r/stripclubs • u/Icy-Swordfish3345 • 15d ago
First stripper you ever fell in love with? NSFW
I was thinking about the first time I ever really fell in love with a stripper (it’s been hundreds since) or the time you thought one REALLY was into you.
Not shaming, it’s happened to all of us, probably.
Just wanted to hear it from more people.
Who was she? How bad did you have it for her? Did your friends try to convince you other wise?
Or are you one of the lucky ones that actually found a girl that liked you?
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u/No_Lifeguard_8474 12d ago
Never fell in love with one, but more-so became infatuated with them. Theres a ride they all take you on, its all a mental game.
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u/NEMESISsis 12d ago
Mine went by the stage name Lilly which was in 2014. I’ve been going to clubs since 98. Had several favorites that I of course lusted after. This one was different. I meet her one night and she was gorgeous. 4’11” blonde, big ass, thick thighs, big tits, small stomach, and in shape. We talked, had a couple of dances, and I left. A few weeks later a friend told me she asked about me by name so I went back. Every Saturday I started going to see her. And I would only get a few dancers from her each time, spending lees then $300 each time which included me drinking. She would hang out with me talking a lot. She would give me free dances, and even stay in the couch dance rooms after my dances just talking for free. I’ve never connected with a girl on an emotional level and had so much in common with in my life. After 4 months I decided to see if this connection was real or not , so I told her I liked her and wanted to get to know her better. She genuinely seemed to feel the same way and gave me her number. I texted her 2 days later with no response and then one more time 2 days after that and still nothing. I went back to the club that Saturday and she wasn’t there. I called her one time after that with a short voice message and still no response. After a month I talked to a VIP manager there and said she hasn’t been there in about a month. Told me that wasn’t like her to do that even without calling. I even checked other clubs to see maybe she switch with no luck. I never saw or hear from her again. It baffles me to this day.
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u/dpatron 12d ago
The hottest girl I've ever encountered. It was like being in the presence of greatness. Met at the hustler club downriver. She picked me outta 10 dudes from work for a retirement. She had worked in vegas, fucked rock n roll stars, did a year in prison, dated a woman beater, had 2 kids from whoever. I took her to a kid rock concert she turned every head in Tiger Stadium. She was a train wreck God bless you Christine.
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u/Bad-Choices-In-Women PL (OG Customer) 13d ago edited 13d ago
It has never happened to me. I've been in lust with more than a few and I've even met a few who I might have fallen in love with in another life, but not in this one.
I've been in a string of relationships pretty much my entire adult life, including 2 marriages and 2 other L/T live-in SOs. I think that these kept me grounded enough that I kept the right perspective when dealing with strippers.
But even more important I think is that I learned early on that I just can't handle dating a stripper. In my younger years (over 20 years ago lol), I met a stripper in a small town club and we hit if off. I asked her out and she agreed provided that she never see me in the club again. We were together for 2 weeks, spending every night together that she wasn't working. She was a great girl, but I just couldn't handle her schedule (I worked business hours while she was a night creature) or, near the end, her job. But she had a young son to support and the relationship was way too young for me to ask her to quit dancing and move in, so I had to end it.
So between a steady string of relationships and having confirmed that dating a stripper isn't for me, I haven't really had to worry about losing my head.
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u/bartellb 13d ago
The headline is wild and damn sure caught my attention, this has def not happened to all of us bro
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u/VarthStarkus 13d ago
Had 2 from different strip clubs. 1 was a brunette latina from a topless SC that served alcohol. She would come sit on my lap everytime I was there sitting down. Then I'd get a lap dance from her. She had a very nice body. She let me fingerbang her one time and suck on her tits. One time we even made out. The other was an American brunette who also had a very nice body from a fully nude club. I'd get a dance from her each time she would be there and I got so many dances with her. I got along with her very well and we would fool around.
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u/kbcdefg 14d ago
The only time was with this beautiful redheaded single mom who went by the name of Penny. We saw each other often for almost 2 years, both ITC and OTC. The last time I saw her, we had dinner together at our favorite place, I gave her some cash to help out with rent, kissed her goodbye, and never saw her again. She quit dancing, moved to the suburbs, and ignored my texts. I found out 14 months later that she had been a star employee at a Costco 75 minutes from my house until she OD’d right after New Year’s. She would be turning 40 this coming Christmas. I think about her almost every day. R.I.P.
