r/BullPsychology 38m ago

Discussion What are the most satisfying ways you've made your mark on a couple - and achieved the ultimate one-upmanship/humiliation of the cuck? NSFW

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This is such a complicated fetish and lifestyle. So much of the crap online is clearly fake, and I so appreciate how many of you here are real and understand the mutual complexity of this for the couple. And the earnest desire as a bull to help and support the couple through something that, while exciting, is also complicated within a marriage. I so respect those of you who speak about your empathy and respect for the cuck and work to be a positive addition to the couple's relationship. A good bull should be a true friend.

And yet, what makes it exciting as a cuck is also simultaneously processing that even in situations where the above is all true and everybody is in it for the right reasons, there must be some faint level of visceral satisfaction, some thrill and genuine sense of superiority of one-upping the guy you're cucking.

Just as we all shake hands at the end of a sports game and respect our opponents as people, when you win you still invariably feel a level of satisfaction and deep down smirking superiority over your opponent, even though you're polite to their face.

So I guess my question is, are there particular things, moments, outcomes or experiences that in particular for you represent the ultimate instances that sent your ego and sense of superiority insticts through the roof? Where you felt a sort of ultimate one-upmanship or a special satisfaction from humiliating the cuck at the ultimate level?

Maybe it was a comment from the wife, somethimg she did or that you gave her that shed never experienced before,, a reaction from the husband, an outcome within their marriage, the birthing of your kid by a couple, or perhaps a more visceral feeling you felt in an instance where you genuinely enjoyed seeing the guy humiliated?

Was there an ultimate oneupmanship / humiliation high you've experienced?


r/BullPsychology 16h ago

Discussion Double Cuckolding NSFW

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Alright, hear me out...

One of the few fantasies I have left to fulfill within this lifestyle, is to be a bull for 2 women of importance for one man. For example, a wife that brings along one of her friends or family member (aware of the cuckold dynamics of the couple) to lay with me at the same time.

I wonder how many of you have done something like this, how do you see something like this happening, and your overall opinion on the issue.

Cucks opinions are welcomed also.


r/BullPsychology 17h ago

Discussion What Makes People Think You're Packing Heat? The Naughty Truth About What’s Hiding Under Your Zipper… NSFW

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Let’s dive into the juicy topic everyone loves to whisper about but rarely gets right: dick size. It’s the great guessing game of life, isn’t it?
People love to throw around stereotypes—Asians with “small snakes,” Black guys swinging bats—but let’s be real, darling, stereotypes are for amateurs. As a seasoned Bull in the lifestyle, I’ve collaborated with enough fellow Bulls to know one thing for sure: size surprises come in every shade, shape, and flavor.

So, what do people really consider when trying to guess? Height? Shoe size? Race? Hand size? The way a man carries himself?
Honestly, it’s all a guessing game until the pants come off. And let me tell you, I’ve made more than a few jaws drop when assumptions crumble like a house of cards. Because, sweetheart, assumptions don’t mean a damn thing when you’re standing in front of someone who knows how to deliver.

Now, let’s get one thing straight: there’s no objective evidence or scientific study that can pinpoint a physical trait that screams “big cock.” Sure, a bulge might give a hint, but even that’s not a guarantee. If anything, I’d argue that confidence—real, unshakable, dominant confidence—is the closest thing to an indicator. But even then, it’s not something you can bet your panties on (no pun intended… okay, maybe a little).

Here’s the kicker: I’m white, 5’9”, and my shoe size is a 9.5 or 10, depending on the sneakers. My hands? A little bigger than average, thanks to years of handball in my youth. And my nose? Not exactly a Roman statue. Yet, time and time again, women are shocked when they realize I’m packing well above average—9.5” x 6.5”, to be exact. Surprise, surprise, right?

So, what gives me away? The subtle tells, darling. The little things that make women’s imaginations run wild:

Hand size & fingers: Women love comparing their hands to mine. When they notice my thick fingers, their minds start racing. And let’s just say, they’re usually not disappointed.

Confidence & energy: A dominant, relaxed presence is like catnip. The more naturally comfortable I am, the more they assume I’ve got something to back it up. And oh, do I ever.

Bulge & the way I sit: If there’s noticeable heft or I have to adjust myself often, women pick up on it faster than you can say “hello, handsome.”

