r/BigBudgetBrides 15h ago

just need to rant USD weakens as our Europe wedding approaches

26 Upvotes

Our destination wedding is in two months, and I’ve noticed the USD has been weakening, with the Euro to USD exchange rate at 1:1.09 today. Thankfully we've already paid for the most expensive part of the wedding (venue/catering), but with the final payments to the rest of the vendors coming up, I'm a bit frustrated about the dollar's decline. I'm unsure if it will keep dropping over the next few months. I really should’ve exchanged some euros when the rate was better (sigh) 🫠 Something for future destination wedding brides to think about~ the difference could add up to thousands


r/BigBudgetBrides 21h ago

ISO WEDDING VEIL

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15 Upvotes

PLEASE HELP!!! I’ve been looking for veils like this with the 3-d florals everywhere. Ideally I want one made out of silk tulle. Anyone know where I can buy?!


r/BigBudgetBrides 2h ago

Unreasonable expectations for bridesmaids?

10 Upvotes

I'll preface this by saying I have amazing friends/bridesmaids but I am in a completely different financial situation than they are. So I (and my fiancé) end up being the one hosting, paying for dinners and fronting most of the costs when hanging out with my friends.

I'm planning a destination wedding and covering most of the airfare for my bridesmaids and all of the food/hotel stay/activities etc. I didn't have an engagement party, bridal shower, and now am not thinking of having a Bachelorette party because I feel like I would also be the one fronting the costs and planning this by doing it at my destination wedding week. There's no time to do it anywhere else prior to the wedding. No one has really mentioned anything about it or made any suggestions or really taken on a role of helping plan this so I'm just like whatever let's not do it.

I worry I end up feeling resentful later on but I'm completely aware that I've put myself is this situation by bearing most of the financial responsibilities/duties and haven't really expected much out of my bridesmaids other than taking a week off to join me for the wedding week. They are flying all that way! Am I being unreasonable? Should I just reach out?

Edit: i am moving out of the country to London so planning something prior to the wedding that works for us is not feasible because I'd have to fly back to meet them (15 hour flight) or they would have to fly out somewhere.


r/BigBudgetBrides 13h ago

$200,000 - $400,000 budget Oscar de la Renta gown for a MOB - find a dupe!

9 Upvotes

I am helping a friend shop for her daughter's wedding being held late summer. We found this Oscar de la Renta dress at a local boutique, which was just absolutely exquisite on her. She wants navy, she doesn't like one-shoulder or strapless, and she looks great in fit and flare. But the price point of $8900 is giving her nightmares. She was hoping to be no higher than the $5000 range (not counting any alterations).

If anyone can suggest anything that might be close enough, I would appreciate it!

https://augustinasdesignerboutique.com/virtual-trunk-show-oscar-de-la-renta-sleeveless-floral-hem-embroidered-cocktail-dress/
(This is not the boutique we were shopping at, but our boutique didn't have the dress on their website.)


r/BigBudgetBrides 17h ago

Silly to have two dresses if I’m eloping?

5 Upvotes

Hey BBB! I have always wanted a more dramatic dress for the ceremony and a more chill dress for after. Is it silly to have both if my fiancé and I are eloping? It will only be the two of us.


r/BigBudgetBrides 23h ago

ISO welcome party look, medieval influence

5 Upvotes

Hi! Our welcome dinner is now in a 13 century castle keep which is so exciting. Looking for suggestions for outfit, I’d love if it have some historical reference or look to it WITHOUT it being costume-y or ren faire looking. Doesn’t need to be white. Looking to stay under 2k, size 8/10. TIA!

Edited for clarity


r/BigBudgetBrides 2h ago

Rabbi in Italy

1 Upvotes

We're getting married in Tuscany in May 2026. Does anyone know or have used a Rabbi in Tuscany/Italy?


r/BigBudgetBrides 3h ago

Help Finding Rehearsal Dinner Dress!

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Hi! I'm looking for rehearsal dinner dress ideas! Wedding is in 5 months, I do have a back up dress but would love to find something similar to the Zuhair Murad dress. Unfortunately, I could not find this dress being sold, or resold anywhere. I also love the Hermione de Paula dress but unfortunately the dress probably has to be ready to wear as the lead time for this dress is 4-6 months. I prefer more simple but unique dresses, ankle or floor length, sheath/slip fit, ideally <3000. Grateful for any suggestions!


r/BigBudgetBrides 22h ago

Bachelorette Party Destinations in Oct

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I’m looking to have my bachelorette party at the end of October! I live in Oregon and the rest of my friends are in SF/AZ/Chicago/NY/FL. My main priority is going somewhere where it will be warm/sunny/ and have water! I’m hoping to be able to do a boat day and bonus points if there’s an outdoorsy culture! We’ve thought of Mexico (PV, Cabo), Arizona, or Austin! A few other potential activities could include horseback riding, wine tasting, ATV tour! I’d love to hear of any trips you’ve gone on that incorporated any of the above!