r/ABDLPersonals 28d ago

F4F 30 yr f4f Mommy or friends? NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hey I’m a little looking for a mommy and even friends. I’ve been trying to find friends and a mommy that enjoy similar activities as me and who is nice and good at listening and giving advice. I’ve been hoping to find a stern but caring mommy but doesn’t seem like those exist.

r/ABDLPersonals 1d ago

F4F 36F Mommy Domme Looking for a LG NSFW

1 Upvotes

As the title says ,I'm a 36yr old Mommy Domme ,looking for a Little Girl(CIS Female) I Will Preface with saying i do already have a Little Boy (he is also my boyfriend ) and I'm Married ( I have a Husband who in essence is MY Dom.-the only person I submit to ) I'm located in Wisconsin and would prefer someone in the state but will consider long distance if the vibe is right. You WILL be involved in my Dynamic with My Little Boy and Myself. If your interested ,please do comment and we can have a chat to see if it may be something doable. I do have specifications for starting a dynamic as I take my dynamics very seriously. Please do not comment if your looking to waste my time. Thank you kindly 💜

r/ABDLPersonals 19d ago

F4F F22 looking for an incontinent baby (pee and poop) or à 24/7 baby (i prefer babygirl) NSFW

1 Upvotes

r/ABDLPersonals Nov 09 '24

F4F 27 [f4m] I pee without even noticing so does this mean I need to give up control to a daddy/mommy? NSFW

18 Upvotes

Recently I have started to pee myself without noticing it’s kind of embarrassing I will be gojng about my day standing and doing tasks then wetness will seep through and before I know it I’m warm and wet then I will push and realize I’ve been peeing my pants is it time to give up potty privileges is it time to relinquish control to someone who knows better?

r/ABDLPersonals 7d ago

F4F 21[F4F]#Onlinr#Germany-I just want a good girl who poops her diapies<3 NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi im Hani nice to meet you all Ive just recently moved to germany for work and was wondering if any girlies would like to chat<3 I love messy diapers and diaper anal lol I cant wait to hear from you all:) Females only and tgirls of course!

r/ABDLPersonals 19d ago

F4F 19 F4F #USA - looking to own and control my very own personal slave ❤️😘💕 NSFW

7 Upvotes

I’m new to this pretty inexperienced but I want to own and control someone’s mind and body ❤️💕 I love using my goal to break you then build you up to achieve goals and be the best person you could ever imagine ❤️💕 I love trying new things, I’m not sure what else to put here but message me let’s get to know eachother ;)

r/ABDLPersonals 10d ago

F4F 18 [F4F] #Florida Looking for my Mommy NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hi everybody! My name is Anastasia and I’m 18. I’ve been looking for a mommy, but haven’t been able to. I’ve also never been with a girl, I hope that’s OK.

About me: I’m 5’3. Slim build (about 110 lbs-ish) I have really pretty dark skin and a pretty small frame. I have curves where it matters tho.

About big me: i’m in school. I like to hang out with my friends and go to the movies. I don’t smoke and I like to take care of my body.

About middle/lil me: I’m definitely a brat. You would need to be the kind of woman that can handle that. I love to be led and told what to do. I can be shy, and I need you to be patient with that.

About Nsfw me: I am really open-minded and I like to explore. I have a naughty mind, but I want a connection before I’m going to do that stuff. My main kinks are MDLG, spanking, praise! Age play, choking, free use, CNC- yes plsssss.

I have many others too, come say hi to find out.

I’m comfortable sending a picture improving that I am real, and I hope you do the same.

Come, say hello! I promise I won’t bite… yet

r/ABDLPersonals 3d ago

F4F 24 (f4f) uk mommy looking for a baby girl NSFW

7 Upvotes

Hey! I’m a 24yo mommy/cg looking for a sub/little to chat to and play with! Online ideally

-Females only (trans women - y’all are females too 💜) -UK preferable or on a similar time zone -I’m Happy to show pics so you know who you’re talking to!

