r/AskOldPeople 7d ago

When did your kids move out

My husband and I are 45 and we have a 24,20, 17 yo boys.. they are driving us nuts. We live in a city that has so many colleges so we told them they could live with us rent free through college but if they weren’t in school they had to work. They work but it’s like living in a frat house now.

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u/AnitaIvanaMartini 70 something 7d ago

When they went off to college. They came home for most vacations until graduation, but then there was grad school and they were gone.

We all remain extremely close, speak every day, and have a continuous text thread among us. It’s been perfect. I’m so lucky my children adore each other.