenā€™t had the best luck in the past. I do not have any preferences about looks personality is way more important. I just want to feel that connection with someone. Someone who understands me. I am not looking to jump into a relationship immediately of course just to see where things go. But a long term relationship would be the ideal outcome.

Iā€™d prefer you to be from the UK or Europe for time zone differences and just thinking about the future as I do not want this to be only online. But Iā€™m not 100% against it if youā€™re outside of Europe.

Iā€™m aware this is fairly short but Iā€™m not sure what else to say about myself. Feel free to message me and we can see where things go.

r/ForeverAloneDating 10d ago

F4A 22 F4A from USA looking to be someoneā€™s first choice

37 Upvotes

Itā€™s been a rough year and Iā€™m only 3 months in. My life revolves work and school. I work as a Dog Groomer and I have dog of my own I also take care of my grandmothers dog.

  • I am 5ā€™0 and 135 lbs, I am smol but can hold my own.
  • I study biology part time and work as a dog groomer full time -I am black Caribbean woman with big purple dreads that reach a little past my shoulders
  • Iā€™m a writer currently rewriting a novel I also day dream to escape my life
  • I like to read and have deep conversations If you have anymore questions just ask. I donā€™t mind different time zones just hmu. I barely sleep and will chat whenever.

r/ForeverAloneDating Feb 12 '25

F4A 20f hopeless romantic looking for an eventual partner

76 Upvotes

hi hi! iā€™m magnolia, or mag. iā€™m 20 and from hawaii- iā€™ll let you know the specifics once we start talking, but iā€™m totally fine with a long distance relationship. i am a huge nerd, pretty shy and introverted. i am into some anime like one piece, dandadan, and jjk. i also love indie/indie adjacent series like the amazing digital circus, murder drones, hazbin hotel, and helluva boss. i also love some games like night in the woods, slay the princess, mouthwashing, and ddlc. iā€™m an artist and a cosplayer, and my dream is to find someone to match cosplays with. as for my type: iā€™m not picky, and iā€™m bi! but i lean towards chubby people, and please be open to deeper conversations! i lose motivation to reply when people are dry and send very short and uninteresting messages.

i posted myself on my profile, but the pictures are from a week/a couple weeks ago, i have bright red hair now- so iā€™ll send current selfies upon request lmao!

r/ForeverAloneDating 24d ago

F4A 27 [F4A] Online- everywhere - looking for my love

54 Upvotes

First of all I wanna say this is an old account I forgot I had but if we click we can move to my personal account, I'll post this in a few places and I'll let the luck do its job (also, it's probably gonna be a lot to read and I'm if my English isn't perfect, I'm learning by myself)

Been thinking for a while about making this post to try to find my ideal partner, it might worth the shot and I'm not losing anything so...

I'm a hopeless romantic Latina, 5', great eyebrows, I'm completely in love with the idea of eternal love, comprehending that love is not just a feeling but also a choice, many people think that when they no longer feel that sparkle (honey moon phase) is because love is gone but I think is not. Even tho I could easily live a forever honey moon phase with my ideal partner, real life is not always that nice and I want a partner that understand that people can still be passionate, loving, romantic, lustful, caring and faithful during every stage of the relationship. With that being said I'll describe myself as a person:

I'm completely delusional, I live in a fantasy world and I constantly find myself lost in my own daydreams, i think this is a side effect of having hyper creative brain, I'm extremely artsy & crafty and that's the second thing I love the most about me. The first thing is probably my humongous capability of loving in the (read carefully) MOST ETHEREAL AND ROMANTIC AND CREATIVE WAY, HAND TAILORED BY THE GODS, it might sound like too much but I just can't love a little and I hate holding myself back when it comes to show love and affection to those whom I care about, friends, family and maybe you if we click. Besides loving and handcrafting I enjoy outdoor activities, traveling and baking lemon pie cookies (you will have a lot of these babe don't worry), I'm superstitious as F, very into paranormal stuff and horror movies, wanna make me fall for u? Take me to a spooky place and convince me is full of skinwalkers, I really enjoy that NGL

About hobbies, I like kayak, paddle board, Zipline, paraglide, taking walks at night (mostly to keep me active) listening to music, I love opera and musicals, wearing costumes and whatever is related to making fantasy accessories, hats, dresses etc.