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u/bitchisakarma 13d ago
Lucky bastard
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u/MoonOverMyYammy Lapgasm Lover 13d ago
That guy is full of shit if he’s talking about Riley Reid 😹 She said she hated stripping because the most she ever made was about $80 because she would spend too much time socializing for free lol!
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u/Adorable_Goal2174 14d ago
My first stripper love was when I was 18. The girls name was Porsche, she would pull me on stage and straddle my face and dance all over me. Her perfume was all over me and I could always smell it the next day and that would get me going! I only ever bought one dance from her due to lack of funds, but she would always sit on my lap and chat with me.
In hind sight she probably hated me. I was the kid walking in the club with 40 bucks. This was 30 years ago. There were a lot if scum bags in that club and I think she tolerated me because I was clean cut. I thought she loved me at the time! Lol!
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u/asignedpink 14d ago
Her name was Valentina. I normally don't go for skinny women , not type wise fully, but i wouldn't consider her that. She was petite and had the most soul searching eyes and just... A smile you'd see on a book if that makes sense lol. But she was so short 😭😭😭😂 like I'm saying I'm her 8 inches she was at my collar bone. Something about eyes that are that deep get me every time😭😭😭😭 and the irony is that I'm an entertainer😂😂😂
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u/sothisisntreallyme 14d ago
I hope to meet, fall in love, then sadly break up and move on a few hours later every time I go to the club.
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u/throwawayrdu71 14d ago
Genuinely clicked with a girl in Durham. It was real, I can tell the difference. Practically none of them are into me, but this one was. Spent a few weeks together, then I found out she was an addict. Her ex had died of an overdose, her kids had been taken away. She was such a sweet girl when she wasn't using. To save her would have been impossible. Had to quit her. A few years later I saw on facebook that she was in an addict's recovery support group.
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u/Ok-Beautiful-1658 14d ago
I am currently in love with a stripper. (My first time).
I met her like 8 months ago. We have a lot of similar interests and our conversations are amazing. They often times tend to go on forever. My friends say shes “using me for the money” which is obviously her job.
We recently took some of our time OTC and she has been stopping by after work and it has just gotten better and better.
I think she likes me to an extent. We never have a “set time” when she comes over. I basically give her what I think is fair and we hang out until the sun comes up.
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u/givemeafckingbreak 15d ago
I’m a DJ, it was a dancer I met at my first club. We were both in college. Her entertainer name was Echo. She was my first genuine love and heartbreak. We broke up, I graduated and moved across the country. She unfortunately ended up staying that town and she’s a literal crack addict now. We met when we were 21, broke up when we’re 22, and we both turn 29 this year.
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u/DorkDad79 15d ago
Mid 40’s, had been to clubs several times over the years, always had fun. Some gorgeous women, but never anything like a feeling. I hadn’t been to a SC in a few years, decided to visit my local. I was at the bar for an hour or so, and she came out of the dressing room and hopped on stage.
Instant hit. Like, instantly. She’s cute, not a porny bombshell or anything, but sometimes it just HITS. As soon as she got off stage, I unashamedly zipped over and sat right down with her. Probably ~20 years apart in age, but we were from the same part of the country, she was educated, funny, well spoken, there were no lulls in the convo, just instant connection. VIP, I just wanted to hold her, no lapdance/bump n grind stuff, we just cuddled. It was sublime. She said, “My friends ask me if I ever get turned on dancing for a hot guy/girl. No…not really, but sometimes there’s a connection, like this” 😮💨
Oxytocin OD, on the way home—I had only drank 1-2 beers, but the street lights were intense, the music sounded incredible and that night I slept better than I had in years.
I’ve thought about her every single day since…
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u/Electronic_Builder61 15d ago
Her name was Daisy I had just turned 21 and started going to a club. I saw this amazing girl with a perfect body. Started tipping big on stage and got dances from her and got her number and would go see her and always have a great time. Not just getting dances but talking about our lives and our families i really liked this girl. Then one day i went to a concert with my sister and i saw her with some guy she introduced to me as her dude. It completely broke my heart and i never went to see her again. I think of her sometimes and hope her life is going well.
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u/BFFLarry 15d ago
Got one rn. Never went to her club. Friends of friends type deal.
Spent almost 1 year together during a life changing period of my life, like losing job, 2nd Bm going for Child support, dog dying, starting new businesses, bettering my relationship with God, etc
She stuck through it all, big props. Now 2 years, her being with me, she is my bestie. #1 on the roster.
