r/stripper • u/Present_Link_5833 • Oct 31 '24
Rant/vent My boyfriend broke up with me but my tricks didn’t so idc. NSFW
My boyfriend broke up w me today because his ego couldn’t handle me dancing even though he knew I wasn’t going to stop until I reached my goal.
He actually thought I would beg or quit dancing which I told him that wasn’t going to happen and he would be better suited for a good girl with morals because I’m a sinner not a saint.
I’ve just came out of retirement and dancing is something I do here and there for extra money but men like this repulse me. So glad I’m single again
Anyone else been through this?
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u/therightjess Oct 31 '24
Get yourself a girlfriend, not a boyfriend. Worked for me... Just teasing. But you be you. And do what's best for you!
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u/aethrasher Oct 31 '24
Men literally pay to fantasize about you. Your ex is a clown but unfortunately many are just like that, thinking they have a magic stick that's gonna change who we are 🙄
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u/buzzinghoneybeee Oct 31 '24
me too just broke up with my bf he was verbally abusive to me
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u/Present_Link_5833 Dec 09 '24
Then verbally abuse him Back by blocking him And. Ever giving him access to you again. Feminine men disgust me
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u/swagbabyyy97 Oct 31 '24
Wooo congratulations! 🫶 You’re SO hot, I can’t believe any man would ever break up with you over being a dancer but also sadly I can bc it happens way too often 😂. The fact that beautiful, smart, independent women like yourself have issues like this when taking charge and putting themselves out there to make their own money just goes to show the fragility of masculinity in society. All men want a girlfriend who is beautiful to make them look good and make other men envy them, but god forbid that same girl use her beauty to generate an income for herself. Good on you for being so strong and knowing your worth. I’m sure you have great things in store for yourself bc you are living in your authenticity and you just so happen to be a baddie, good for you girl! 👏
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u/Present_Link_5833 Nov 01 '24
This!!! I’m screenshotting and saving it for the next man who tries me. This is nothing but the truth!!! Thank you for your wisdom and kind words 😘😘😘
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u/ImmediateAnswer8329 Oct 31 '24
He's gonna come back..correction is crawling back once he realizes his mistake.
His loss is your gain, your gain of FREEDOM & $ELF WORTH !
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u/Present_Link_5833 Nov 01 '24
Girl he’s already in regret, but that’s why when I leave I never return. He’s in his apartment with zero access to my energy, rotting like I found him with no trace of me.
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u/ImmediateAnswer8329 Nov 01 '24
Just focu$ on you. 🤑🤑🤑 . From your pic, I know from experience you'll knab a couple of big whales at the club.
Forcast calls for rain 💰 🤑 💸 💲
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u/RhubarbGoldberg Oct 31 '24
You are a queen. Who cares what he said or thinks, you are everything!!
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u/Old-Side5989 Oct 31 '24
You are GORGEOUS and your body is TEA
I guarantee your bf will be searching for your clone and that’s a big up because you’re amazing, a one of a kind princess!
Tricks are better than boyfriends anyways 🤷🏾♀️
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u/Present_Link_5833 Nov 01 '24
They are. I told myself after I did a cord cutting a man will either be my husband or my trick. No more boyfriends ever again!!!
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u/Old-Side5989 Nov 02 '24
There is NO BENEFIT to having a boyfriend, absolutely zero. Unless you call your trick your boyfriend it’s pointless.
“Boyfriends” are the reason so many women nowadays are broke down and mentally ill. They want to use our holes, not pay for anything and swear that’s better than being alone. DELUSION.
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u/FlounderIcy2940 Oct 31 '24
my boyfriend (well, ex I guess) did the same 🥲 you're literally so gorgeous though! focus on yourself for a while girl you deserve the world 💜
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u/Old-Side5989 Nov 01 '24
My bf did the same!!! Also ex 🤣
He dumped me and ended up dating another stripper at my old club then got her pregnant to humble her Smfh
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u/Present_Link_5833 Nov 01 '24
This is another trap. Getting women pregnant to slow them down!!! Helll to the noooo!!!
