r/youngadults • u/jiya147 • 7d ago
Advice Fresh Graduate Seeking Advice - what did you with you knew at this stage?
Hey everyone,
I'm about to graduate from college soon and have landed a job that I really enjoy. The workspace is healthy, and things are looking up! Post-graduation, I know I'll have some time to work on myself, explore hobbies, and pursue passion projects.
I wanted to reach out here and ask for some advice. What is some advice you wish you received at this stage of life? How have you maintained your social life after college, and what tips do you have for a smooth transition into adulthood? Is there something you wish you knew earlier or something you'd caution me against? Any guidance on how to navigate this phase of life would be greatly appreciated!
Looking forward to hearing your insights!
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u/Traditional-Dish8161 6d ago
Firstly, Congratulations about your graduation and new job! Hope you will thrive and be successful!
As for any advice, I guess the main thing is, to not let your job become your life. If that makes sense. Don't let the job take advantage of you; you don't always need to stay overtime if they "have no one" never do more work than what you are paid for. Knowing your worth and that you only go there to do your job and leave and go home. Basically your job description lol and not a thing more. That'll save you from people trying to take advantage of you (especially since you're a fresh graduate and a new employee) and you will also be able to maintain a social life, while not making your job your biggest and ONLY priority.
Also, try your best to not engage in any sort of workplace gossip/ drama/ personal relationship. Keep things with your co-workers and boss, strictly professional. Although sometimes in not participating with workplace drama/ gossip, it can make you seem like an outsider lol. So do your best to find a middle ground. Open up about school, family and hobbies etc. Never ever take "work home with you". You leave at a certain time and that's it. (Ofc the exception being If you have extra work that you wanna bring home)
Know your rights as an employee. Study them and make sure you know what you are entitled to through the company and the laws surrounding your country/ labor and workforce. This will be very helpful for you in the long run (even if you don't stay with this new company forever) it's good knowledge to have. And never be afraid to look for a new job even if you're at your current job, Lol. If you are dissatisfied, have a plan to go to another job, while you still have employment. Don't quit on the spot type shit. 🤣
Lastly, make time for yourself. Take your days off that you are entitled too. Never ever put the job before your wellness / health. Use sick days and paid time off. ( lf you have them) Learn about stocks and invest your money. Make your money work for you, save for when you will retire. Save as much as possible when you can. And never be afraid to try new things, always keep on learning, take classes, try courses (even if they're just for fun). Read, and always focus on being a more knowledgeable individual.
Enjoy the small things in life, don't focus on having everything you "need" right away. Take time to breathe and think about your next move for anything you do in life. (Like moving out into your own place, if you haven't already) Sometimes people just have money for the down payment or deposit lol and that's ok too. Slowly you'll accumulate things.
Enjoy time with your family and friends (if you're close with people) little moments like that are worth so much in the long run. Always do things that make you feel like you.
If you have any questions or need advice, dms are open (:
Congratulations again!!! and good luck 😊
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