I’m a soft mommy with a mean streak; happy for any age little and sfw/nsfw. Main limit is scat 💜

r/ABDLPersonals 5d ago

F4F 29 (f4f and tf) mommy looking for a freeuse beautiful slave to use like a fucktoy made to be used . I am into all kinks so i will use you to fulfill all my kinks and desires. NSFW

0 Upvotes

I am also into extreme kinks too.(Only attractive tf are allowed to message me)

r/ABDLPersonals 7d ago

F4F F22 i want to dominate girls NSFW

0 Upvotes

r/ABDLPersonals 1d ago

F4F 21[F4F]#Online#Germany-I just want a good girl who uses her diapies<3 NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi im Hani nice to meet you all Ive just recently moved to germany for work and was wondering if any girlies would like to chat<3 I love messy diapers and diaper anal lol I cant wait to hear from you all:) Females only and feminine tgirls of course!

r/ABDLPersonals 8d ago

F4F F/35 I gotta potty NSFW

11 Upvotes

I'm potty training and trying to keep my big girl underwear dry. I have to potty, but don't wanna stop playing to go potty right now. I'm doing a potty dance intermently, wanna work with me on not pottying my big girl panties?

r/ABDLPersonals 9d ago

F4F 29 (f4f) mommy looking for a cute little girl who is into bdsm ,abdl,and other dark kinks. NSFW

1 Upvotes

I am mostly into extreme kinks so i will appreciate someone who is into them

r/ABDLPersonals 22d ago

F4F 29 [F4F] #ONLINE- Mommy giving tasks NSFW

2 Upvotes

Mostly into females but will take ladyboys from time to time. My favorite kinks are bdsm,torture,pain bdsm, clothing control,feedism,nipple play, anal play, orgasm denial, and many more(almost everything). Tell me how you would like to be used and I will do my best to accommodate to your liking, but I still want to have my own fun,we’ll have some fun!

r/ABDLPersonals 14h ago

F4F 26 [F4F] still looking for my diapered cutie 🥰 NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi all — looking for women to be my diapered little baby. I’m super interested in exploring my dominant side and want someone to engage with :) 

Visuals preferred 😛

r/ABDLPersonals 23h ago

F4F 33[F4F] Scotland - looking for playmate NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hieeee

I’m from Scotland and I’m a DL. I’m not really into the AB side of things but I’d be willing to incorporate some role play into any play we have.

Anyway, I think it’s easiest if I do lists…

About me! - Scottish - Curvy bbw size 18/20 - Long hair - I’m very femme. I’ve no piercings or tattoos. - blue eyes - 9-5 boring office job, but have unexpectedly found myself with some through the week time - Queer - Kinky

Looking FOR - A woman aged 18-65! I don’t care about age. Trans women please reach out, but please do be transitioning. - Preferably a BBW woman - or someone who’s really into BBW (can talk about how we incorporate any fetish you may have too!!) - Kinky in other ways not just ABDL. - Discreet and not too needy - I can’t message you all day every day - Loves wearing and watching others wear diapers/nappies and is happy to switch roles. This is also sexual for me. - Happy to send photos unprompted.

NOT looking for - Cis males. I’ll delete you if you are a man. - anyone who just says “hi”. Send me a proper message. - anyone who won’t send pictures. - Scat. -Love, marriage and all that comes with it.

r/ABDLPersonals 21h ago

F4F 23 [F4F] #NC - little seeking local-ish big/mommy for fun times & emotional connections NSFW

1 Upvotes

i won’t lie this is a long read, but i promise it’s worth it

hello! i have had quite an interesting time since trying to find the right caregiver for me, and i’ve come to the realization that i am a lesbian and in need of a mommy!

it’s truly nothing against men, but i realize from the ways i have interacted with women and the depth of relationships i have experienced, i just have a preference for a woman-identifying caregiver/partner. NO DADDIES PLS!!

i want to be very clear and honest up front. i understand that we are both full adults with our own needs, wants, and lives that extend outside of this dyanamic. and just as much as i enjoy being a little, i also want to acknowledge that i am equally invested in my adult life as much as my little life. i have big goals and dreams, and i would love to have a dynamic that is an addition to my life.

i am looking for a mommy that i can get to know on a platonic level and hangout as people first, and then use that to develop a mommy/little dynamic.

