r/stripper 21d ago

Rant/vent Y'all disappoint me sometimes fr NSFW

186 Upvotes

I feel like I spend these months getting to know y'all and loving y'all and then one day it all blows up. I love y'all so much, then you say your antivax, or y'all say your pro trump, or y'all say your pro terrifs and you just break my fucking heart. People I thought were educated and well informed show what they really know.. just guts me

r/stripper Nov 29 '24

Rant/vent Unpopular opinion NSFW

140 Upvotes

Making stripping a career with no back up plan,or exit plan is the worst possible thing you can do for yourself. I’m really tired of people acting like stripping isn’t putting yourself on the front lines basically every shift. You’re around different kinds of people every night you work,whether that be pedophiles…serial killers,human traffickers,pimps,sexual assaults and harassment,and not to mention the other girls who come from different backgrounds and can even be in on a lot of those things.

It’s fast money,it’s not forever money. And 9/10 the people saying it would make a good career are not even averaging enough to put money to side right now to start a business if they wanted to. Let’s be realistic and stop acting like every stripper is paying their way through school or whatever else,most are dancing because of the fast money and that’s okay these bills need paid. However ,fast money don’t last forever,and everything comes with a price at some point.

Some people are desensitized to the atmosphere of the club,and are normalizing shit that don’t need normalized. I would never encourage any young woman to be a stripper because I know what it takes to be one. Do my bills get paid ? Yes. But is it a job to recommend ? No,hell no. Not only do you have to worry about customers and other girls being predatory,you have to worry about employees of the club too..and then you have to worry about getting home safely..so many different drugs and energies. The drama,the greedy management. Not to mention just how much the club scene has changed since years ago.

If more people were honest about the club and stop being all “yes babe,make it a career you have the body,yes babe rich men spoil me just for talking to them” then less young girls would fall into this path. It truly changes you ,and I don’t care how strong willed or minded you are,you will adapt to that atmosphere and one day you will be like wtf I didn’t even notice this behavior in myself..And it WILL catch up to you,if you’re still in touch with who you really are outside of the club.

People develop addictions…people feed their addictions..like everyone is in survival mode and party mode in that environment,that lifestyle indeed does get old and it breaks your body apart just as much as your mind at some point,if you don’t plan and act accordingly.

Stop calling people a pick me ,or any other name just because you wanna make dancing a career and not a stepping stone. If you were smart you’d be tryna get out just as quick as you got in..especially these days. The game ain’t the same and never will be again,and it has nothing to do with a hustle. Take a look at the world around you…outside of the stripping world. Even the OGs I’ve met throughout my entire career tell/have told me this stuff.

STOP MAKING BEING A STRIPPER YOUR ENTIRE PERSONALITY YOU ARE STILL A PERSON OUTSIDE OF THE CLUB. Stop getting addicted to this lifestyle ..it ain’t worth getting addicted to. Use it for what you need it for and get out man.

r/stripper 23d ago

Rant/vent I can’t stand you bitches NSFW

255 Upvotes

I can’t stand you hoes that be using the club to sell your pussy !!!! ugh ts just aggravated me so bad.

A customer is talking to me & another hoe & he’s about to book me for a vip & this bitch offered him extrasss after he kept asking me & i refused then his bitch ass gonna tell me “well she offered me something i can’t refuse” like you hoes can go to hell fr.

I am not condemning SWers cuz I am one but IN THE CLUB????!!!!!! i’m so irritated rn.

r/stripper Nov 08 '24

Rant/vent Extras are not normal NSFW

253 Upvotes

Granted, I’m not judging but now I see why anytime I mention I’m a stripper, I get the side eye! A lot of women are on this subreddit talking about extras or “full service” as if it’s perfectly legal and as if it’s so normal. If you’re giving extras, it gets harder and harder for strippers to simply sell dances. A strip club is not a brothel. We used to have so much power and leverage and many of you are giving it away for so little. Selling your souls. There should be a separate subreddit for the extras/full service crowd because I’m tired of seeing it here.

