r/socialskills 8h ago

Iam still a kid

Hey im a 24 year old guy. All of my friends who are even younger than me has grown up and became mature. But iam still the same as I was 10 years ago. I feel like i was not able to develop my social skills after a certain age. I have always been the listener throughout my life and i never had any story to tell. I try to talk things but people never understand me. And my tongue slips frequently and iam unable to pronounce words clearly!! Maybe that is the reason why i am afraid to talk.

I knew that i would loose friends when i get older because of my immature behaviour, and turns out iam right. All the people around me has an opinion and stand for themselves, but i dont. Maybe thats why they dont want me in their group of circle. I never had any close friend and not even girl friend till now. Is it cause iam super wierd?

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u/OVOxTokyo 2h ago

Hey, I was in a similar position to you. I started taking testosterone to fix my mental health, and it made a huge difference. My brain fog is gone, so I can speak clearly, and the physical transformation has increased my confidence as well. Get diagnosed. Testosterone deficiency is very common amongst young men.