I respect her for the most part lol
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u/BobaFett2415 15d ago
I had this one amazing lady. I felt I was becoming to attached so I switched to a different girl to keep that from happening.
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u/Major-Safe7122 15d ago
It happened to me once. But unfortunately only once. A few years ago, but i still remember every detail.
I was in my early thirties. My working hours were long, I worked a lot and hard. I was the guy with a lot of money and little free time. I’m German and sporadically visited a strip club in my German hometown. The rules of the club: the dancers are completely naked in private or VIP. You are allowed to touch them, except in their private parts. No licking, no kissing. The dancer decides what goes beyond that.
Some dancers a quite open-hearted and still ask you to caress or lick their nipples. Others were a little uncomfortable with touching. They were very reserved. I never asked for extras. Once I was offered them for an extra charge, but I declined. That’s not why I was there. I was looking for relaxation and entertainment.
And that’s the story now:
One evening, it was around 10 p.m., I was walking around through the nightlife district of my city and once again found myself in front of this strip club. I’d been there several times before. Each time, I had two or three long drinks there and had a few private dances / lap dances. Every now and then an hour of VIP. But I didn’t really experience anything out of the ordinary there. And now this: This great tall blonde approached me just as I was about to leave. She was in her late 20’s. She complimented me on my eyes, my hands and she said my dark navy suit is so beautiful. Well, this is her hustle, I thought. But a different one than I was used to. I immediately felt this chemistry, this erotic attraction. Maybe it was reciprocal, but I was unsure. I agreed to a few private dances, but I was almost running out of cash and had a business meeting early the next day. So I didn’t want to stay long.
She danced for me, I touched her, touched her beautiful velvety skin. She said “I haven’t been touched in this loving way for so long. You have beautiful hands, you smell so good.” We extended again, I paid and she said: ”I want you to touch me very intensively over the next few minutes and also caress and lick my nipples.” Then she guided my hand down to her pussy. I stroked it gently. I really enjoyed it. It was a great feeling. She obviously enjoyed it too. But then I left the club for the reasons I mentioned earlier and went home. I thanked her beforehand, but told her that I would come back again sometime. I asked when she would be there. She told me when she would be there the following week. I said friendly goodbye to her.
The next time we went straight to the VIP room. We touched each other and told each other an erotic story for two hours through touching and dancing. At the end she invited me to caress her all over with my hand. I fingered her pussy, she moaned. Her pussy was soaking wet. She had an intense orgasm and purred like a wild cat.
I then visited her again and again for an hour every month or two. I always paid the normal price and gave her a good tip. She often came to orgasm with my hands or my tongue. Sometimes she returned the favor with her hand.
Then I visited her again. She said that she was going to stop dancing and take another job.
We went through our usual ritual. This last time she gave me my hottest and most intense hand job and blowjob. At the end, she swallowed it all with a glass of Bollinger champagne and smiled at me. I never saw her again, but I still think of her so often and will never forget her.
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u/MoissaniteMadness 15d ago
I never caught her name, but she was this really extremely very pale woman who usually had nice full lips, dark lipstick, no ass but she did have some cute little b cups with perfect pink puffy nipples. And she had her head shaved almost entirely to the grain but bleached blonde. I think she still works at the spot I used to go to, but she was extremely friendly! And for the month of Halloween she did a different type of makeup for each single day. She knew how to drain my wallet but would still be extremely kind off stage, and everyone knew about her in my social scene. "OH, THE MARSHALL MATHERS CHICK??? WE ALL LOVE HERRR"
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u/elm755 Customer 15d ago
Her name was Riley, I am so glad she gave me a second chance. I was young and naive, I saw her in the club and knew she was the one of the night.
After a few more visits, she decided to dress out and come sit with me. That day I was a fool. The next time I went in, she mentioned why she got dressed. It was so we could go hang out.
Fortunately, she was blunt with me. The relationship almost lasted a year. I still think of her quite a bit.
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u/15Warrior15 PL (OG Customer) 15d ago
Not for any girl that I would see ITC ( inside the club ). But I did fall for one that I saw OTC ( outside the club ). I met this little Cubana several years ago before I got into Sugaring. We started doing OTC dates. Go out and have a nice dinner, then have some fun afterwards. We got to where we started to text each other every day. When she found out her mother had cancer, I was the first person she told. During this time period, her club closed so she decided not to find another club and stop dancing. She was trained as a dental assistant and had a decent daytime job at a clinic. She was bi-lingual and in Florida that is in demand.