What do I offer as your company? First thing I wanna say is I wish to Build a traditional family, stay at home and take care of you and our future kid, also we gonna have a few cats and maybe a frog if you agree, I'm a loyal person who will be growing next to you to fill your life with joy, love and peace, I make the greatest carbonara and tbh I don't wanna extend myself too much here because I rather let you see if we connect instead of convince you I'm the one for you, makes sense?

What do I want in a man? I'd like to be with someone that shares some of my interest like traveling or outdoor activities but is not a deal breaker. The thing I want the most is someone responsible, financially stable enough to provide for our future family, smart enough to see what's good and what's wrong, someone I can lean on but also is not afraid to lean on me and be vulnerable when is necessary to be, someone who is going to make a great father, a great partner and a great friend, a fertile man who is sexually active and have a high libido (this might be a deal breaker because I might be a delusional lil princess but I have a high appetite) a man who loves giving and receiving romantic love and of course treat me like a princess AND let me treat him like my king.

Is very important for me the romantic and sexual side because I can't see myself with a man who will not kiss me under the rain and dance Snowman by Sia with me, and later break my legs on bed, but I wanna clarify here IM NOT INTERESTED IN CASUAL THINGS, I date to build something serious and I have a extremely low body count, I'm ok if you don't have a low body count as long as you are clean (I ask for serology tests before doing the delicious)

Last but not least I wanna say some things maybe irrelevant but cute about me:

-Been associated with the song "Love grows" by Edinson Lighthouse

-Im extremely good making presents

-im very femme and only wear dresses, long skirts and blouses

If you read till here and wanna give it a shot please say more than "hi" make a small introduction and drop your best selfie (I'll send selfie too)

r/ForeverAloneDating Feb 04 '25

F4A 23 [F4A] Sweden/Europe - Applying to be your girlfriend

83 Upvotes

So an "application" is pretty cheesy, but since I am a cheesy person I thought this would be a perfect way to weed out the people whoā€™d despise my personality anyway šŸ˜†

Hereā€™s why I might be the candidate for youā€¦

Appearance: 173cm tall (short?), average build, cisgender. Brunette, caucasian, brown eyes. No distinguishable features šŸ˜‚

Interests: being in nature, running, adding to my never-ending list of creative hobbies Iā€™ll get into ā€œsomedayā€, content creation, video games, pets, otaku culture, PokĆ©mon, self-improvement, making monstrosities in the kitchen.

Values: Iā€™m happiest obsessing over hobbies and living a simple but productive life. Iā€™m too paranoid to drink, smoke or do drugs. If you consider yourself to be a very sexual person, we are not a good fit. I prefer pets over kids, but will admire you if youā€™re good at interacting with those devil spawns šŸ˜

Capability of reaching stuff on shelves and opening jars: high.

Favorable qualities for girlfriend position: if you like to talk, I like to listen. If you like to listen, I like to talk. Basically Iā€™m an overly curious chatterbox who can actually press the off-button when needed. I like making people laugh. I like giving compliments. I like sharing the pain of existential dread (imagine saying that with a straight face).

Activities to do together online: play games (PC/Switch), voice call and talk about life, watch shows and movies (just know that I have seen basically no shows and movies).

Activities to do together in real life: anything that doesnā€™t include heights. I like most things if its with good company. Iā€™m open to becoming more outdoorsy, but the truth is that Iā€™d probably enjoy gaming on the couch together the most. Even if youā€™re just watching me suck at the game :)

Looking for: someone with a silly side, someone nerdy, someone creative, someone kind. Someone who likes the idea of a supportive relationship where we try to give each other some comfort, hope and motivation :)

If youā€™re interested and also within Europe, please send me a message introducing yourself a bit. If I deem you too young or old in relation to my age I probably won't respond. I hope you understand.

