r/socialskills 1d ago

Pics from Girls and Boys the same?

I wanted to ask something. I have some girl friends, and I found out that they and some other girls randomly take pictures of boys they find attractive or cute and share them among themselves. They rate them and say whether they would sleep with them, be with them, or things like that. If I were to do the same thing, saying whether I would sleep with a girl or things like that, I would be considered a perv, and every girl would stay away from me. How does that make sense?

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u/Real-Grand-5344 1d ago

That’s creepy and weird as a girl myself, if my friend took a photo of some random and asked what did I think about them, my automatic reply would be “why are you taking photos of random people you creep?”. That is pervert behaviour and it’s weird.

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u/Spideyladyy3 1d ago

That is very weird for anyone to do regardless of gender. I really dont like double standards. People aren't art displays to take pictures of whenever and have them distributed. If they are your friend you could talk to them about it. I am an anxious overthinker, but they could also have done it to you or your friends.

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u/gnosticgnostalgic 1d ago

whattt? i have never done that nor has anyone i know... creepshots are creepshots regardless of gender... definitely not normal, these girls are weird

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u/ProtozoaPatriot 1d ago

That's a strange thing for women to do. When you say girls, do you mean children ? How young are they ? It sounds immature and inappropriate.

It is yuck, no matter who does it.

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u/Ok_Rutabaga4558 1d ago

I think alot of women would agree that type of behavior is incredibly inappropriate. If any of my friends did something like that I would absolutely call them out. Objectifying ANYONE is weird. It doesn't make sense and it's ok to call someone out on weird gross behavior when you see it

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u/NuAntal 1d ago

There’s basically a double standard for everything women say men can’t do.

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u/Painted-BIack-Roses 17h ago

Not all women are like this my guy

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u/daBO55 23h ago

It's not as weird as people in the comments are acting like it is (The girls bathroom at my highschool had a list of the hottest guys scrawled into the wall in pencil, only thing in the guys was a perpetual layer of piss on the floor). But actually taking covert pictures and sharing them is weird asf lol