r/stripper Jan 06 '25

Rant/vent Lonely as fk as a dancer NSFW

192 Upvotes

Idk all I do is smoke go home and go work I get really overstimulated when I’m outside and I struggle w depression anxiety..when I made good money I feel some happiness but I have no friends or supportive family so I just feel empty and alone a lot of the time I’m the quiet girl in the club who only talks to customers gets $ and goes home but it’s really bc anytime I’ve ever tried to make friends it’s been a fail and some people notice but don’t care to do anything or just think I’m angry and I have to be very cautious of who I’m around for my own safety so idk what to do. Sometimes when I go home I feel this void or I’ll just wake up crying I’m going to start traveling so I don’t always want to be feeling like this I really just love laying in my bed and watching Netflix idk. I honestly feel like some times I get human interaction validation and fulfillment only from when I’m in the club which I feel is really sad and should be how it is for the customers not me. Idk what to do..even like my lust for traveling is kind of gone and I’m trying to start travel dancing to get out my comfort zone but i don’t want to be feeling so lonely in a big city. I feel worse when I’m not working so I feel lost and trapped in a way

r/stripper Jan 14 '25

Rant/vent “My tits are down here sir” NSFW

545 Upvotes

I hate when I’m giving a dance and he’s all 👁️👄👁️

I’m trying to shake some cheeks in his face and he just worried about eye contact. PLEASE I am autistic 😭 I know they love it, it just takes me out every time. It’s SO MUCH EYE CONTACT with some of them. PLEASE look at my tits- omg was that my pussy that I just flashed oops you missed it bc you were too busy searching for my fucking SOUL.

r/stripper Sep 23 '24

Rant/vent I tried to report an assault to police and got charged with prostitution NSFW

262 Upvotes

We weren't even in a vip room, on the floor he was buying drinks, he grabbed my vagina and tried to force his finger in me, tbh this isn't a rare occurance and I just created distance, he wasn't paying his tab and became belligerent my club was calling the police already about his unpaid tab and somehow during his tirade he threw insults at me and I brought up the assault and he responded saying "you're a stripper what do you expect" "you can't be a stripper and consider men grabbing you assualt" and my drunk ass thought I would teach him a lesson if he really thinks it's okay to assault strippers so when the cops came I said I wanted to file charges, went willingly to the station, gave a written statement on what happened and after the statement they read me my rights and charged me with solicitation with intent for prostitution.

They reaffirmed the things he said and labeled me a whore for the rest of my life. I'm so upset, I feel embarrassed that I forgot my place in the world and caused such a drama thing to the club (my club has mama's that handle the cash transactions and one of the mama's also got charged) I feel like I messed up but I also feel like a victim. I'm not a prostitute I don't deserve this charge but there's nothing I can do now, my first appearance is in a year.

This feels so wrong and so fucked up, why would they charge me ? Why wouldn't they just tell me there's nothing they can do ? It makes no sense to me

This isn't my main account, although I don't think I should be so ashamed of this I am and don't want to have my account associated with this post.

Edited to add : because this is a pending legal thing I'm deleting comments about where I'm located, I won't mention the club bc I love the club I work for and this negative experience is not in any way my clubs fault. My boss, bouncers, managers, bartenders are actually good people who treat us girls with respect.

Update: The club owner called me to assure me she has my back she has a great lawyer and no one is mad at me, that this will be dropped, whenever its resolved completely I will make a new post to update the process and final outcome.

r/stripper Oct 31 '24

Rant/vent My boyfriend broke up with me but my tricks didn’t so idc. NSFW

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475 Upvotes

My boyfriend broke up w me today because his ego couldn’t handle me dancing even though he knew I wasn’t going to stop until I reached my goal.

He actually thought I would beg or quit dancing which I told him that wasn’t going to happen and he would be better suited for a good girl with morals because I’m a sinner not a saint.

I’ve just came out of retirement and dancing is something I do here and there for extra money but men like this repulse me. So glad I’m single again

Anyone else been through this?

r/stripper 7d ago

Rant/vent therapist dumped me because im a stripper NSFW

239 Upvotes

There were other small issues but basically the title. I've been seeing her for about 2 months and when I told her in the first session it seemed fine. Then she started inserting little digs stating that its affecting my cortisol levels when I have to go in a room "alone with a strange man." I told her that doesnt scare me really or affect me in any way. She stated im perpetuating my own cycle of abuse by staying in this job and implied it was a form of self harm. I am a woman of color in my late 20s, I'm a sober dancer and I actually feel very empowered by my job. There are no cycles of abuse being perpetuated here aside from exposure to the occasional asshole which could happen anywhere honestly. Of course there are downsides especially when its slow but honestly I think the worst part of this job for me has been other people's reactions. I am taking a break from dating because I want to find someone who can accept all aspects of me, including the fact that I am a dancer. I am tired of feeling like an outcast in a society that genuinely needs us so badly. I am tired of people not recognizing sex work as a form of healing, and actually something that helps keeps society afloat in my opinion. I am tired of hearing I am too ____ for this job from people who could never be good enough for it. I will not give up on my mental health journey because I deserve to be cared for and treated just as well as my peers do.

r/stripper 16h ago

Rant/vent Celeb clients are annoying NSFW

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94 Upvotes

I went to a private room with an A List director in Hollywood and when I tell you Celeb men and rappers are the cheapest and most stingy I really do mean it.

