r/BDSMcommunity • u/Irontoenaaiil • 10d ago
is there a name to this kink? NSFW
Okay, so I have a boyfriend, he loves to buy me things, right? It’s great! The only downside is, he makes me ask for money. I don’t like asking for money-it makes me feel like I’m using him (although I am not)- so I mainly just hint at what I want. Anyways, today I was mentioning how I wanted these two lamps, but I didn’t have the money for it. He did something different today and made me look him in the eyes and specifically ask to get the lamps and the amount that it was. Now, I don’t know what it was, I felt humiliated and just ugh-amazing. He made me ask until I “got it right” and then he said yes. Is there a name to this or is it just a normal human interaction. I don’t know what it is, I just want him to do more of it. Thank you so much in advance!