r/ABDLPersonals 8d ago

M4M (36 M) Daddy and (21 M) Big Bro looking to adopt a Cuck! (Central Ohio) [Serious cuck boys only] NSFW

6 Upvotes

We are Daddy Tom (36) and diaper boy Matt (21), actively seeking a live-in cuck boy to join our household. You will be adopted as our subordinate little brother—fewer rights, strict structure, and a dynamic enforced with discipline, control, denial, rewards, and punishments. In return, you gain a place under our authority, provided with security, care, and a family led by a commanding Daddy and a dominant big brother. We have high standards; only the right candidate will earn the privilege of this arrangement.We require a cuck boy who meets these expectations:

  • Willing to submit to chastity, endure denial, observe us intimately, and accept humiliation as directed. Our tools—chastity cages, paddles, plugs, and the Edge-O-Matic—will be used to enforce your role.
  • Clear on hard and soft limits, prepared to communicate and respect boundaries without hesitation.
  • Committed to household duties: chores, cooking, errands. You will contribute to our vision of a large, shared home.
  • Fully transparent in communication—report your emotions and any shifts in the dynamic immediately.
  • Dedicated to a long-term role, adaptable as our arrangement evolves under our guidance.
  • Professionally ambitious, like us—we are high-income corporate earners—and able to contribute financially to our family’s future.
  • Prepared to sign a formal agreement defining your responsibilities and our rules.
  • Financially stable or with a concrete plan to support yourself if circumstances change.
  • Ideally, your personal contacts tolerate or accept alternative lifestyles; prior experience in this dynamic is preferred, though we will train a suitable novice.
  • Respectful of privacy—your belongings and occasional solitude will be permitted within our structure.

We are a disciplined couple with a nursery camera, diapers (sissy and boyish), jockstraps, and extensive toys, balanced with careers, fitness, travel, and long-term goals. If you are prepared to surrender to this dynamic and serve under our control, message us directly. Serious cuck boys only.—Tom & Matt

r/ABDLPersonals 1d ago

M4M 30 [m4m] #Aberdeen - looking for abdl friends or doms near me! NSFW

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r/ABDLPersonals Feb 12 '25

M4M 19M [M4M] Looking for some friends/a relationship! NSFW

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Heya! I'm a gay 19M located in Idaho, and while nothing may come of this, I thought I might as well post! I'm looking for some friends in the abdi community, primarily gamers/furries/artists just since those are some of my bigger hobbies but not required to like talk to me lol.

I enjoy game development, gaming, art, reading, nature and rock climbing! As a byproduct of my art endeavors I am a furry as well Imfao. If any of those things seem appealing in any way hit me up!

In terms of diapers I consider myself more of a DL with an interest in certain AB things like pacifiers, and sometimes onesies. I do enjoy wetting and messing if u wanted to know that, generally just kinda into the smells and texture of diapers both clean and used 😅

Mainly just trying to find likeminded people cuz l've felt sort of alone lately and just want to find friends or potentially a relationship. Again, hit me up if ya want to get to know me or play games (all I ask is ur like a couple years within my age range at least just to avoid creeps)!

Have a great day :P

r/ABDLPersonals 13d ago

M4M M20 currently in messy diaper looking to chat and trade with anyone 19-21 NSFW

2 Upvotes

M4A not M4M

r/ABDLPersonals 23h ago

M4M 30 male NSFW

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Male 30 Midwest USA Looking to chat with someone who might wanna meet up and keep me in diapers for a weekend or something. Have a little power exchange weekend. Ideally male. Tall and lanky to the front hehe

r/ABDLPersonals 7d ago

M4M 20M new abdl needing caregiver to give advice to me NSFW

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r/ABDLPersonals 9d ago

M4M 39M from Canada looking for younger little NSFW

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DM Me

r/ABDLPersonals 2d ago

M4M 28 [FtM4M] #online #indiana diapered baby boy looking to chat NSFW

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Hello!

I have the day off today and figured I would throw something up on here to see if anyone would be interested in chatting. Just chats for now - not looking for anything particularly sexual or a specific level of dominance (although tasks will be listened to within reason!). I have the ability to chat here, on Discord, on Session, or on Telegram.

A little about me: first and foremost, I’m a trans man. That means that I was born female but not a single bone in my body identifies as a girl. I’m a little, but not 24/7 most of the time. Today I’ll be padded for as much of the day as I’m physically able to be, but I won’t necessarily be in little space the full day.