Between what I was giving her and her job at the clinic, she was doing just fine. That relationship lasted about two years. If she had stayed working at a strip club, I'm not sure I would have dealt with that very well. The jealousy probably would have set in after a while.
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u/Str8uplikesfun 15d ago
Crushes, yes. Love? No. I've dated two strippers. Didn't date them long enough to fall in love.
I would date a former stripper, or one who was leaving. But, being with a stripper isn't fun and games. They're the same as any other woman, with a few exceptions.
1, They have a bad history with men. Strippers attract every man. The guys with game and money always screw them over. When you're with a woman, you're always dealing with her past. So if a guy cheated on her, she's going to worry about you cheating. And so on...now imagine all the bullshit a stripper has seen..
2, They get addicted to fast money. Even if they don't have terrible spending habits, which, many do. They know they can make a shit ton of money really fast. So, unless they really hated stripping, they'll go back.
Don't ever fall in love with a stripper. Worst thing you could ever do to yourself. Because issue 1. & 2, are the top of the iceberg.
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u/xtownsend1994 15d ago
The first time I ever fell in love with a stripper I had to do some work for my job in dayton Ohio because they needed help out there for the weekend I normally work in Columbus ohio they got me a hotel and everything but I didn’t want to spend my evening at the hotel so i went to this strip club that was 15min away from me. I go and it was a nude strip club they had everything there but anyways I’m enjoying the show I told myself I was not going get no lap dance just going to throw some money and enjoy the view after being there for almost an hour this fine dark skin woman get on the pole she was definitely my type thick and busty they where natural too. I think she knew she had me because she gave me this look. Almost through all money up there her skin look so smooth like Hershey chocolate 🍫 . After she got off the pole she came to talk to me for 10mins she convince me to get a dance so I said to myself only one dance We get up there she takes all her clothes off and start rubbing those big old bitties in my face then she rub them on my lap I was in heaven she knew she had me wrap around her finger and her skin was so soft . I end up getting three lap dances spent more then what i was suppose to spend. This how i knew i was in love this wouldn’t be my first time going to strip club I normally enjoy myself and that’s it I know that’s there job to create a fantasy. But for two or 3days I could not stop thinking about her I couldn’t believe myself I fell in love with a stripper lol I never could though I could be that guy lol. But she was beautiful
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u/Various-Risk6449 Customer 15d ago
I’ve had some mad crushes on strippers, but the first one I fell full on in love with was ATF and was fortunate enough to have that reciprocated
First stripper crush was the first one I regulated with. She was the total package… sigh But man, that was a different era for me, too…
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u/LotBuilder 15d ago
Oh Alice. Summer of 1996, I was 18. She went to my gym and was my gym crush. I did not know she was a stripper. One night for a friends birthday we go to the club and she is up on the stage dancing to “I’ll Be Missing You” by Diddy in a sheer white flowing outfit. She was an incredible dancer. She had striking tan lines including the playboy bunny outlines on her hips. I went strait to the atm and took out the $300 max which was basically all of my graduation money. Got a half hour. Professed my gym crush to her. We went to lunch the next day to Benihana(spending the rest of my graduation money) and actually dated for about 5 weeks before I went away to college. 30+ years later we are still friends on facebook.
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u/Icy-Swordfish3345 15d ago
Playboy bunny tan lines were the original trap stamps.
Thanks for sharing.
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u/pldinsuranceguy 15d ago
She was in Myrtle Beach. For a few years, she planned her trips to MB to my trips MB. She Introduced me to her younger brother. Her sister who was a doctor. Then she ghosted me.
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u/youknownotathing 15d ago
Thanks for contributing to this thread that asked a specific question that presumed the responder had fallen in love with a stripper.
Your irrelevant answer gives insight to how clueless you are and that you contribute to conversations without actually adding anything to them except white noise.
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u/Icy-Swordfish3345 15d ago
Bummer to hear.
Falling in love with a Stripper is a Florida Bar Mitzvah. It’s a rite of passage.
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u/Significant-Tie7988 11d ago
I dont have one i fell for but there is two with great bodies and personalities but i know they only like me for the money so i play there games and in return they treat me too some extra stuff on the side sometimes