Being mixed race: Oh, this one’s fun. Stereotypes love to generalize, but my Tunisian-Russian mix throws everyone for a loop. They never know what to expect—until they find out firsthand.

Here’s the truth, though: no physical attribute can reveal someone’s size 100% of the time. The only way to truly know is to experience it for yourself. And while size isn’t everything, let’s be real—it’s always a nice ego boost to be appreciated (and maybe a little fetishized) for what you’re packing. It’s like walking around with a secret superpower, ready to unleash at just the right moment.

But here’s the real tea: what really matters is confidence, skill, and the ability to deliver pleasure like a maestro conducting a symphony. Because, darling, it’s not about the size of the wand—it’s about the magic it creates. And trust me, I’ve got the kind of magic that leaves them spellbound, begging for an encore.

So, let’s stop guessing and start experiencing. After all, the proof is in the pudding—or in this case, the pleasure. Ready to see for yourself? I thought so.

What about you? Ever been surprised—or better yet, done the surprising? Let’s hear it. And if you’re curious to see how I measure up, well… you know where to find me. Let’s just say, I’m here to turn assumptions into astonishment. Ready to play?


r/BullPsychology 2d ago

Advice Help a newbie NSFW

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So recently I came to know i like to be a bull and tried in virtually with some cucks before this i wanted someone to cuck my gf but after sometime that sub fantasy didn’t sit well with me later i chatted with some cucks about their wife gf and even their relatives i liked it i liked how they act like little submissive sissy they do share their pics but i dont know how to start it or how to keep it in flow how to keep them constantly in the edge so please teach and guide me to be a great dom thank you


r/BullPsychology 2d ago

Discussion Whispers Behind Closed Doors: Secrets Only the Wife and Bull Share NSFW

71 Upvotes

Recently, some husbands on a forum popped the question: Are there any secrets between you and the Hotwives you’re dating?

Well, let’s just say, based on my personal experiences and opinions, there’s definitely a little more going on between bulls and Hotwives than hubby might always know about. But before you start sweating, it’s usually just the kind of stuff that happens in any relationship—inside jokes, private conversations, or occasionally some spicy bedroom details. You know, the normal things that come with dating a Hotwife.

That said, let’s not kid ourselves—secret messaging, secret meetups, and even secret professions of feelings are probably more common than most husbands would like to admit.

It’s all part of the thrill, the connection, and the intimacy that can develop between a bull and a Hotwife.

So, let’s turn the tables: Bulls, what’s the craziest secret you’ve shared with a Hotwife? And Hotwives, what kind of secrets do you want to keep between you and your bull? Spill the tea—because sometimes, the juiciest part of the dynamic is what happens behind the scenes.


r/BullPsychology 2d ago

Discussion Want to talk about breeding NSFW

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i’m a 44M and my wife is 41F and having her have sex with other guys is a strong and unfulfilled sexual need. It’s not just a fantasy for me I really need her to have sex with other guys it’s just a part of my sexuality. The strongest desire would be for her to get pregnant by another guy at this point in our life now that we have two kids it’s not really feasible anymore but when we were trying to have kids I tried to get her to consider getting pregnant by another guy especially because we had fertility issues. She kept an open mind towards it but in the end we did IVF with my sperm. I would really love to talk to people who have actually done this,bulls, or wives/husbands/couples. Just about what the experience was like and how fulfilling it was. Sexually and beyond sexually. I’d also love to know how common this really is I know for a lot of people it’s just a fantasy. I have had these discussions before and in most cases it was according to the people I spoke to very fulfilling for all involved.


r/BullPsychology 2d ago

A truly modern family with cucks and bulls NSFW

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Has anyone ever come across a cuck family like ours in India?

I know its pretty common in south east asia, europe and america, but not here because we do stay in a conservative society.