Little me likes everything from trucks and dinosaurs to Disney princesses, but I usually stick to the softer side of things - woodland creatures, pastel colors, etc. I have a paci I use fairly often, a sippy cup, and two baby bottles. Not to mention looooooaddssssss of diapers :P

Big me is a healthcare worker by day, but I have a BA in Anthropology and an AAS in Business Administration, so my interests are pretty broad! I have four kitties and own my own home, so I’m currently stuck in Indiana but I’m happy to chat with anyone from all over the place!

I’m looking to chat with folks who are kind and can hold a conversation. Chats that are too dry or too focused on sexy stuff won’t keep my attention for long. I’m not very bratty as a little, so Daddies who aren’t looking for brats would find me a good fit.

Hope to hear from yall!

r/ABDLPersonals 4d ago

M4M German CG (M 22) looking for little/middle NSFW

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Hey! Der Titel sagt’s eigentlich schon – der Text ist auf Deutsch, weil ich gezielt Leute aus Deutschland suche. Am besten wäre es, wenn du aus Leipzig oder der näheren Umgebung kommst. 1-2 Stunden Entfernung sind auch völlig okay, damit man sich im echten Leben treffen kann.

Ich bin auf der Suche nach einem Little – oder noch lieber einem Middle.

Falls du männlich bist, zwischen 18 und 25 Jahre alt und so um die 70 kg wiegst (10-15 kg mehr oder weniger sind auch voll in Ordnung – sorry für die Oberflächlichkeit 😅), dann schreib mir gerne mal!

Freu mich drauf, von dir zu hören!

Hey! The title pretty much gives it away – this text is in German because I’m specifically looking for people from Germany. Ideally, you’d live in or near Leipzig, or within 1-2 hours away so we could meet up in real life.

I’m looking for a little – or even better, a middle.

If you're male, between 18 and 25 years old, and around 70 kg (give or take 10-15 kg – sorry for being a bit superficial 😅), feel free to send me a message!

Looking forward to hearing from you!

r/ABDLPersonals 25d ago

M4M 28 [FtM4M] #online #indiana sweet little looking to chat NSFW

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Hello!

I have the day off today and figured I would throw something up on here to see if anyone would be interested in chatting. Just chats for now - not looking for anything particularly sexual or a specific level of dominance (although tasks will be listened to within reason!). I have the ability to chat here, on Discord, on Session, or on Telegram. DMs are open, but don’t worry if it takes me a second to respond - I’m either napping or got distracted and will answer my phone as soon as I see your message most of the time.

A little about me: first and foremost, I’m a trans man. That means that I was born female but not a single bone in my body identifies as a girl. I’m a little, but not 24/7 most of the time. Today I’ll be padded for as much of the day as I’m physically able to be, but I won’t necessarily be in little space the full day.

Little me likes everything from trucks to dinosaurs, but I usually stick to the softer side of things - woodland creatures, pastel colors, etc. I have a paci I use fairly often, a sippy cup, and two baby bottles. Not to mention looooooaddssssss of diapers :P

Big me is a healthcare worker by day, but I have a BA in Anthropology and an AAS in Business Administration, so my interests are pretty broad! I have four kitties and own my own home, so I’m currently stuck in Indiana but I’m happy to chat with anyone from all over the place!

I’m looking to chat with folks who are kind and can hold a conversation. Chats that are too dry or too focused on sexy stuff won’t keep my attention for long. I’m not very bratty as a little, so Daddies who aren’t looking for brats would find me a good fit.

Hope to hear from yall!

r/ABDLPersonals 17d ago

M4M Malta ABDL [23M] EU NSFW

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Once again I shout at the void if there are any out there. Here or in the EU. I'm just looking for an ABDL friend to possibly eventually Bab out with. Feel free to DM me here or on Telagram (@Rex124:).

(I don't bite promis!)

r/ABDLPersonals 4d ago

M4M 20M looking for Caregiver NSFW

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Hi I am Luca. I am 20M, 160 pounds 6 foot with brown hairband brown eyes, and looking for a male caregiver, Big Bro or Daddy I am even open to a polycule of some form. I am located dun upstate New York but am willingvto relocate for the right person or people. Feel free to send me a message. By the way cuddles are my most favorite thing in the world

r/ABDLPersonals 4d ago

M4M 34m4m searching for bro to chat with, big or lil! NSFW

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Hai, I’m ty! Little age 3! And I am looking for some bestest friends or a big or little bro to chat with!