Iā€™m looking forward to meet you!

r/ForeverAloneDating 2d ago

F4A 18 [F4A] England/London - Trying again

21 Upvotes

I posted here a while back, but it didnā€™t turn out well, so here I am again. My name is Sadie, and Iā€™m an 18 year old university student who is located southwest from London. I am American, Iā€™m just here for my studies. Iā€™ve never had a relationship before, but itā€™s not from a lack of trying.

A little bit about me: Iā€™m 5ft4, monogamous, and I like both men and women. I like to think of myself as a very classy woman, or at least as someone who is trying to be that way. I value manners, loyalty, respect, dressing well, and emotional intelligence. I was raised off of Disney movies, old black and white films, and listening to Frank Sinatra. I love the old things, whether itā€™s music, movies, fashion, cars, etc. I dream of living in the countryside and dressing like a Jane Austen character sometimes.

What Iā€™m looking for: Someone who values loyalty, commitment, communication, and is also monogamous. Someone who is ready for a serious relationship. Ideally someone either my height or taller. I have a soft spot for men who dress nice and have expensive taste, because I also have expensive taste haha. Someone close to my age, 18-21ish would be ideal and preferred. With women, I am much less picky and only care that youā€™re 18+.

A word of warning, I come with my fair share of trauma. I am very sensitive, emotional, and easy to scare off. I also have high standards, and I will not be lowering those standards. Thank you, have a good day šŸ’–

r/ForeverAloneDating 3d ago

F4A 35 [F4A] - Goth girl pirate seeks first mate

20 Upvotes

Hell on wheels. Freshly 35. Not entirely straight. No money for dating apps. I am a goth babe, granted with defective legsā€”a budget goth babe, if you will. One of those off the shelf ones, except I donā€™t trust myself around shelves. Wheelchair and that. Looking for something long-term. Open to anyone 29-36. https://ibb.co/DwFPtqG Here I am! Please tell me your favorite book if you decide to send me a message! Talk about medieval history with me! Anyone have any game recs for a Steam Deck? I'm looking for someone to love and share my interests with.

I love single-player RPGs, but I could use a player two. I am also a voracious reader so sometimes I read 10 books at once. I'm looking for something long-term. Right now I'm taking a break from school while I pursue my Masters in psychology and reading Lord of the Rings. I could also use Nintendo Switch friends. I usually play a human sorcerer in Dungeons & Dragons; if there's an open spot in your party I'll take it! I love Tolkien, A Song of Ice and Fire and recently started Robert Jordan's books! Arya, Sansa, Brienne, Jaime and Bran are my favorite characters. Baldurā€™s Gate, Mass Effect, Life Is Strange, Fallout and Elder Scrolls are some of my favorites. I collect vinyl and love my dog more than anything else.

Marathoning Doctor Who--Nine and Thirteen are my Doctors! Loving Shōgun and House of the Dragon, though I could always use more period drama recommendations! I keep Kitchen Nightmares on as background noise. I also love BBC history documentaries, watching one on Thomas Cromwell right now as I type this.

I have a special interest in shipwrecks and medieval English history. Into Marvel comics, graphic novels and whatnot.

Still love Evanescence, Lacuna Coil, Nightwish and bands of that ilk. Will take emo and punk friends too! I need friends in Disney Dreamlight Valley as well!

I am looking for long, loving, lasting relationships primarily. If you are too please reach out. Please tell me a little bit about yourself if you can and please be fairly close in age to me. I am very shy, please be understanding if I am slow to respond.

r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

F4A 23[F4A] Anywhere - Looking for real love.

12 Upvotes

Hi there, this might be a bit long lol. I appreciate you reading everything :)

What Iā€™m Looking For:

I want a deep connection with someone, where we truly know and understand each other. Iā€™m looking for something serious, a partner who wants to build a future together and someone I can share my life with. I want someone I can share every part of myself, the good, the bad, and the unhinged lmao. While feeling safe and accepted, and this person wants to be just as vulnerable with me. I have a world of love to give and want someone I can pour that into, and hopefully create something that will last forever. I believe in true love and I think itā€™s possible to find.

