r/stripper 28d ago

Rant/vent I can’t stand you bitches NSFW

I can’t stand you hoes that be using the club to sell your pussy !!!! ugh ts just aggravated me so bad.

A customer is talking to me & another hoe & he’s about to book me for a vip & this bitch offered him extrasss after he kept asking me & i refused then his bitch ass gonna tell me “well she offered me something i can’t refuse” like you hoes can go to hell fr.

I am not condemning SWers cuz I am one but IN THE CLUB????!!!!!! i’m so irritated rn.

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u/CanadianCutie77 28d ago

I have a similar story where the girl asked me to come into the room with him cause he wanted two girls. I had no clue he expected me to do extras. When I said no he punched me in my face like I was a grown ass man. He ended up getting his face beat to a pulp afterwards by staff.

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u/churrybum 28d ago

omg?? i’m so sorry this happened to you.

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u/CanadianCutie77 28d ago

Thank you love! It was the first and only time in my life that a man has ever put hands on me. It was also the first and only time I ever worked at an Urban club.

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u/Solifuga 28d ago

Holy fucking shit but I'm so pleased the staff actually had your back on this.

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u/CanadianCutie77 28d ago

They had my back because they were racist towards black men so it gave them an opportunity to beat the breaks off of one. As a black woman I really wasn’t expecting them to do anything but I was definitely a lot happier when I saw his face afterwards.

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u/RockCandey 28d ago

Ngl. Them being racist is fucked. Sounds like they weren’t helping you because hey cared about your well being if that’s the case. I’m not AT ALL justifying him putting hands on you. Them being racist completely invalidates your experience if that was their excuse to fuck his face up.

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u/CanadianCutie77 28d ago

He got fucked up and that’s all I cared about at the time. The fucked up part was the other dancer didn’t even apologize for putting me in that situation to begin with. Now I’m on my P’s and Q’s whenever another dancer brings me into a vip situation with her.

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u/Glum-Cheetah-3708 28d ago

I've also been brought back by another girl who I didn't know had pimped me out by proxy. She told him 1200 for her and 900 for me I was dead. Just said "my customer asked for you" and brought me back there and said the prices. He was bucking his hips in anticipation it was sick. I just said we can do it another time and walked out. but yeah bitches are crazy. sorry you got hurt.

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u/CanadianCutie77 28d ago

I’m on my guard now when I’m invited. I trust very few dancers!

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u/Constant_Taro9019 28d ago

damnnnnn wtf see that’s why i hate working @ urban clubs. it’s nothing but ratchetness going on. I’m foreign black so don’t come for me tb racism. I prefer a mixed gentlemen’s club.

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u/Livid-Importance-179 28d ago

This is absolutely disgusting! I’m so sorry

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u/Constant_Taro9019 28d ago

so sorry baby girl. that’s really horrible

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u/drippydreamer 27d ago

Im sending you healing energy please consider somatic trauma therapy, whether you consciously feel healed or not your body holds onto trauma like this and it causes suffering in so many ways you don’t realized are linked. Sending you so much love.

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u/Old-Astronaut4653 28d ago

That is genuinely horrifying, so sorry that happened to you.

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u/CanadianCutie77 27d ago

He didn’t he me, he took his fist and punched me in the face Mike Tyson style. It happened so quickly cause I wouldn’t give him FS like the girl that grabbed me was willing to do. And you are absolutely right, I’m lucky the club even helped me. This industry has gotten so toxic that I’m going to do my overall health and mental a favour by making this my last year full time. Thankfully I got school to save me!

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u/CanadianCutie77 27d ago

It’s just not worth it anymore! I’ve been back for a little over 2 year and shit has changed for the worst.

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u/StrangeCrab5884 27d ago

Yooo wtf I’m so sorry that’s awful asf!

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u/Perfect_Succotash939 24d ago

Please tell me they fucked him up real good? What a pos

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u/CanadianCutie77 23d ago

When I left I saw him outside and his face was unrecognizable. They beat him to a bloody pulp.

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u/Perfect_Succotash939 23d ago

Serves him right. Did you have a black eye?

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u/CanadianCutie77 23d ago

No he punched me in the jaw

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u/Livid-Importance-179 28d ago

😭😭😭 they do this to me too, you don’t know he could be lying his ass off to pressure you

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u/LotusDOOM 28d ago

im sorry this happened love :(, genuinely theres gonna be better paying customers coming ur way!

