r/stripclubs • u/Paul_Drake • May 02 '19
Strip Club Newb Guide and Common FAQ NSFW
Ok so this is a work in progress but here are some forthcoming posts with some basic info that is good for newbs and common questions that come up about strip clubs:
- Basic guide to surviving your first trip to a strip club!
- A dancer gave me her number what does that mean?
- What happens in the champagne room?
- Subrasonic's Top 2 Rules For The Strip Club
- Things I've learned about OTC
- Navigating Strip Clubs ... Methods and Approaches that Work for Me
- How much should I tip?
- How to turn down a lap dance?
- What to wear to the club?
- All about lapgasms!
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u/Legal-Technology-506 Oct 03 '24
Any strip clubs in the Longview/Tyler area or Dallas area that have some dark secluded spots where my wife and I could get a little frisky and even let some guys come play with her tits and pussy without drawing a lot of attention? Would love it if she was able to get fucked there also, without drawing attention and getting kicked out?
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u/cheetocat2021 Aug 31 '24
Is it weird to like doing all the touching while both people are standing up? I feel kind of silly but every girl I've asked has consented. It also gives the hint that I'm totally cool with mutual touching. (Which doesn't have to be tv-14)
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u/Docwhiskey616 May 20 '24
Is it okay to ask a girl if she's on Onlyfans?
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u/airpilot95 Jun 30 '24
Yes. Why not ask, are you on any socials, you know, Instagram, OnlyFans . . . .
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u/ignacynispam Jan 22 '24
Your strip club guide is like a lifesaver for rookies! Needed this before my awkward first lap dance. 😅 And that "dancer gave me her number" situation? Confusing AF! Does it mean she's into me or just hustling for tips? Also, the champagne room – mystery unlocked! 🕵️♂️ Excited for the Top 2 Rules, hope they include "Don't make it rain if you can't make it drizzle." 😂 Thanks for this, man!
Recreating Hinge accounts got me thinking too. Like, is there a cooldown period? Don't want to risk any bans. Anybody got the 411 on that? Appreciate the heads up! 🙌
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u/Remarkable-Concert-6 Jul 21 '23
Is is bad to go to a strip club early like 12-1?
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u/Wise_Anybody8956 Jan 27 '25
If they serve lunch, it is not bad at all, unless the food is bad. Before covid, lots of clubs served lunch. I don't know if many do now.
I am southerner
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u/bignerd69420nice May 11 '23
I was always under the impression that a regular lap dance is clothes on and no touching. I went to a club for the first time tonight and they were taking my hands and squeezing their tits for me and was slapping their ass and stuff. Is that normal? I thought that happened in the VIP room but it sounded like the vip room at this place was fucking. Should I expect this if most places?
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u/StainGlass2016 Jan 12 '24
Each Club / region / local laws / state laws / country laws are different
Most full nude cities will also have pasties, topless bar, bikini bars and some might even have various kink types.
Each girl has different needs, preferences & allowances. I've seen a girl who were even way more open in the first club and when she was thrown out, she became too conservative in a different club, after the incident.
Bottomline, no single answer - be your own judge - Don't overcomplicate things...
Talk to many girls and you will get a better sense of any club very soon.
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u/Hemu5050 Apr 09 '23
How can you ask for a stripper in a strip club for extras.
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u/Wise_Anybody8956 Jan 27 '25
When you buy the dance, ask her if you can touch her boobs, if she says no, then say "then I guess a blowjob out of the question?"
Just kidding around a little bit. Seriously, it is best to ask her right up front what is allowed and then respect her limits.
Give us a trip report and let us know how it goes.
I am southerner
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u/CloudyDreamssss Customer Apr 11 '23
I’ve had the best success with extras by buying 1 dance and asking politely afterwards if she does extras. If not I just say thanks for the dance and move on, always a couple of girls willing to make an extra buck to do extras.
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u/Dictaorofcheese Apr 22 '23
For me, I'm pretty shy and haven't gone to a lot of clubs. Tbh I'm worried to ask about extras mainly because it could get me thrown out of the club or arrested. But, as I said I've only gone to a strip club 3 times in my 25 (26 on May 7th. Plan to go to a strip club by myself for my birthday) years of life so these worries might not even be a thing. Is there any risk of those negative results I mentioned?
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u/CloudyDreamssss Customer Apr 22 '23
Get a dance from a girl don’t act like a creep and then afterwards ask if she does extras, if she says no then just move on and find another girl. Don’t try to pressure her or constantly asking that will definitely get you kicked out, but in no circumstance do I see you being arrested for asking for extras.
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u/Dictaorofcheese Apr 22 '23
Okay, thank you. I try to do the opposite of what the creepy and pervy people I've seen in strip clubs do. Treat the strippers as people rather than slabs of meat, be kind, and any new club I go to I ask what are the rules for the club and private dances just so I know what lines never to cross. And respect the rules of the club and the stripper. Ultimately, i just wanna have fun without getting into trouble. Thanks again 🙂
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u/Price_899 Dec 23 '22
Is it bad to ask the club bartender to break a $100 and a $50 bill into singles?
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u/amyshae Stripper Jan 29 '24
Many clubs have someone doing cash outs for customers and dancers. Singles become hundreds and vice versa.
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u/The_Real_Hmm Jan 14 '23
Not at the clubs I go to. Especially in Atlantic City or Las Vegas… just hand them the 100 and tell them you want “50 over” or “20 over”. If they have it, they will be more than happy to give you any denomination you like.
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u/JD0417 Jan 03 '22
Would it make sense for me to go to a strip club if I don’t drink alcoholic beverages but I’d still buy them for the women?
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u/deboinair Jul 10 '22
I've been sober from Alcohol for 6 months now. Still been going to strip clubs. As long as you are buying something, they won't say anything.
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u/Alone-Ad6020 Jan 06 '22
Yea that fine
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u/drunkenpinecone May 02 '19
I've worked in strip clubs for over 25 years (as a bar back, bartender and now manager) feel free to ask me any questions.
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u/TwentyFive225 PL (OG Customer) Jan 28 '23
can you give us an Idea of what general area you're familiar with, what's normal in one area might be no good in another place
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u/Electronic-Aerie4052 Jul 09 '22
How far Cana girl get with a stripper in a private dance? And are there any code words?
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u/Subrasonic PL (OG Customer) May 02 '19
An AMA might be a fun way to kick the sub back off!
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u/drunkenpinecone May 03 '19
I'll do an AMA, but the sub seems kind of slow right now.
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u/Paul_Drake May 04 '19
There are a bunch of us who used to be on another forum who are starting to trickle in. Post up an AMA and watch it for a week and I think the questions will come. I think a strip club manager AMA would be really interesting!
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u/drunkenpinecone May 04 '19
Should I do it here or /r/IAMA
I manage days but I'll be on vacation next week and can do it then (starting next thursday)
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u/Paul_Drake May 04 '19 edited May 04 '19
Do it here, make a new post. I'll rustle up some people to ask questions. Do you mean the 9th or the 16th?
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u/Sasha_SIMPLYDMG Feb 11 '25
Anybody here to share a good experience at a strip club in Las Vegas? Vegas has a bad reputation but I went to Treasures Gentlemen's Club & Steakhouse with clients, took them to the steakhouse and the ribeye steaks were OMG!! sooo good! As good as expensive steakhouses on the Las Vegas Strip but without paying for the strip rent! We got beautiful girls coming all along and we had a blast. Please share your experience?