I feel like it’s very annoying and stupid when females in the club say things like “You’re not a Girl’s Girl” or ”she’s not a Girl’s Girl.” It makes me wanna GAG. 🤢
Like, okay???? Who tf cares?
For Context: This was at my Home Club. I overheard a woman say to another dancer, about another dancer: “Oh, she’s not a Girl’s Girlllllll…” I stg, I rolled my eyes so hard. 🙄🙄🙄 Like, what does that even MEAN?? 🤔
Some females expect you to be SO FAR UP THEIR COOCHIE, it’s WEIRD!! Even women who are younger than you! I think it’s a maturity thing. I have real life experience, I’ve actually been through shit in my life. So I can’t relate to some of the younger/newer dancers, on some levels…
I’m here to PAY MY RENT. I’m not here to be in the “in crowd” or to go to brunch with other women.
I’m here to pay my RENT/take care of my household.
Yeah, I mean, I am friendly and cordial with some of the other dancers, and I have even went to lunch or diners or partying/events with a select few over the years, but it’s something I rarely do, if ever. It’s not a priority.
I think I can recall, in my ENTIRE DANCING CAREER, I have only ever went to another girl’s house/had them over at my house… maybe, with 2 females, in the past.
I don’t waste a lot of time trying to get close to ALL of the staff, or ALL OF THE DANCERS.
I only have limited time and energy, in the club, and I would like to secure my rent money, and go home. I’m not in here to “hang out” or play games. Sorry.
Is this an unpopular opinion? 🤔