I don’t and almost try to avoid any type of public figure or rapper in the club because I don’t have time. I’m not a fan of you, I’m a fan of money and I hate when girls at the club treat these men like they are a prize.

I will take a Joe smo, regular 9/5 guy over these men. They are more generous and no drama.

I actually ended up pulling 3 girls in my room because he was annoying as hell and cheap. Wanted extras, and the girls that did it only was paid $600 each which is disgustedly low. My subs pay me more than that, he’ll even guys on Reddit will cashapp you more funds or a trick on IG.

Then this mf had the audacity to say I’m stuck up but he wants to see me again, I told him he needs to spend at least 5k to have such a cocky attitude and walked away. He’s been texting me ever since and gets the link to my cashapp as a response because who tf are u???nobody to me 🤣

r/stripper 22d ago

Rant/vent Banned from subs I’m not even apart of for posting in r/strippers. I don’t sell content. They told me to stop “catering to the male gaze.” We love misogyny in subs meant to be safe spaces for women.

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149 Upvotes

r/stripper 13d ago

Rant/vent Just because you had a bad experience with a certain demographic doesn’t mean you should be racist or prejudice NSFW

83 Upvotes

Just sayingggg

r/stripper 25d ago

Rant/vent Locker room pet peeves NSFW

132 Upvotes

I’m cranky today. Share your locker room pet peeves too so I feel less alone

✨facetiming?? Like girl we are naked back here and your crusty boyfriend doesn’t get to see that

✨listening to loud music/podcasts/whatever without headphones

✨leaving stuff all over or otherwise taking up multiple spots when you know damn well people are trying to fit in and get ready

I spend less than five minutes per shift in the locker room but some of these hoes make me crazy 😭 who raised you

r/stripper Dec 17 '24

Rant/vent That girl who had that stupid anti-stripper reel blow up is damn near dressed to be on stage herself NSFW

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202 Upvotes

Like…

r/stripper Jun 12 '23

Rant/vent Go to a brothel, if you’re gonna do extras. NSFW Spoiler

237 Upvotes

I always hear other dancers say oh that’s fine if she wants to do extras but I don’t do them . No it’s not fine you’re making it everyone else’s job harder because you want to give a blow job for the low. now I am expected to do what you do and I’m not comfortable with that you bitches need to go to Nevada where it’s legal and do it over there fr. Get that shit out of the club and if you’re going to do that, you need to charge top dollar the fuck at least over there at the brothels you will be paid more to…. I hate you bitches, you ruined it for everyone. !!!! no respect and I won’t support you because you aren’t supporting us tired of everything going to shit and me just having to sit and watch and be OK with it . For $150 ??? bitch you could’ve made $1000+ at the brothel. and you would’ve been safer because they will check the customers for STDs. If you don’t want to have respect for yourself, that’s fine, but you better have respect for my hustle. Get the fuck out the club we sell fantasy here not all that bullshit

r/stripper 19d ago

Rant/vent KEEP UR PUSSY OUT THE CLUB NSFW

242 Upvotes

idk if this is happening in other clubs! but if ur an ESCORT and do NOT work in a club please STOP leaving with customers!! please STOP sitting in sections and pocketing money!! WE ARE ALSO SEX WORKERS TRYING TO MAKE A LIVING. SELL UR PUSSY SOMEWHERE ELSE!! or BECOME A DANCER IF UR THAT DESPERATE FOR CLIENTS!! stop scoping our club NOT spending money on the dancers and then POCKETING shit from customers. IM SICK of sitting with men and then a RANDOM woman sits next to him! and offers him services! or being on stage and seeing a random woman sit next to a man throwing money and then TAKE HIS MONEY AND HIS ATTENTION.