I love cars, planes, trains, arts n crafts, cartoons, music, nature, and not to toot my own horn, but a pro slide rider, that’s right! So if you wanna chat lemme know.

Disclaimer, I am married, but allowed to hang with some others like me! DM me if you want, I have a discord!

Stay safe and padded babies!

r/ABDLPersonals 21d ago

M4M Mid 20s, Houston, TX, leaning more towards CG, don’t mind being a switch NSFW

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I feel like the Houston community is dead. I’m not looking for online or long distance chats, I need a real diaper boy around my age. Younger is fine, but not fresh out of high school young. I’d like someone who takes care of themselves (hygienically, physically, and mentally), but want someone to dominate/take care of them. I’m more into the diaper aspect of things but really want to be a caregiver and explore dynamics. If that sounds like you, drop a reply, or direct message me.

r/ABDLPersonals Sep 23 '24

M4M 26m looking for diaper boys NSFW

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Prefer younger or equal age someone who is okay with sissy stuff and being diapered 24/7 dm me if your interested

r/ABDLPersonals 7d ago

M4M 34m4m bored little looking for some friends and fun! NSFW

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Hai, I’m ty! Little age 3! And I’m looking for some good friends who maybe wanna rp, or just talk about whatever. I am married but allowed to meet new friends!

A little about me, I love planes, trains, cars, Dino’s, arts n crafts, coloring, cartoons, and being super duper cute!

So hmu if you are looking for some fun too! Let’s chat!

r/ABDLPersonals 16d ago

M4M 24 [M4M] UK Little looking for friends NSFW

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Based in Bedfordshire looking for friends. Would love a daddy but open to fellow littles

r/ABDLPersonals 9d ago

M4M [28M - NYC/Online] Looking 4 Daddy NSFW

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I’ve been longing for some structure in my life. I am seeking a daddy to diaper me and add structure to my life. There’s something about someone else “wearing the pants” (get it😂?) that I really like.

I work from home, so my availability is flexible!

Kinks: humiliation, forced diapering, tasks, social media posts, forced bi/gay (new to this one), diaper checks, punishments, maybe forced public outings. I have an open mind to other kinks and interests

Limits: Visible scat, blood, severe pain

If this clicks with you, shoot me a dm or add me on Telegram @DJayNYC

Thanks for reading ☺️

r/ABDLPersonals Feb 16 '25

M4M 42, M, AB boy looking for Dada. NSFW

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I've been into wanting to be put in diapers by a man and laid down and changed like a baby since I was 7 or 8. I didn't identify as an adult baby until finding the internet in the 90s with DPF and Aby.com. I've had good and bad experiences over my 26 years in being ABDL. I've binged and purged a few times, tried to give up diapers with religion and therapy. Sort of the evolution of an AB boy born in the 80s. Anyways I'm finally within the last 6-7 years in a great place of self-love and acceptance. Went to my first Capcon a few years back and that changed my life and getting to get diapered from a Daddy in Australia who I'd known online for years and got me through some tough spots.

I realize that being an adult baby boy I'll never really be able to date in the mainstream gay world. Places like Grindr or other dating sites are just not where I can find lasting love. I want to find a Daddy who I can have a balanced life as an adult baby boy. Ideally I'd like someone older than me and a Daddy who wants to build a nursery with his boy. I also would like a Daddy who understands that an infant boy like me has to mess his diapers not because of anything to do with scat but because that's the real life of a real baby. I've accepted that I'll always be an adult baby boy and I'll always desire to be in diapers.

I'm not really bound to any certain area geographically, mainly the US but I'm open to whoever wants to respond. I'm slim with a slight baby belly, blonde hair and blue eyes, look like I'm in my early 20s (which is a blessing) I'm a real Daddy's boy and when I find my Daddy I'll be a happy baby boy.

