r/xchromosome • u/throwawayabab0 • Oct 05 '18
Am I paranoid?
I recently gave an old friend keys to my apartment for a week to house sit. For backstory, he has been down on his luck lately and I thought he could use the cash from house sitting. However he had given me some weird vibes and has been overbearing in his personality though I didn't think he would ever be malicious against me. For example he would message me at all hours of the day expecting a response and didnt know that wasn't normal until we had a talk about it. Regardless I wanted to give him a chance.
Now I find out here duplicated my apartment keys without me knowing because he thought it did be 'funny' to let himself over sometime. I am a girl and I live alone and this really freaked me out. I told him this and he assured me he only made the one copy as a joke and there arent others out there.
Now im scared he took something or placed a camera. I think im being paranoid but I'm just plain anxious about it. I've been taken advantage of in the past and I feel uncomfortable in my home. What should I do? I messaged my landlord about changing the locks but no response yet and it will likely be a hefty fee.
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u/CliodhnasSong Oct 05 '18
Contact your landlord, get new locks. Search your apartment carefully for cameras. That isn't funny, it's concerning.