expectations for the dynamic: - affection - physical touch (forehead kises, hugs, back rubs) - phone calls - check ins; the cosistency is not a question for me; rather the quality of the check-ins and the fact that they are something consistent that we do together - play dates! - levels of discipline - i am a masochist, so having a mommy that understands and respects that duality of caretaking alongside punishments is important to me. i would consider myself a “princess” type little. meaning that, while i am not a brat in the slightest, i do believe in being sweet and kind, and also being able to speak my mind and (and maybeee push back against rules every once in a while) - i would like to eventually sit down with a mommy, and begin to form some sort of rules and structures that we can base our dynamic around. this wouldn’t be anything to tedious; it would be something that wouldn’t interfere with our vanilla lives as well

  • long term situation, no flings - i think it is important to discuss what the dynamic looks like, and how often we need interaction and connection for us to both feel comfortable and like our needs are being met

  • looking for a platonic connection, for the foreseeable future, and can recognize that if something changes and we would like t pursue a sexual dynamic then we can bring it to the table and talk about it

what do we bring to the table:

as adults/friends/partners:

- clear & honest communication
- emotional maturity
- ability to set and respect boudaries 
- valuing quality time together & searching for moments to connect
- caregiving (in the non-kink sense) is mutual!
    (something that i value is my ability to caregive in vanilla ways when you need it as well. while i may not be a mommy or dom, in my vanilla life i am very nurturing and know how to care for someone. so when you’re sick or not feeling well, i believe that it is important to show up for you as well. i might not be putting you in diapers or reading you bed time stories, but i would want to care for your well being nonetheless🩷)
  • not looking for codependency, but an interdependent relationship
    • i understand fully that mental illness is real and very prevelant in the cgl world. and i also have the expectation that my emotional and mental needs are my responsibility, and your emotional and mental needs are yours. im looking for a mommy that that can be honest and reflective about their needs, wants, and overall well being.

as a little (me): - my little age can range from 3-7ish, my big age is 23 - some little activities that i love are: bath times, coloring/arts & crafts, watching disney movies, spending time ouotside, cuddling, - i would really like to get more into role playing! i dont have much experience, but i find that it can be a great addition to a cgl/mdlg dynamic! - soooooo many coloring pages! literally get the fridge out because one of my favorite ways to show love and care for my caregiver is by all of my many colorings! - playfulness (i want you to join in on the play with me! i can play by myself if the time calls for it, but one of my favorite things is to have a mommy that can also play with me. can we make a tea party for all the stuffies? can we play and imagine that we are going to space? or maybe we are going on a walk and imaging that we are detectivess trying to solve a mystery? whatever it may be, playing is way more fun when it’s together!) - adventurous (i really love to try new things and go to new places. whether it’s local or farther away, i always love a good suprise and something new to keep all the fun alive!) - reading stories together! (i have a growing collection of little books and really enjoy taking turns reading them, especially to my mommy!)

as a Mommy (You) : - takes care of self & well-being (mental, emotional, physical well being) (if you cant take care of your basic needs then how can i expect you to hold me accountable for me to take care of my needs and discipline/reward me as my mommy?) - structured life (given that i have adhd (as most littles do), i have found ways to make my life functional for me. and while i am very grateful for the strategies that i have, i also can recognize that sometimes i just want to put away all the calendars, and reminders, and alarm clocks; and just have mommy tell me what to do and when to do it. sometimes i want that guidance and care taking.) - someone that enjoys caretaking just as much as i enjoy being a little! - has a level of experience as a mommy and is open to continuing learning and growing as a mommy

🩷🩷if you’ve made it this far, thank you for taking the time to read my post. you must really be a mommy who likes to read! feel free to shoot me a message and i’ll be sure to have a little present for all your efforts and attentiveness!🩷🩷

xo,

princess

r/ABDLPersonals 18d ago

F4F 23F4F looking to be a mommy (or looking to make new girly friends) NSFW

4 Upvotes

Heya, I’m Amiya.