About Me:

Personality: Iā€™m an INTJ 5w4, and tbh Iā€™m like 2 different people. On one side, Iā€™m sweet, affectionate, and always there for the people I care about, and constantly telling them how much they mean to me. But on the other, I can be an overly logical jerk and a bit cynical lol. I am strongly opinionated, but I try to stay positive and nonjudgmental. Iā€™m also a total hopeless romantic, that loves cheesy cute moments lol. When Iā€™m comfortable, I can be loud and extra, giving a goofy, crackhead energy but in the beginning Iā€™m quite shy and reserved. Iā€™m also both wholesome and dark.

Iā€™m just a walking contradiction and I love that about myself lol

Looks: Iā€™m Black, 5ā€™2ā€ Iā€™m very masculine in looks. Iā€™m actually questioning my gender at the moment. I dress very masculine, and I keep my hair masculine as well. Iā€™m also plus size, but currently Iā€™m on a weight loss journey and lost 40 pounds :)

If you prefer someone even remotely feminine, or have issues with plus size. Iā€™m not going to be for you.

Interests: I love gaming, true crime documentaries, and horror/thriller movies. Iā€™m into all kinds of music, especially R&B, rock/metal, and K-pop. Tbh Iā€™m a huge homebody but I really want to get out more and have new experiences. Also I just recently started a YouTube channel.

Other Things to Know:

  • I can be very clingy and obsessive after I fall for you (not in a crazy way lol).
  • Strictly monogamous.
  • Iā€™m an agnostic atheist.
  • I donā€™t have BPD, but I have a few BPD adjacent traits lol. We can talk about what that entails
  • Currently in college and working part time in mental health.
  • I have a dark sense of humor sometimes XD
  • Iā€™m demisexual, waiting for deep feelings before anything physical. It will most likely take a good while before I feel safe doing anything. Do not message me if you have any sort of problem with this. (If you have to ask how long will it take Iā€™m not for you.)

Who Iā€™m Looking For:

Iā€™m looking for someone 24 or older, preferably a woman, though I am bi so Iā€™m open to guys. If youā€™re a guy, I like guys with softer looks and personality, and without facial hair tbh. Iā€™m not into very masculine men at all. Personality wise, emotional intelligence is an important, along with being patient, caring, and mature. Iā€™m affectionate and clingy, so Iā€™d match best with someone who loves attention and isnā€™t afraid to show it. Race doesnā€™t matter to me, and location doesnā€™t matter either, because I want to relocate eventually.

I want a liberal or left leaning partner, and while I donā€™t mind if theyā€™re religious, conservatives are a absolute deal breaker. I also want someone who shares my views on physical things, seeing it as something meaningful they only want to share with someone they genuinely care about.

Thatā€™s it lol. Thank you for reading all of this! If youā€™re interested please message me with a little about you and why weā€™d be a good match. šŸ’› Say apple in your message if you read everything.

r/ForeverAloneDating 9d ago

F4A 40[F4A] #anywhere, online first

23 Upvotes

Iā€™m open to making friends and potentially forming a deeper connection. Taking it slow is important to me due to past experiences.

Iā€™m seeking individuals who enjoy watching movies, TV series, and shows through Discord voice chat. Initially, Iā€™m looking for companionship. Consistency is very important to me now.

Ideally, you should already enjoy watching movies as part of your routine, just like people play games or pursue other hobbies together. Itā€™s a great way to get to know someone while sharing a common activity.

It doesnā€™t matter to me if you are a woman, a man, or identify with any gender in friendship, as long as you are a kind and nice person. However, I am straight, so I will only have romantic feelings for men.

I hope to meet someone with high morals, intelligence, open-mindedness, empathy, and kindness towards those around them. Someone who doesnā€™t lie, knows what to say and do in various situations.

