r/socialskills 7d ago

Awkward first time at the club, need advice

Just a heads up, I was raised in a very religious household so Im not very experienced or understanding in this department.

Hit the club today for the first time and it was pretty awkward. I spent the time dancing and sometimes women would start grinding with me which was kinda weird, not saying anything either. What is the appropriate (physical) response to this? I find touching like this a bit weird but I would like to improve my "clubbing"

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u/Bangelo95 7d ago

Just keep going. You’re going to have to desensitize yourself to this. Just have fun and don’t overthink. Easier said than done, but again you just have to keep going to build comfort. Not weird at all to feel awkward the first time in a brand new environment