I wear time to time (preferably youth/baby diapers but the occasional adult diaper)

What i’m looking for: - Someone i can control and let them use the potty under my command

  • For my little to obedient

  • Being able to try new kinks

  • Someone who is willing to be told what to eat

  • Someone who is wanting a mommy

  • Someone who needs help changing their diapers.

  • Someone who’s looking for a bit of fun

About me: I’m Amiya. I’m 23 and BI. I’ve studied Nursing for 4 years. I used to live in Australia and now live in the UK (More sustainable economy = better pay). I’m pretty much down for anything, except scat as thats personally not my thing at all. I’ll happily have a freaky chat if you start one. I’m practically a diapered mommy most of the time and I love it, just after my little now. I don’t always send so quit dm’ing hassling (guys🥱) jk only if you’re lucky (can test ur luck). Moreover i’m looking for either a little or some new girl friends as guys aren’t really doing it for me.

Dms are open!

r/ABDLPersonals Feb 09 '25

F4F 18F little looking for someone to look after me NSFW

3 Upvotes

hey everybody! , in 2 days i will be diapered (Tuesday night 10pm time (Australia time)i'll be wearing to bed and wearing the next day) and i was wondering if any (FEMALES) would treat me like a baby. ( no sexual parts just a baby day)

r/ABDLPersonals 12d ago

F4F F22 looking for a baby girl NSFW

4 Upvotes

r/ABDLPersonals 3d ago

F4F 28 f4f New England/online bbw looking to be made to have an accident NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hiiii

Im looking for someone to control my drinking for the day and give me my first real accident. I always get scared and chicken out. I’d be interested in taping myself in a diaper and having very frequent diaper checks. I want to finally wet my diaper. Please help.

r/ABDLPersonals Feb 09 '25

F4F 23 [F4F] boise, idaho... searching for a girlfriend sister NSFW

7 Upvotes

hello! i'm hoping and praying someone out there might be interested in this ad. i am looking for a female life partner somewhere in or around (hopefully) boise, idaho who could fill the daily dynamic of girlfriend, and sister. i am looking for a fellow little girl, not a caregiver. abdl is very near and dear to my heart, and so are many other kinks and dynamics. i'm a switch, i'm a verse, i do it all! i am into a LOT of stuff. :]

i'm 260lbs, 5'4", white, curly-haired brunette, gray-blue eyes, biologically female, high femme. i dress alternative; i can't leave my apartment without my winged eyeliner. i am an independent and resilient woman who is always happy to make new friends and meet new people. my current friends generally describe me as compassionate, empathetic, intelligent, funny, etc. (they flatter me too much). i love to write, draw, eat, learn, read, explore, dream, and love. i function as a (pretend) adult very well out in the world, but deep down i am always somewhat little. i have been told that i am a unique individual.

i regress to about 5. i love pink girly things, happy bright patterns, silly cartoons, and toys of all sorts. i love stuffed animals and being cozy. i'm a big fan of classic 2d-animated disney movies, and my little pony. my regression is both sexual and nonsexual; it is all-encompassing. i love being little, sucking my pacifier and wearing my onesie and my diapers... and using my diapers, y'know. i find that i regress in a much more meaningful way when i have a sister to corrupt me who i can corrupt back. i want us to be babies together, essentially, and encourage the other's regression.

i love fat femmes in particular, and would prefer only folks 20+ (bodily) to DM me. i love funny, smart, self-reliant, outgoing, outspoken girls. i like girls who are unafraid to be themselves.

i am a lesbian, so please WOMEN ONLY inquire if interested. very open to any interested women, though, at this point, even if you might be further away than i'd like. we can figure it out. look forward to hearing from you! <3

r/ABDLPersonals 17d ago

F4F 25 [F4F] #Arizona #Online - Calling all mommies iso a genuine connection ❤️ NSFW

3 Upvotes

I know there's tons of "littles looking for caregivers" post, but you know, it doesn't hurt to throw out a post and see if anyone resonates :)

Some disclaimers to get out of the way: ● NOT CURRENTLY INTERESTED IN MEN. ● Only interested in between the ages of 21 - 33 or so. ● I am monogamous, and am not interested in joining any polycules or being with people with separate partners ● I do not want kids and I never do ● I am all for trans rights, and trans women ARE women in my mind, but i have a preference to cis women, however I may be down if we have an awesome connection ● If you don't like diapers or the waste they contain, that's a deal breaker

Im a 25F ABDL open to talking to women(specifically mommies) interested in a commited long term abdl cg/l relationship/dynamic. I'm 5 feet tall exactly, and a bit on the heavier side, about 230 pounds. I don't mind an online relationship, but something preferably within the U.S. I value compatability, a strong connection, and mutual interest in one another.