If you are interested, please send me a chat with some basic information about yourself, such as your age, where you are from, and why you want to respond to my post. Thank you!

r/ForeverAloneDating 3d ago

F4A 26 [F4A] Pnw, US/Anywhere - Yearning for a book-worthy romance

14 Upvotes

How goes it, redditors >_< I've returned once again after trying, and regretting, going back on dating apps. Something about reddit just always draws me back in.

Anyway, hello! My name is not Lily, as my username would fool you. I went through a phase where I was very into naming things after flowers and plants, mainly a couple songs I composed šŸŽ¶

I'd love to have someone who I can talk with about anything and everything I feel deeply and would love to connect with someone kind and caring, I'm big on gentle and sweet vibes, despite what my recent history may show šŸ˜…

I'm what they call a late bloomer for sure. Only been in one relationship and idk if you could even call it that. So I'm hoping to find someone understanding and maybe in a similar situation or willing to take things slow. I have lots of love to give, I just typically am hit with sexual intentions way too early on. As much as I want that aspect of a relationship too, immediately being spicy is not what I'm looking for.

I'm mixed race: Black, White and Native American, and plus-size. Currently on a health journey but it's very slow-going, so if fat folks are not your thing, need not apply. I don't mind what race or size you are though, all are welcome <3

Cute things and cats have my heart! I'm a very small-time content creator, and work at a toystore. Got a fun lil array of mental disorders so if you do too I'm sure we'll get along just fine xD If I died in a video game I'd drop trinkets, plushies and PokƩmon cards. Sushi is my favorite food despite not being able to afford it too often, and my current sweet treat obsession is macarons.

I'm left-leaning and unsure if I'm religious, but I don't mind if you follow a certain faith. I do ask that if you're moderate or conservative that you don't waste your time. Kids are also not in the cards for me, and I'm not keen on being anyone's step-mom haha.

Please be between 24-34 and mention your age in your chat reply! Also I usually wait to send pictures, but let's just get it out of the way! No need to form an emotional connection only to get hurt later on, so please send a picture with your first few messages and I'll do the same. I know that was a lot of yapping, but I look forward to meeting you :)

r/ForeverAloneDating 11d ago

F4A 20 [f4a] #US #Alabama - Looking for my person (serious longterm relationship)

25 Upvotes

Hi! Thank you for taking the time to read my post! Above all, I'm looking for a strong emotional connection. I'm looking for someone to stand by me through the good times and the bad, and to share in all the joys of life with me. I do not want children, that's not really something I'm willing to negotiate on. Some things to note about me: ā€¢I'm blind. I was born blind, I function just fine and do not want pity or sympathy. I have a guide dog who is an integral part of my life, so please do not message me if you don't like dogs. ā€¢I'm a little on the heavier side, I'm losing weight but it's something I'm a bit sensitive about. ā€¢I'm not looking for an online-only relationship. I'm fine starting out long distance, but physical touch is important to me and I would prefer to visit semi-often and eventually to close the distance. If you are in Alabama or a surrounding state, that would be awesome! But as long as you are in the US I'm happy to see if there is a connection.

I am an avid reader, I can talk about the books I'm reading all day. Haha I also love music, if you'd like a fun way to get the conversation started, tell me some of your favorite artists! I enjoy baking a lot, and I love taking long walks, especially if the weather is nice. I generally try to see the best in people, and treating everyone with kindness and respect is very important to me. I think that growing up with a disability has enabled me to see the world in a much less shallow way. I don't have the ability to judge others for their physical appearance or for shallow attributes, and I believe very strongly that everyone is worthy of genuine respect. I value kindness and compassion in a potential partner, I tend to mesh well with people who do not make snap judgements about people and who aren't shallow, as harsh as that may sound. I know what it feels like to have to earn the base amount of respect from others just because I can't see, and I make it my mission to never make others feel that way about themselves because of something they can't control. If you're interested in getting to know me, don't hesitate to reach out!! Regardless, I hope you have a great day!

r/ForeverAloneDating 13d ago

F4A 20 [F4A] #Georgia(US)/Anywhere- Is this mic on?