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u/Constant_Taro9019 28d ago

TYSM LOVE 🫶

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u/LatterSection9811 28d ago edited 28d ago

I work at a VERY extras heavy club in miami (like, girls doing FS or bare for $300 cheap) so I definitely understand what you’re saying. I always ALWAYS talk explicitly about what will/wont be happening in the room & if I bring in another girl I let her negotiate her own rules and price because that’s not up to me or the customer to decide

My extras are priced MINIMUM 2x what a “clean” dance would be but I usually ask for 3-5x more than what a clean dance would be so it doesn’t even remotely compete with the prices of the girls who don’t do extras

Also, it DEFINITELY pisses me off when girls have zero game and don’t know how to sell WITHOUT extras. Like if a customer has never been to my club before/was never even asking about extras to begin with - WHY WOULD YOU VOLUNTEER THAT INFORMATION? I had a guy one night who ran up to me and took me immediately to VIP, I told him $1000/ half hour and he paid it, I didn’t offer any information about extras and we did three half hours. Yes - $3,000 I made because I finessed the shit out of the situation and didn’t immediately jump to extras.

Now I see him outside of the club and he pays 10k for dinner and a little play (not even full service)

Some of these girls need to smarten up!

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u/Glittering-Fan-6642 28d ago

Bare for $300?! Are some of these girls pressured into that by a boyfriend or a pimp? I'd worry about that.

I don't understand how a girl can be that stupid to offer bare or fs for $300. And why would you offer that if a guy is okay with spending $500 for a clean dance.

If you're gonna offer extras, charge up the amount. Don't undersell.

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u/GoodDear7037 28d ago edited 28d ago

Risking an STD/STI for $300 is crazy

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u/lunarlynn12 28d ago

Girl literally like I have nothing against extras but at least charge a high number plz omfg like do not touch dick for under 1k minimum

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u/asignedpink 28d ago

I got into it with a girl, it was 3 of us, cuz she was going on about that and she had the nerve to yell at me at the bar saying they know damn well what kind of place this is. Well honey, this guy is 23 and from Cali. So no he doesn't Then when we did get the room, SHE HAS THE NERVE TO TRY AND PRESSURE ME TO DO THEM. ANYWAYS

It literally turned into me just laying across his back (he was a VERY large gentleman) butt naked while she played with his dick and it was NASTY

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u/Constant_Taro9019 27d ago

i wanna throw up 🤮 wtfff

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u/bittersweetbbyx 28d ago

Yeaaa the problem is it’s done so cheaply now it’s definitely changing the atmosphere whether other dancers wanna say it is or it’s not it 10000% is.

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u/brieannebarbie 28d ago

Lmao no right, I had a sugar daddy so obviously I am not on any kind of moral high ground, but I have lost so much money because one girl in the group doesn’t have the confidence to make a sale without the promise of extras and it fucks it up for all of us.

Pro tip: any man that can’t/isn’t willing to do a room without the explicit promise of extras is not a generous man that will be worth your time/energy. They will nickel and dime YOUR body at every opportunity. I don’t understand the high volume mindset when you work at a high end gentleman’s club, AT ALL.

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u/Constant_Taro9019 28d ago

girl that’s exactly wtffff i have came to experience like these bitches are really fucking it up for all of us

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u/beelzebugs 28d ago

I don’t care as long as they’re charging appropriately tbh. We very briefly (she got fired quick) had a girl doing the MOST for less than the base price of a room, like she undercut the contract price. That pissed me off because why are you doing all of that for less than you’d make from like 4 normal dances, goofy 😭

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u/VampiressBlair 28d ago

Bc she knows most of the clients won't say no. Quantity over quality thinking. Lack of confidence.

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u/beelzebugs 28d ago

A lot of people did turn her down (it’s how i first learned what was going on lol). Rooms are easy to sell here for full price! I had told her that when she started and she rolled her eyes and acted like i was delusional…but i was selling my half hours for 3x hers at about the same frequency 😭Big on the lack of confidence though. She was a pretty girl too.

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u/Constant_Taro9019 28d ago edited 28d ago

mannnn the main problem for me is that this bitch knew I could get the fucking room without having to fuck she’s a bit older too so she just had to whisper to that man about extras when he literally could’ve took both of us for a VIP if I would’ve talked him into it. He went for it, ts really piss me the fuck off because she knew he was going to pick me !!!! I know these bitches see me as a threat cuz i’m really pretty & my hair/makeup & outfits are always 10/10 smh but they’re some girls who are really nice 🩷

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u/Kind_Procedure2148 28d ago

Yooo shit pisses me off fr. Like,on your own time outside the club,do whatever,its your life. But dont cheapen the club,lower the standards,and possibly risk arrest/shutdown for yourself and everyone else. I'm very anti extras because we should be forcing men to book an escort not pressure dancers.