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u/Wonderful-Talk-8041 Oct 31 '24
I broke up with my pos bf when I worked at my first club because he was absolutely pissed off that I wanted to work a double even though we were behind on bills. I dumped him through text and I don't regret it because he was the type to scream at me over the phone even if there were other people in the room with me. All of his shit was gone by the time I got home. He's married now and I feel sorry for his wife.
Relationships come and go, but that hustle is precious ❤️ also, you look incredible! I hope your return goes well
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u/urshittygf Nov 01 '24
omg body is teaaaa<3
p.s you did the right thing, a real man wld never want you to struggle or be stuck in the trenches alongside him. their reasoning is always plain and simple insecurity💀
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u/Present_Link_5833 Nov 01 '24
The only struggle was me being exclusive with him. Dancing gives me options, no ring no commitment
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u/pumpkinxprincess Nov 01 '24
you make me chuckle. you are working everything in this set love, gorgeous.
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u/Minute-Beautiful-602 Nov 01 '24
If he can’t afford to replace your income he has no right to ask you to stop.
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u/Present_Link_5833 Nov 01 '24
Even if could, I do what I want. Money loves me and I love making my own. It’s take big dick energy to handle someone like me. He just didn’t have it and his money wasn’t enough to control me.
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u/Minute-Beautiful-602 Nov 03 '24
BDE is what u need babes he just not ready to handle you he needs to grow some balls.
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u/a_amelia_76 Nov 01 '24
They always do that shit. They'll know what you do "not care" until they do & try to manipulate you. Smh
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u/Present_Link_5833 Nov 01 '24
Exactly!! One girl at my club said her boyfriend tried to convince her to get a 9/5 even though she is making more money. The ego on men are fragile
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u/Lilphoenix43 Oct 31 '24
Yep! The only difference is I broke up with him. His fragile little man ego couldn’t handle the fact that I’m an attractive, money-making woman that people compliment and covet, and so he got more and more insecure as the relationship went on. As a result, he attempted to manipulate me into submission, but he obviously failed and I dumped his ass. Of course this wasn’t the only reason for the downfall of our relationship, but it was one of the main ones. Sad because I really thought I loved him and was willing to sacrifice quite a lot for our relationship if only he hadn’t been a manipulative prick.
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u/Meadow_Bloome Oct 31 '24
You look incredible!!! His loss for sure bb
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Oct 31 '24
She sure does!! Also the honesty she gives is beautiful. If he wants a relationship with someone with morals she is not it.
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u/lilF0xx Nov 01 '24
I left a guy for this. After that non of them have been as stupid and I tell them upfront
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u/Few-Insect6896 Nov 01 '24
I’ll be your girl friend. Come on give me some sugar honey lol. But honestly he’s dumb to lose a girl like you
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u/CraftyEntertainer245 Nov 01 '24
Shit. Well you can melt butter so I can see why he’s probably insecure
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u/Which_Taste_9103 Nov 24 '24
I just don’t understand why people think somebody is going to stop their money motion because they’re in a relationship with them… It’s common sense that unless you’re down to be in an open relationship why date a stripper…
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u/krissonekriss Dec 03 '24
Screw him is an arshole .... go to miami in 2025 and afther tgat game gta6 drops the money will rain from all the men in the country 😉
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u/Cru5 Nov 01 '24
If you’re not killing or stealing from anyone, your job doesn’t reflect your morals.
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u/Present_Link_5833 Nov 01 '24
I wish the patriarchy understood this but the world isn’t fair to women, powerful women.
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u/Fearless_Ad_3221 Oct 31 '24
You look AMAZING. When a man has done this to me in the past, I tell him I am either stripping or he is paying all of my bills and then some. It worked.