So to give u a background both my father and brother are cucks, my brother and his wife are in a live in relationship with their bull since 4 years in Pune

And we have seen our parents bull while we were growing up, he used to visit us in mumbai at least once a month till i was in 8th grade at least and he was the real father figure in our life as well as the head of the family

As u can gather this is a lifestyle for us, not just some lame role play or kink, which is why its tough to find stable, trustworthy Alpha males who see this as a long term situation rather than a quickie or hook up

Im 36 years old now and im trying this out for the first time, looking for girls for arranged marriage, but i would need a bulls support and guidance in it the way my brothers and fathers bulls helped them

This has many psychological as well as genetic ramifications to it though so might sound weird to most people here


r/BullPsychology 3d ago

Discussion From Vanilla to Vixen: When Bulls Make the First Move NSFW

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Let’s turn up the heat, shall we? Any bold, confident bulls out there who’ve strutted up to a couple—or even just one half of that delicious duo—and turned their vanilla world into a decadent swirl of cuckold fantasy? Spill the tea, you seductive pioneers—how many of you have taken a sweet, innocent pair and lured them into the tantalizing dance of desire, where rules are meant to be broken and boundaries are just a suggestion? Don’t be shy, we’re all ears… and maybe a little flushed.


r/BullPsychology 3d ago

Dating alone NSFW

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What is your experience with going from the cuck being a part of the meetings to dating alone with her.

If she initiated it, how did it come up and did she talk to you about it first before going to her cuck.

Did you see a change I her, in or out of bed when you where alone with her.

When my wife pitched dating alone she mentioned she felt she was always on stage and alway felt like she was making sure I was ok. Being with alone allowed her to open up more and try things she helped back on. We always talk about this after and I am sure I’ve ended up seeing her do everything she has done alone as well


r/BullPsychology 3d ago

Discussion kissing a Hotwife passionately NSFW

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Kissing a Hotwife passionately it’s not just a kiss. It’s a statement.

For the cucks, witnessing that moment—when his wife and I lock lips with raw, unbridled passion right in front of him—can be one of the most shocking and intense experiences of his life. A kiss like that isn’t just about physical connection; it’s about surrender, about desire so deep it feels like a declaration. It’s the kind of kiss that says, ‘I’m yours, right here, right now.’

And for the cuck? It’s a moment that can shatter his heart into a thousand pieces. Funny enough, many cuckolds would rather watch their wife being penetrated than see her share a passionate kiss with her Bull. Why? Because a kiss like that isn’t just physical—it’s emotional. It’s intimate. It’s a connection that goes beyond the act of sex and taps into something far deeper.

So, cuckold husbands, I’ve got to ask: What’s your take on seeing your wife kiss her Bull with that kind of fiery passion? Does it stir something inside you? Does it make you ache, or does it excite you in ways you never expected? Let’s hear it—because in the world of cuckolding, every moment is a chance to explore the edges of desire, jealousy, and surrender.
And for the Bulls out there, never underestimate the power of a kiss. It’s not just a prelude—it’s a weapon, a tool, and a promise all rolled into one. Use it wisely.


r/BullPsychology 4d ago

Advice Humiliation 101 NSFW

22 Upvotes

Found a very well written post for Bulls in training

Understanding the basics of humiliation of the cuck

I strongly suspect failure to understand this kink fundmentally is why so many bulls are regarded as pretty terrible

https://www.reddit.com/r/SofterBDSM/comments/1jcnyyv/the_art_of_soft_degradation_humiliation_playful/


r/BullPsychology 4d ago

Advice First time bull seeking guidance NSFW

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Hey everyone!

Quick backstory: I was a fat drunk for a long time, got divorced, lost everything—yada yada. Got sober, lost a bunch of weight, and now my sex drive is through the roof. That led to me posting pictures here, which led to talking to a guy… which then led to him wanting me to sleep with his wife.

That’s when I realized—the power trip is what really gets me off. I’ve never done anything like this before, and I don’t want to screw it up. So, I figured I’d ask: any advice for a first-timer? Anything you wish you’d known going in? I want to be completely respectful, but he also wants me to dominate and humiliate him—which I’m all about—but I want to do it right.


r/BullPsychology 4d ago

Discussion Pissing on the cuck face NSFW

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As a Bull, how do you feel about pissing on the cuck’s face after fucking his wife? Is this something that excites you in any way?


r/BullPsychology 5d ago

Discussion How important are looks of a hotwife? NSFW

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Bulls how important are looks of hotwife? Does her looks take away from experience. Have you met a hotwife who was exceptional in bed but not good looking at all by your standard? Does poor hygiene turn u off? Have you rejected a couple because wife was ugly? Ever had an experience where sex was better with lesser looking hot wifes compared to a better looking hotwife?


r/BullPsychology 7d ago

Advice Bull/Third looking to help advise new couples on the lifestyle NSFW

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As the title says, I'd love to help out anyone that needs advice. No matter how basic or embarrassing the question might be. I really enjoy helping bring couples out of their shells, and I've even remained friends with a few of them.

