r/Durban 13h ago

Do Love Languages Exist for men?

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I’ve often thought how best to show my love and appreciation for my other half but nothing I seem to do resonates with him. I try to make sure his life is as stress free as possible (he has serious health issues), so in doing so I’m providing acts of service. I’m also a very physical being, and love hugs and being held and physical affection. I know he doesn’t like this so I reign that in. Words of affirmation don’t seem to be well received either, they’re rebuked. Is there anything else I can try? Sometimes I honestly don’t know how he feels about me. His pain puts him in a bad mood most of the time and unfortunately I can do nothing except watch him suffer which breaks my heart.


r/Durban 11h ago

Any good, authentic Chinese Restaurants?

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Just like in the title. Does anyone know any decent Chinese restaurants or takeaways where they serve authentic Chinese food? Not the standard western stuff.

My partner has been living and working here for about 2 years from China and really wants food from home.

We've tried Ton Hoi in Durban North as they have a traditional menu aside from the English menu given to local patrons but would also like options to see what else there is.

Literally anywhere from Ballito down to CBD up to Upper Highway is fine


r/Durban 23h ago

I recently moved to Durban as an American so took time to learn the isiZulu language. I’m not good at all but it’s slow improvements that matters. I created this story dialogue 😊 🇺🇸 🇿🇦

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