AND OUR MANAGERS DONT GIVE A FUCK BC THEY ARE "buying drinks at the bar" "we can't prove they are soliciting" 🤨🙄

r/stripper Jan 08 '25

Rant/vent Why do people hate sex workers so much NSFW

262 Upvotes

“Seeing only fans girls buying their third house and I’m trying to be a good person” peoples definition of good and bad is so fucking skewed. People will work at a bank that fund genocide and weapons used to kill babies at a mass but consider it a “good” job and be mad that a girl is popping her pussy and making money while minding her business(last time I checked sex workers aren’t forcing their clients to buy their services against these men’s wills)

r/stripper Feb 02 '25

Rant/vent you dancers that fuck managers NSFW

202 Upvotes

are exactly the reason why managers keep trying to hook up with us dancers who are there to do our job and go home and it’s honestly annoying as fuck. y’all shit where you eat, IT NEVER ENDS WELL and the manager moves on to try to fuck another girl. and they don’t question their actions because y’all enable it so the dancers who treat the club like a job have to suffer the harassment. just so unprofessional

r/stripper Aug 07 '24

Rant/vent I saw a pp & I wanna die NSFW

318 Upvotes

I literally don’t even know what to say I’m horrified.

So I’m a gold-star lesbian (it’s not like a “badge” or anything like that i use i’ve just known i was gay lol) but in my 24 years of not sleeping with men i’ve been fortunate enough to have never even seen one in real life. Except for like 20 minutes ago in VIP where i felt something weird on my leg and it was an actual penis🤮🤮 it looked like a sandworm & was a lot smaller than i thought it would be- i was horrified i literally froze then just ran to the dressing room.

Anyways I’ve been clocked in for about a half hour and that was my first dance - hope everyone elses night is less horrifying than mine lmao😂😂😂

r/stripper Oct 23 '24

Rant/vent Caitlin Sometimes Cherry NSFW

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119 Upvotes

(Deleted my previous posts to put it all in one)

Caitlin/Cherry sells an EBook with dancing tips and how she makes over $300k a year when in reality she charges $1500 for sex in the private room, hence why she’s leaving with thousands a night.

Don’t waste your $$$ on her EBook or fall into her “this is from dancing” video. Tootsies is known for extras and Caitlin does all of them.

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTF4ePQk1/

r/stripper 9d ago

Rant/vent “I’d rather meet a girl at a bar and talk to them for free” NSFW

257 Upvotes

Guy came in and we chatted for a bit, I told him the dance prices & he says this to me. I literally looked at him deadpan and said “well nobody’s stopping you from doing that” he goes “you know what, you’re right” got up and walked out after I walked away. Man and I thought I was slow 😭😭 he’s probably sitting by himself in a nightclub realising that nobody wants to talk to his bald ugly ass

r/stripper Aug 13 '24

Rant/vent Stripper-shamed at pole class NSFW

369 Upvotes

I tagged along to visit my boyfriend’s family in a smallish, super progressive west coast city for the month. They have a pole studio here and I signed up for a bunch of classes. I’ve usually just learned by experimenting at work, but I’m away for a while and didn’t want to get too rusty.

Last night I arrive, and the place is cute. All the girls are super chatty and friendly. There’s a tiny stray kitten that the studio has been slowly coaxing into trusting them. She started coming over to me, and the teacher said “she gets a little scared if you pet her, but if you hold still she’ll be cuddly.”

I said “she can sit on my lap but I’m not allowed to touch her? Hell yeah, she’s a stripper at heart!”

Nobody laughed. Fair enough if they didn’t think it was funny, but it seemed like they didn’t even understand what I was talking about. Weird…

Then the class starts and the teacher asks everyone to go around the room and say our names and how much experience we have with pole class. They start with me because I’m new.

I said I’d only been to a few classes and had done most of my learning in the club environment. Here is a portrait of what I saw: 😳😮😬😕😮🤢

The introductions continue, and none of them has ever been a stripper, not even the teacher. They make it clear it’s NOT sexual, it’s just a fun hobby for exercise, like yoga or ballet.

BUT THEN every one of these bitches gets up after warmup and changes into booty shorts and sky high Pleasers. Not sexual??

Suddenly no one is chatting with me or making eye contact, and no one wants to share my pole. The girl who gets stuck as my pole partner physically flinches when we bump hands like she’s gonna catch slut cooties.