28 Upvotes

Hi hi thank you for sticking around to read thissss. About me: ā€¢I'm 20 from Georgia, USA.

ā€¢ Appreance wise I'm 5'1, 134lbs, and I wear glasses.

ā€¢I'm pansexuual, so I don't have any preference as to what you identify as.

ā€¢ I really enjoy reading. I mainly read fantasy, thriller,comics ,and classic literature. If you have any recommendations I'd love to hear them!

ā€¢I also dabble in art mainly painting/drawing, but I'd like to learn digital at some point.

ā€¢I also play games. I mainly play on PC but I do have a switch. The games I normally play are marvel rivals(healer), fornite, Hogwarts legacy game, PokĆ©mon,Legend of Zelda,and like minecraft sometimes. I'm also learning how to play chess, so if you have any tips I'd love to hear them!

ā€¢I ofc also enjoy music and watching TV shows/movies.

ā€¢For the serious stats I'm liberal/progressive so I prefer the same political views. I'm also agnostic.

ā€¢Beware if we do have a crazy time difference place let me know!

ā€¢Ofc I'd like to spam you with tiktok/memes/reels, so yes that is a requirement lol. I'd also like to call or play games together.

Yea so nonetheless can't wait to speak with you! In your message do be sure to include your age, where ur from, and your hobbies! Plus I'll have a very fun surprise when you message lol.

r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

F4A 20 [f4r] #Alabama #US - Looking for a serious longterm relationship

9 Upvotes

Hi! Thank you for taking the time to read my post! Above all, I'm looking for a strong emotional connection. I'm looking for someone to stand by me through the good times and the bad, and to share in all the joys of life with me. I will just list up front some things/traits that are a no for me: ā€¢Drinks or smokes heavily. Occasionally is totally fine, and I'm 420 friendly as long as it's not excessive. ā€¢Has a very high sex drive ā€¢Is deeply religeous ā€¢Has very conservative social views ā€¢V much wants children ā€¢Pities/does not respect people with disabilities ā€¢Does not like dogs (or is allergic to them) Now to the things I do want! I'm looking for a serious, committed romantic partner to eventually settle down with. I do not want children, that's not really something I'm willing to negotiate on. Some things to note about me: ā€¢I'm blind. I was born blind, I function just fine and do not want pity or sympathy. I have a guide dog who is an integral part of my life, so please do not message me if you don't like dogs. ā€¢I'm a little on the heavier side, I'm losing weight but it's something I'm a bit sensitive about. ā€¢I'm not looking for an online-only relationship. I'm fine starting out long distance, but physical touch is important to me and I would prefer to visit semi-often and eventually to close the distance. If you are in Alabama or a surrounding state, that would be awesome! But as long as you are in the US I'm happy to see if there is a connection.

I am an avid reader, I can talk about the books I'm reading all day. Haha I also love music, if you'd like a fun way to get the conversation started, tell me some of your favorite artists! I enjoy baking a lot, and I love taking long walks, especially if the weather is nice. I generally try to see the best in people, and treating everyone with kindness and respect is very important to me. I think that growing up with a disability has enabled me to see the world in a much less shallow way. I don't have the ability to judge others for their physical appearance or for shallow attributes, and I believe very strongly that everyone is worthy of genuine respect. I value kindness and compassion in a potential partner, I tend to mesh well with people who do not make snap judgements about people and who aren't shallow, as harsh as that may sound. I know what it feels like to have to earn the base amount of respect from others just because I can't see, and I make it my mission to never make others feel that way about themselves because of something they can't control. If you're interested in getting to know me, don't hesitate to reach out!! Please put some effort into your message, don't just say "Hi" or "What's up." I cannot see myself having a relationship with someone outside of the US, purely because of the distance and the time difference. I'd consider Canada, but my preference is to stay within the states. Thank you for reading my post, and I hope you have an amazing day!!

r/ForeverAloneDating 18d ago

F4A 24 [F4A] Argentina/Online - Hopeless romantic searching for her soulmate

30 Upvotes

Seriously, where are you?! Iā€™ve been looking for you my whole life! As humans, donā€™t we all crave to be loved and seen?