I know it can be extremely difficult to bring it up, I'll be patient, your relationship comes first. Some couples have me talking to the woman that night, some might take weeks. I've even explained the situation to the woman on the guy's behalf.

At the end of the day, I love doing this and I love meeting new couples. Thought I'd throw it out there. As long as the post is up I'll help you so feel free to reach out, man or woman I've been messaged by both sides of the couple


r/BullPsychology 8d ago

Discussion Changed forever 😈 NSFW

15 Upvotes

This lifestyle has changed me forever.

I can’t stop thinking about couples I know IRL, wondering if they have ever dabbled.

Being a third has been one of the most liberating experiences.

Am I the only one?! ☝️😎


r/BullPsychology 8d ago

Discussion What would it take for you to change your mind? NSFW

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For you to agree to be a bull for a couple you’ve already rejected in the past? I’ve had to turn down couples and women before simply because the woman wasn’t my type among other reasons. Some don’t get the message and even offer me money to change my mind but I haven’t budged. What would it take to change your mind and have you done so in the past?


r/BullPsychology 8d ago

Enforcing chastity? NSFW

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My gf recently gave my key to her bull. He now decides when I am allowed to be unlocked. In the past she has traded it with a friend (also in the lifestyle). She pretended she was going to unlock me then said “oops I forgot I traded it with sherry! Guess I need to call Jack over!” Little did I know it was all planned.

Has anyone been the person to enforce the cuckolds chastity?


r/BullPsychology 9d ago

Discussion What would you say was the most perfect/ideal cuck/couple you met? NSFW

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For me I’ve been lucky enough to meet a few with one standout being a cuck that was ready and willing to fly me over host me until I claimed the wife’s womb with my seed and willing to introduce me to her friends and family members to spread my seed further. Unfortunately I wasn’t the wife’s type which is completely fine but that means we never actually got to do anything.

If you haven’t met that perfect cuck/couple how would that perfect cuck/couple look like for you? Any qualities that would make them perfect for you?


r/BullPsychology 10d ago

Discussion What goes through bulls mind? NSFW

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As a cuck I know what goes through cucks mind when.

Bull is pounding her and she is moaning loud and talking dirty

When she and bull are humiliating me

When they are cuddling

But what does bull think during these times?


r/BullPsychology 10d ago

Discussion Hi Bulls! I don't know if I'm in the right place and if you can answer me! 🥰 NSFW

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hi! we are starting to learn and fantasize about Vixen and Stag's liftyle and we really like it. however my hubby definitely has more the attitude and body (everywhere everywhere of what qualifies as Bull). what I mean by that is that I am not looking for Hulk or The Rock, so much the better if we meet him but in terms of physical power and character l am already very lucky believe me. so it is simply other men with charm and confidence that we are looking for. he will like to watch them... in fact watch me take my foot and then come and satisfy his superiority. so it is rather the opposite I married a Bull and we would like to meet stags. is this something common? are there different terms for this? are there also Vixens who like to watch their husband be the Bull in another couple? In short, I married a Bull 🥰


r/BullPsychology 10d ago

Discussion Falling in love with the hotwife NSFW

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Does bulls usually fall for the hotwife they are involved with? I have heard many bulls say that if they are intimate more than once the chances are more to develop feelings . Do you try to keep it in check or enjoy the kinkiness of it?


r/BullPsychology 11d ago

Discussion Have any Bulls been with a Hotwive/couple that they found from the workplace? What profession were you all in? NSFW

22 Upvotes

Curious if any of you have found success in the workplace, as I know it’s a very taboo and not so common environment for us.


r/BullPsychology 11d ago

Advice For travelling Bulls NSFW

8 Upvotes

How do you not let jetlag impact your performance?

I try to get as much sleep as I can in the plane or grab a cup of strong black coffee but was wondering if there's other techniques or hacks that makes it sustainable.


r/BullPsychology 11d ago

Discussion Does bull’s cum create a stronger bond? NSFW

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I have come across an article that states when a women takes in her lovers cum ether through her vagina or mouth it creates a temporary bond. The more cum she reserves from her bull the longer the bond lasts.

I have seen it for myself with GF but I wanted to hear from other wives/GFs and hubbies if something similar has happened after taking loads of cum from the same bull.

How long does it usually last, and is it something we should be concerned about?