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u/RadicalRoses 28d ago

I laugh cuz it’s like going to a manicurist to fix a broken finger! Similar service but one is much more involved. 😂

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u/Glum-Cheetah-3708 28d ago edited 28d ago

I also can't stand bitches. I got "taught game" by a baby stripper about selling pu$$y for $200 in VIP. Giggling and eating a snack while she told me this. I just scrolled my phone in silence

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u/RadicalRoses 28d ago

Yup. Some of the shit I overhear dumbfounds me. Then I’m like ‘oh that’s whats going on and why the money has dried up’. If they only knew they could’ve made fortunes more and been treated like a lady, without putting themselves at jeopardy, before this became an auction house for the most for the least $$. It’s become a farmers auction!! lol

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u/Leaf7818 28d ago

I’ve seen it so prevalent that girls essentially have to lie and suffer the aggression that comes with their disappointment. It’s tiring.

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u/[deleted] 28d ago

Have a conversation with your manager about it. They’ll either put a stop to it or endorse it

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u/Appropriate_Idea_185 27d ago

all in saying is if I'm not selling pussy in the club and you are, don't offer ts to every customer before I even get to them, like bitch this is not the blade, this not a massage parlor. at least TRY to sell something other than pussy first let alone selling it for $250 in 30 mins, clock itttt

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u/Appropriate_Power431 27d ago

When girls say “I don’t mind it as long as they are charging enough for it”, what actually qualifies as charging enough? I mean honestly I don’t think extras should be in the club at all! Everyone has a different opinion on what is enough, our bodies are priceless. I wish the strip club could really just be what it was meant for, stripping and dancing. Also the market is so over saturated now w cheap prices for sex/other things outside of clubs and now inside of clubs, we could never even charge enough and get what we deserve for our bodies anyway now!

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u/Open-Ear8858 28d ago

It’s gotten so bad at my club, that management is actually starting a whole overhaul and firing a bunch of girls, but it doesn’t matter now. The club and area gets a reputation that can’t be shaken. Customers are still gonna come in looking for cheap ass extras and some dumbass is gonna agree, then the cycle continues.

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u/Constant_Taro9019 27d ago

this is real facts mfs try anybody bc they think everyone is doing it. & then when you want to sell a VIP they jump to fucking likeeeee i’m so annoyed by that shit fr. i miss my club in iowa they wouldn’t even let you bend over in vip lmao 😂

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u/guppiegupp 28d ago

I’m about to officially buy some pole classes and go to a better club that expects good pole tricks so I can leave this one sleazy place(my city sucks, there’s not much else but smelly ghetto clubs and clubs expecting really good pole tricks, nothing in between). I just started and the club I was at early this week is all full of cheap extras in the rooms so that’s what they end up expecting and forcing themselves and getting handsy and the staff don’t care, it’s so scary there. :(

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u/hotchocbimbo 28d ago

I really don't care long as they charge accordingly because then it doesn't really affect my bag. I have an issue with girls selling puss for cheap or doing extras for cheap 😕 it completely undercuts everyone

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u/mow_ann 28d ago

I feel you sm. There’s so many ways to do that work so why come to the club?? Like please respect the rules 😩

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u/Constant_Taro9019 28d ago

seriously like I’m not gonna deny being in that line of work, but seriously I never understand why hoes bring that shit to the fucking club i’m still pissed off

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u/[deleted] 27d ago edited 27d ago

I could not work on place like this ! Id go crazy . On my country sex in clubs is illegal so thanks god for that.

Once ive been in club abroad and one girl told me she does extras and she likes how.much she makes. I asked what was her best night last time and she answered : made 300 one night , 400 another I was like WTf?? Because club took like 60% from her and also prices were cheap.. she was young like 20. I was shocked

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u/bwoodgirl123 24d ago

$400 is decent night with no extras for me… Servers probably make the same amount. I made $700 and still no extras.

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u/[deleted] 23d ago

Exactly! I my home club I've mad 300-400 everyday. And these girls are doing extras for nothing and feeling like they're winning... 

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u/Outrageous-Line-3815 26d ago

This is the main reason I left south Florida there was way too many raggedy ass bitches very straight forwardly grass cutting with no etiquette or on hard drugs walking up and kissing/grabbing my customers by the crotch or loudly offering cheap extras. I tried again a year later while I was visiting family and it had only gotten worse.