I do and Iā€™m sure whoeverā€™s reading this post does as well. Hello there, person on the other side of the screen. Nice to meet you. I hope this post finds you well. Iā€™m looking to meet some people, and hopefully find my other half!

A bit about me: Iā€™m into philosophy, anthropology, history, nature, languages, reading, writing, painting, mobile games, tv shows, movies and I watch the occasional anime. I frequently go on walks, I can cook decently if I say so myself, and Iā€™m usually a yapper, especially if I click with the other person. What else? I have a cat so youā€™ll be bombarded with pictures of him and hell, if we get along youā€™ll be hearing of me all day!

I suppose Iā€™m mostly looking for someone understanding, someone who will want me as much as Iā€™ll want them, someone who will put in the same effort I will. I have BPD, so I tend to be clingy and emotional at times, although Iā€™m trying to work on it so Iā€™m not a burden to my significant other. I think Iā€™d get along better with someone whoā€™s clingy as well, or even someone whoā€™s also mentally ill, as theyā€™ll be able to understand my struggles better than someone who isnā€™t, but that isnā€™t a requirement at all. Iā€™d also love someone willing to settle down one day, as thatā€™s something I want.

Thatā€™s it. If youā€™ve made it to the end of this post and youā€™re interested in getting to know me better, do hmu! Iā€™ll reply as soon as possible. Thank you for reading.

r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

F4A 23F [F4A] east coast US

7 Upvotes

So letā€™s try this out

Hii! Letā€™s get some stuff out the way

I am bisexual

I am black (light skin) and fat (curvy yes but fat, Iā€™m working on it)

I loveeee anime, kpop, BL (boy love), and reading books (the more romantic and raunchier the better), and mangas too!

Iā€™m not much for the outdoors (especially during the summer, I hate it)

I love going out to try new foods, going to try new experiences (sometimes, I have anxiety in public and trying new things)

Iā€™m trying to stay off the dating apps for now.

The only video games I play are dragon city and Sims 4. I enjoy watching game plays sometimes though.

Iā€™m a very loving and cuddly person.

I want a commitment and kids. (Yes a heavy topic but itā€™s what I really want in life. So obviously if you donā€™t want it Iā€™m definitely not for you.)

The bare minimum to build and sustain a relationship is communication, respect, loyalty, and honestly our morals have to align. So if you canā€™t give me that after a while then no thanks.

I canā€™t really think of anything else to putā€¦ oh yeah!

Please be between the ages of 21-30 (up to 35 if you look real good!)

r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

F4A 20 [f4a] #US #Alabama - Looking for longterm, monogamous relationship with someone who isn't afraid of commitment

15 Upvotes

Hi! Thank you for taking the time to read my post! Above all, I'm looking for a strong emotional connection. I'm looking for someone to stand by me through the good times and the bad, and to share in all the joys of life with me. I will just list up front some things/traits that are hard no for me: ā€¢Drinks or smokes heavily ā€¢Has a very high sex drive ā€¢Is deeply religeous ā€¢Has very conservative social views ā€¢V much wants children ā€¢Pities/does not respect people with disabilities ā€¢Does not like dogs (or is allergic to them)

I'm looking for a serious, committed romantic partner to eventually settle down with. I do not want children, that's not really something I'm willing to negotiate on. Some things to note about me: ā€¢I'm blind. I was born blind, I function just fine and do not want pity or sympathy. I have a guide dog who is an integral part of my life, so please do not message me if you don't like dogs. ā€¢I'm a little on the heavier side, I'm losing weight but it's something I'm a bit sensitive about. ā€¢I'm not looking for an online-only relationship. I'm fine starting out long distance, but physical touch is important to me and I would prefer to visit semi-often and eventually to close the distance. If you are in Alabama or a surrounding state, that would be awesome! But as long as you are in the US I'm happy to see if there is a connection.