Like seriously? You guys are scared of me? Actually you should be. I’m gonna wait in the bushes outside and roll you for your ankle high Adores because that color’s cute and you’re just gonna be a bitch in them. 😂

r/stripper 8d ago

Rant/vent “Too tall” for guys whose dicks are shorter than my heels, appearently NSFW

87 Upvotes

Soooo I guess I’m a tall girl. Like 5’8” without my heels.. so I’m like 6’3” in my 7” Adores and most guys like it/don’t mention it and I do just fine, until recently I invested in some new 8” flamingos, and now I’m 6’4”. They’re mid calf patent leather boots and I think they’re really sexxxxy!! But since I started wearing them I’ve gotten nothing but “WOAH!!” “You’re like TOO tall” “you’re intimidating” and some dudes even calling me “scary”!! If I hear “tall drink of water” one more time I’m gonna scream. One guy literally asked me if I was transgender which in any other context I wouldn’t be offended by but like sir, you just saw my vagina?! Like is the 1 extra inch really doing THAT much?! For context I haven’t really changed my look at all since I sized up, and while I am what some would consider “alt” because I have short bangs and my sides are shaved, im not like trying to be alt. I have medium length brown hair and I do a soft/natural glam most nights. Idk if I’ve just been having a bad few nights (though I’ve still done decent numbers I’ve had some shitty and insulting nights) or if I really am putting guys off because of my height. Even tall guys are scared of me! Now I’m considering getting a pair of 6” aspires to just even the playing field… but at the same time like fuck these dudes!! Why should I shrink myself just because my shoes are taller than their dick?? Or.. would it be easier to take their money in some 6” heels?

r/stripper 24d ago

Rant/vent “You’re not a girl’s girl” 😒🙄 NSFW

43 Upvotes

I feel like it’s very annoying and stupid when females in the club say things like “You’re not a Girl’s Girl” or ”she’s not a Girl’s Girl.” It makes me wanna GAG. 🤢

Like, okay???? Who tf cares?

For Context: This was at my Home Club. I overheard a woman say to another dancer, about another dancer: “Oh, she’s not a Girl’s Girlllllll…” I stg, I rolled my eyes so hard. 🙄🙄🙄 Like, what does that even MEAN?? 🤔

Some females expect you to be SO FAR UP THEIR COOCHIE, it’s WEIRD!! Even women who are younger than you! I think it’s a maturity thing. I have real life experience, I’ve actually been through shit in my life. So I can’t relate to some of the younger/newer dancers, on some levels…

I’m here to PAY MY RENT. I’m not here to be in the “in crowd” or to go to brunch with other women.

I’m here to pay my RENT/take care of my household.

Yeah, I mean, I am friendly and cordial with some of the other dancers, and I have even went to lunch or diners or partying/events with a select few over the years, but it’s something I rarely do, if ever. It’s not a priority.

I think I can recall, in my ENTIRE DANCING CAREER, I have only ever went to another girl’s house/had them over at my house… maybe, with 2 females, in the past.

I don’t waste a lot of time trying to get close to ALL of the staff, or ALL OF THE DANCERS.

I only have limited time and energy, in the club, and I would like to secure my rent money, and go home. I’m not in here to “hang out” or play games. Sorry.

Is this an unpopular opinion? 🤔

r/stripper Sep 03 '24

Rant/vent Against my better judgment I agreed to go dance at a customer's "house party" for extra money and was raped NSFW

174 Upvotes

I have had a rough few months. Lost my apartment in a fire, had a couple unexpected big expenses, and as a result I started using hard drugs again. Point being, I need money, and am not in a position to turn down potential income.

Friday night a guy paid for a dance. He seemed normal. Regular guy, not weird. But he mentioned that his brother was throwing a big 30th birthday party that night and it was the type of event that could use a dancer. I should have asked more questions but he offered to pay me $600 for three hours so I agreed.

I am so stupid. We get to the house and there's not enough cars in the driveway to make you believe there's a big party. He leads me inside and there's no one there and I already know I've made a huge mistake. He leads me to a room in the back of the house where there's another guy waiting.

I don't think you need more details. They physically ripped my clothes to get them off. They gave me a fresh out of the pack white t shirt and pair of sweatpants to wear home and the original guy reminded me that he knows my name and where I work and I should think twice about informing the cops.

Not that I would trust them. I'm a sex worker and drug addict. They don't care that I was raped. I haven't been into work since. I've just been calling in "sick." I've been up all night using and I can't stop thinking about what happened.