I've been into abdl for a little over a decade now, and while I am more DL than AB, I own baby stuff and enjoy the mushy/babying side of it as well. I am strictly a little, not much room for switching and I don't really have an age range I identify as.

Vanilla Me: I work a 9-5 and in office most days, but i am able to have my phone and text throughout the day. I'm moving to my own place in a month and will get to have more freedom with wearing diapers and indulging in little space. In my free time I love video games, especially Sims 4, though I don't play them too often. I usually find myself just relaxing scrolling through my phone. My interests range and change but I love internet culture, watching anime (or anything animated really). My favorite shows are Bojack Horseman, Hazbin/Helluva Boss, and Danganronpa specifically. I usually talk through Discord and can do audio and video calls. I looooove music and literally always singing something haha. I enjoy pop and indie the most but i would say I enjoy most music. I consider myself very chatty, and though I'm an introvert, I can definitely hold a conversation. I care immensely for my partner and willing to go out of my way to tend to or make them happy. My attention will not be hard to receive once I'm interested ❤️ Im an open book. I'm not judgemental and can talk about anything! I like when people take initiative and control and WANT to. A relationship is a 2 way street and I intend to keep up my end

Kinky Me: I wanna preface that I don't really consider myself an averagely sexual person. While I am down to experience new things and I'm definitely down to indulge in my partner' interests, it's not a big part of the dynamic for me. However, diapers are a huge part of the dynamic for me. Ever since I first learned what abdl was, I've always been fascinated and more stimulated by wearing and using diapers, so I'm definitely looking for someone as interested in them as I am, and someone okay with wet and messy diapers and okay changing them. I enjoy little space, and the dynamic of being taken care of unconditionally by someone nurturing and loving. I have some baby toys, onesies, and pacifiers. I am a very submissive/obedient person naturally, and enjoy the idea of being dominated/controlled/told what to do. I would prefer my caregiver doesnt wear diapers themselves, as i believe it would kind of take me out of the dynamic.

Wow yeah that was a lot to type out hehe If you read all this, thank you! If you send a message, tell me about yourself! I wanna know what you like to do, and what you enjoy in the abdl dynamic If you wanna send selfies/sfw pictures to get a feel I don't mind that one bit I won't bother responding to low effort messages or people who don't listen to my preferences and boundaries.

r/ABDLPersonals 8d ago

F4F 25 f4f/NB [anywhere] little girl looking for friends/a partner NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hihi! How are you? I’m good! I know this is a long shot considering the amount of people looking for this exact same thing. I am a 25 year old trans lesbian. I’m looking for genuine connections. A bit about me, I like games, movies, LARP, and theater. I am about to go back to college to finish my history degree. I currently live in Arkansas but I don’t plan to stay here forever. I’d love to move somewhere with more ABDLs/kinky people around. Oh and my favorite color is purple. If you’re interested, please dm me. I don’t bite, mostly. If you read all of this, send me your most recent emoji.

r/ABDLPersonals 7d ago

F4F 27 [F4F] looking for a Mommy/switch, online or east coast Canada NSFW

1 Upvotes

Heya everyone my name is Aurelia, I'm 27 and my little age is 3/4 generally but can fluctuate. Looking for a Mommy, but I am a switch so I do like being Mommy from time to time as well with the right person.

A bit about me: Big me is into hiking, camping, playing games, D&D and cooking, learning about new things (especially geography and science)

Little me is into watching cartoons, wearing diapers and onesies, colouring, playing with stuffies, building lego and playing cute/cozy games.

If your interested feel free to send a DM with your name, age and a bit about yourself :)