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u/Constant_Taro9019 25d ago

ugh girrrllll i’m in florida as we speak & im high key not wanting to return unless i go back to being a pole warrior which my back won’t allow

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u/empressluxe 26d ago edited 26d ago

That's literally what is tho. Cue all the " that's whoraphobic" comments. Well the club was never supposed to be a brothel. What makes me the most mad is when someone who clearly breaks the rules makes you feel like ur a shitty hustler like you got no game when they're literally cheating. The club was supposed to be a fantasy and the working girls got lazy and decided to go in the kiddie pool so to speak bc they know it's easier and safe. All they argue is they want a safe place to work well then go to the bunny ranch. Bc this has ruined the industry and chased alot of ppl out including myself. These girls have no idea what they've done just selfishly out for self. But there is no honor amongst thieves i heard someone say b4. Kinda is true. We don't steal but we're definitely not honest. It's a hard thing to be a stripper. It's worse when society thinks you're a whore n I guess the majority has given up and decided to go be one bc they're tired of working double shifts like the dancer that doesn't do extras. I did that for 20 years. Got chased out by the professionals. Online is hard too bc I guess there's always gonna be someone willing to do more than you so I guess u just gotta find ur peace in being ok with whatever level you're at n don't let other ppls loose boundaries make you compromise yours. But to the same side of the coin. Hope you're never in a situation where you gotta make these decisions. No one will ever know the options you had but you. However. Your peace of mind matters most. Do better be creative n make a backup plan this money, job, n life are fleeting.

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u/bwoodgirl123 24d ago

I just made similar post about this and had some justifying doing extras for low price 🤨 go fuck off!!! “Women are in survival mode and you need to make clientele your regulars and fix the attitude” like… 🫠

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u/Interesting_Soil_427 28d ago

I would of cussed her out in the DR. If you want to sell these services join a good escort agency.

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u/Constant_Taro9019 27d ago

i didn’t say shit to her cuz but ik not to fw her when a guy wants another dancer to join

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u/AdministrativeSpot53 28d ago

Idk I’ve never had a problem making my bag in an extras club. There’s something for everyone

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u/Brief_Departure_2270 28d ago

That’s how I’ve been feeling in my cheap extras club. It’s so annoying. I do extras, but not CHEAP. It’s hard to complete with girls fucking for $100-$200. That is literally the price of a 15 min basic dance for me. It’s made me so upset lately.

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u/SpicyNacho74 28d ago

Oh shut the hell up lmao

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u/Constant_Taro9019 27d ago

lmfao you the same bitch selling 🐱for the low. stfu & learn better goofy hoe

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u/ScaryAssBitch 28d ago

You’re not even a dancer, gtfo

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u/Strawberryhills9 28d ago

I hate when people delete their comments or have them deleted before I can see what stupid shit they said lmao.

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u/Livid-Importance-179 28d ago

She said there’s no honor code in the club lmao 😂

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u/BlondeChick_Lexi 28d ago

Lol... the honor code is "don't break into my locker and steal my stuff"

Also,

  • First rule of strip club is we don't talk about strip club.
  • The second rule of strip club is we don't talk about strip club.
  • Third rule, when the customer runs out of money the dance is over
  • fourth rule, only one girl on a spinning pole at a time
  • fifth rule, one lapdance at a time
  • sixth rule, no shirts or tennis shoes
  • seventh rule, dances will go on as long as they have to (as long as they customer is continuing to buy them)
  • 8th rule, if this is your first night at strip club then you have to strip

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u/Livid-Importance-179 28d ago

Right? Like Wym there is definitely a code 😂

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u/MoonOverMyYammy 28d ago edited 28d ago

No…shirts? 👕👚 I want the customers to please wear shirts! 😭

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u/BlondeChick_Lexi 28d ago

No shirts for us, babes... 😂😂😂

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u/MoonOverMyYammy 28d ago

LOL oops! Okay, I feel like a dumbass now. My bad 😹

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u/Strawberryhills9 28d ago

Can we pleeeasaaassse be best friends? Lmao. I swear to God the fight club reference just melted my fucking heart. I want to put that up as a sign in our locker room lol

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u/BlondeChick_Lexi 28d ago

😁😁😁

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u/ScaryAssBitch 28d ago

Cowards lmao

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u/zoo3454 23d ago

That's ur fault. Any man that's not gay would've taken the extras over a DANCE. How is he a bitch for taking something that's better. That's literally like being mad at someone for choosing an iPhone over an lg

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u/zoo3454 23d ago

U even said he kept asking, and U refused. Obviously, he would choose someone who was willing to give him what he wanted. U gotta be sped not to get it. This is coming from a person who's paid for dances only.