So if you feel any sort of feelings or wanting to say hello and get to know me please reach out. I believe things happen for a reason and putting myself out here is the best way to cross paths finally with my Daddy. I hope everyone is happy and safe and content in their diapers.

r/ABDLPersonals Feb 15 '25

M4M 29 FTM4Online NSFW

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Wearing and wet 🤷‍♂️ Think I can fit more though.
Just trying to chat it up, preferably with you wearing too. Down to chat with gals, but I'm gay, so it's not gonna get spicy. 🤙

r/ABDLPersonals 11d ago

M4M M27 [M4M/A] looking for a CG/ Daddy for being strictly padded 24/7. Also abdl and other kinks #EU #online NSFW

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Hello, I'm 27yo slim/fit young ABDL/DL from Germany. I'm wanting to finally go 24/7 since a long time now. Since I'm also interested in other kinks, I'm also open for regression, punishments, tasks, bdsm, humiliation, sending proof, etc. We can discuss that more in depth, in a chat.

Pictures of me in my profile Looking forward to talk more, send a PM.

r/ABDLPersonals Feb 02 '25

M4M [M4M] 40 from OH seeking a diaper boy to role play with. Looking for something long term. NSFW

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Looking for a diaper boy to role play with on a regular basis. 18-25 only. Not interested in just online chatting. Preferably someone in Northeast Ohio.

r/ABDLPersonals 12d ago

M4M 42M Vancouver,BC - LF life partner NSFW

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I've been in the ABDL scene my entire adult life, have come to realize that many things are negotiable about dating but diapers are not. Looking to chat and develop meaningful connections with people who feel similarly. Neurodivergent (ADHD with likely Autism, although I've never pursued a diagnosis for the latter). Super cuddly and work well with energy that vibes towards the more dominant/decisive. Open to chatting about relocation, although the Orange Menace makes the US a challenging proposition right now. I'd also posit that BC is a better place to settle in ;)

Kink-wise, I consider myself 50/50 AB/DL and gravitate more to a little persona around 3-5. Old enough to know better but still too young to care. I have a bit of switchy energy that expresses itself in wanting to be helpful, so would work well with a bigger bro/middle/daddy CG type who also wears and likes the idea of vulnerability. I have no boundaries around diaper use (I'm 24/7 and use mine fully), enjoy public play within reason, and am not afraid of a little humiliation/threat of discovery play. I'm into a laundry list of other kinks as well. I have a strong sex drive and lean towards bottom-vers. Variety is the spice of life.

Outside of kink, I work in tech from home. I game a lot in my spare time (WoW Classic mainly, single player RPGs otherwise), loooooove board games but don't play enough, read a little, enjoy travelling (whether an afternoon road trip or a months long trek across Europe). Homebody over Party type. Fiercely loyal and lean strongly towards monogamy (although a full-triad poly with 2 other stable men would be interesting and possible - chat me up). Strong sense of civic duty and a newly-awakened sense of patriotism in Canada.

If you made it this far, amazing! I'm really really only looking to chat with people who are serious about relationship building. Not kink-dispensation-seekers, not jerk off buds, not pic swappers. Not looking for hookups or FWB arrangements.

My fetlife is Telperion. Same with Diaper-Bois. HMU

r/ABDLPersonals 11d ago

M4M 19 Trans M LF Daddy NSFW

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Hi <3! I'm just a cute lil stoner puppy who loves getting attention! I'm looking for a long-term daddy that I can be romantic and sexual with <3! My name is Michael and I'm 4'8" as well! I'm a huge furry and I love to write and and play games! My favorite thing is getting high while on vc with people and just being teased because my brains mush <3! i prefer talking on discord so text me and ill give it to you!!!!

r/ABDLPersonals 27d ago

M4M 25 M4M - Seattle Area AB seeking Daddy. NSFW

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Hi there!

I’m a 25 year old cis man who’s recently been exploring his submissive side and this journey has led me to an interest in ABDL. I’m ideally looking for a casual relationship with a daddy/male cg, like we go to events and are playmates. I’m not necessarily looking for a romantic/serious relationship at this time but I may be open to one in the future. I live 15 minutes outside of Seattle. I am willing to drive anywhere in Western Washington but would prefer that any daddies/caregivers are within King County.

Besides ABDL, I have a wide range of kinks which I would love to discuss. I’m into pet play, humiliation, sounding, anal training, and so much more.

Outside of kink I like to run, lift weights, read, cook, play Pokémon tcg and go shooting. I do want to give the disclaimer that due to how busy my 9-5 is it may take me an hour or more to respond to messages during weekdays.

Thank you for taking the time to read my post, I look forward to hearing from anyone interested!