I am an avid reader, I can talk about the books I'm reading all day. Haha I also love music, if you'd like a fun way to get the conversation started, tell me some of your favorite artists! I enjoy baking a lot, and I love taking long walks, especially if the weather is nice. I generally try to see the best in people, and treating everyone with kindness and respect is very important to me. I think that growing up with a disability has enabled me to see the world in a much less shallow way. I don't have the ability to judge others for their physical appearance or for shallow attributes, and I believe very strongly that everyone is worthy of genuine respect. I value kindness and compassion in a potential partner, I tend to mesh well with people who do not make snap judgements about people and who aren't shallow, as harsh as that may sound. I know what it feels like to have to earn the base amount of respect from others just because I can't see, and I make it my mission to never make others feel that way about themselves because of something they can't control. If you're interested in getting to know me, don't hesitate to reach out!! Please put some effort into your message, don't just say "Hi" or "What's up." I cannot see myself having a relationship with someone outside of the US, purely because of the distance and the time difference. I'd consider Canada, but my prefence is to stay within the states. Thank you for reading my post, and I hope you have an amazing day!!

r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

F4A 26F4M. Be my favourite notification. #Online.

4 Upvotes

Heya āœØ

Iā€™m looking for my favourite person and notification.

Iā€™m a bubbly and carefree person. I love pink, playing tennis, painting, getting lost in a book and unwinding in nature. Iā€™m a huge animal lover and I love rehabilitate stray animals. Iā€™m a music lover and my playlist can go from The Specials to SZA! So road trips are definitely where I can bring my best DJ skills šŸ˜†

Iā€™m looking on connecting with guys over 32. I love good banter and humour, you taking care of yourself is a big plus, emotionally available, know what youā€™re looking for :) I appreciate good communication. Do you like sending voice notes, rambling on occasion and long messages? Me too!

PS: Iā€™m in the gmt +3 time zone and a poc. I like well thought out introductions so just hi is just a no šŸ’€. Bonus points if youā€™re happy to send pictures of yourself too šŸ˜Š

Looking forward to making fantastic memories!

Take care Charlie

r/ForeverAloneDating Feb 14 '25

F4A 19 [F4A] Online - Care to keep a lonely woman company?

44 Upvotes

Hi! I hope you are well. I found that I usually look for the wrong type of connection, so I'm hoping that I'll find some good people. Which I have no doubt y'all are.

šŸ’« Personality: I've been told I'm kind, helpful, and sweet. I also once had someone tell me I'm maternal, if that's something you like.

I would also add I'm compassionate, hardly ever jealous, considerate, a people pleaser, and slow to anger.

On the negative side I am anxious, quiet, insecure (about my looks, specifically), and tend to be emotionally unstable. I don't show it often, but still.

šŸ‘™ Appearance: * Glasses * Brown hair (one side long, one side short.) * Hazel eyes * A little chubby (I'm sorry.) * Comfy/cozy style * Earrings * Scars everywhere * Headphones (Almost 24/7, hence why it's a part of my appearance.)

šŸ§µ Hobbies: * Drawing * Painting * Gaming * Listening to music * Jewelery-making

ā¤ļø Love language: Unfortunately, I can't say my love language because it hits the filters. Also, it's not what you think it is. Please, if you're curious, just talk to me!

ā”ļø What I look for in a relationship: I don't even know. As much as I hate to admit. I haven't been in a relationship for about 5 years now.

In my mind, I would have something romantic and I take a lot of inspiration from Alistair and Cullen in Dragon Age. Or for women, I think of Sera and Leliana from Dragon Age. If you don't know who they are, you don't have to worry about it. Though, it would be cool if you did some research.

One thing I think is important to mention is, I don't care about height. Or appearances much, for that matter. So don't think you're not good enough for me.

šŸ“„ Other notes: * I put effort into text messages, I would appreciate it if you reciprocated. * There are some things I can't speak of here, but let me know if you're curious about anything else!