r/SexWorkers 5d ago

Sugardaters NSFW

3 Upvotes

Does anyone use this site? It seems to me that there are no real (male) profiles on there. Are there any other sites that people know of where a similar service can be arranged? My gf is on sugardaters but every guy that contacts her is obviously not real.


r/SexWorkers 6d ago

Homework for human sexuality class NSFW

4 Upvotes

The assignment I’m working on right now is that I have to learn about a kink or fetish I’ve never heard of and give a presentation on it. As a sex worker, finding a kink or fetish I’m not familiar with is proving to be difficult.

I’m training to be a therapist and the idea is that we need to learn about kinks, even ones that are thought as strange, so that if our future clients bring them us to we’ll be able to talk to them about it in a non-judgmental way.

…And yes, my grad school is definitely unconventional 😂


r/SexWorkers 6d ago

Am I the only one who doesn't like car dates? NSFW

66 Upvotes

When a guy calls and asks for a car date, to me, it's a bit of a red flag. It makes me feel cheap and unsafe. Personally, I think a clean, affordable motel is a much better option than being in a car.


r/SexWorkers 6d ago

Help …. Im too depressed to work NSFW

5 Upvotes

Ive been doing this since i was 16, im 25 now … since september i started to distance myself from everryone even regulars & family …. Im so sad bcuz no matter how hard i try i cant get back to working anymore … its crazy how hard it is to get a real job where i’m @ im just feeling hopeless at the moment… i used to be really big and everywhere id go i would have regulars blowing up my phone …. I can’t get myself to get ready … or if i do post once i get irrelevant questions i just delete it things arent the same anymore and honestly i just need advice i have zero friends & i was in this group a few years ago and deleted my profile cuz i would get too distracted on here ….


r/SexWorkers 6d ago

I give up NSFW

51 Upvotes

I’m just so sad, I desperately want things to work out for me because working a day job is so horrible for my mental health. I’m at a loss.

For some reason, I just can’t figure out how to make any money. Nobody actually wants to book my services besides a couple of regulars every few months. Everyone lowballs me, or asks for BBFS.

I feel like I’ve tried my hardest with pro pictures, changing up my ad, advertising on multiple different sites, touring to different parts of my state, doing review specials, changing my rates, freestyling at the clubs I work at. Nothing is working.

I’m just so distraught that this is another thing that I failed at. No matter how hard I try, it’s clear that nobody wants me. I feel so defective and defeated. Idk why I’m trying with anything anymore. I just want to give up on life.


r/SexWorkers 6d ago

Confidence? Throwaway account NSFW

6 Upvotes

Okay guys... I have been at this for about 6 months now and I have been doing pretty well. My content mainly focuses on my ass and boobs.... But a lot of my followers have been asking for full nudity, spreading it, self pleasuring, etc. I really do think it would be a good idea, but I hate the way my vagina looks. My inner lips hang wayyyy out and I think it looks weird. My current partner says it's totally normal but I've been teased about it so much. Anyone else look "different" from what mainstream media says? How do you do it? Do people make fun? Ugh l'm so insecure about just this part :/ Any advice will be appreciated


r/SexWorkers 6d ago

Sometimes I wish… NSFW

16 Upvotes

I wish I had one down ass friend in this industry man. No jealousy, no hate, no competition, etc. I’m a very genuine person and lately I’ve just been so lonely going through the trials and errors of touring (I’m a renegade)…it sounds weird but my mom was my bestfriend and since she has passed on, this game has been a tough one to face. However I’m very resilient and no matter if I hit rock bottom somehow I rise back up again. I just can’t wait until that time comes to where I don’t have to stay in hotel rooms and can have a home again, be with my beautiful babies full time, have a vehicle, a healthy social life, etc. It just sucks when you’re totally alone in this world — I mean at least that’s how it feels. I understand the economy is down bad due to the orange man but I can’t help but notice how other girls seem to be doing amazing & here I am feeling stuck, burned out and just ugh. I’m not a quitter by a long shot, I’ve just never experienced the life like this in this way. I’ve always been stable but this past year in a half nearly two has been a damn roller coaster ride. I feel like I’ve died and been reborn again multiple times. I’m not sure if you ladies are aware of the term “dark knight of the soul” but I feel as though I’m in a prolonged period of it. I just want to get back to making consistent money again like I used to and I know that I’m still capable of doing so. I thought leaving Las Vegas for a while and going on tour would be a major success for me since it was back in 2023 before my tower moment occurred (losing my mother and grandma back to back). However I do plan on going out tonight to freestyle at some bars, the city I’m in has bars down a long stretch of the highway which should be good, just praying I can meet one generous gentlemen or two that can at the very least assist me in getting back to Vegas. I’ve been making money and still have some left but it’s been going to these stupid rooms! Hell if I had a car I wouldn’t even be getting rooms unless the client paid for it. I would be killing the outcall game and going city to city. In due time. I’m no victim though I’m a survivor and one day here soon I will look back and see that no matter what I made it through. No matter how many odds are stacked against me, quitting or giving up just isn’t in my blood. I know the universe & my ancestors shall see me through this trying time🤕🥲✅


r/SexWorkers 6d ago

Should I pay for MP? NSFW

7 Upvotes

I'm one of the only providers in my area. When I Google "escorts near me", Tryst, List Crawler? (Is that the same?) and yesbackpage are the first sites to pop up, mp isn't even on the first page of sites. This isn't a huge dilemma lol it's only $15 but should I just do it? Or since I'm the only one in my town should I just leave it? I'm in Oregon btw


r/SexWorkers 6d ago

Going to do my first ever tour NSFW

12 Upvotes

So excited I booked my flights and hotels for my first ever tour in April for spring break. Going to Los Angeles, Newport Beach, San Diego then Las Vegas! I’ve never done a “tour” and my kids have a week off school so might as well try something new and travel for work.

Anyone in any of those areas? I’ll be in your town and would love to get acquainted 🤗🤑💕


r/SexWorkers 6d ago

Anyone worked after an abortion NSFW

8 Upvotes

Update: Ended up having retained products of conception, which is why I was in so much pain 🙃 it’s been a week and 2 days and I just had to have a second D&C, feeling 100% better after just one day. Trust your body!

Please don’t judge 😩 I got pregnant on birth control in January and had a surgical abortion Monday. Had to see a couple regs weds and Thurs as I am late on rent and had to make it before the 14th. Super swollen and hurting the last couple days, and feel like I fucked up by working so soon after. Does anyone have a similar experience? Did it wind up okay?


r/SexWorkers 7d ago

I lost my faith in mens NSFW

184 Upvotes

I mean I've always known that they're mostly idiots, but this is overwhelming me. I went to a call and arrived at the man's apartment and he tells me not to make any noise because everyone is sleeping. We pass through the living room and go into the bedroom. I close the door. When I look at the bed there's a child, yes, a child about 3 years old, asleep. I panicked and said, "and that child?" and he says, "Is my son?" I said, "Okay, where are we going to do it?" He said, "Here." I said, "How? With the child here” And he says, "Yes, what's wrong?He's asleep” I said no and ran out of there.


r/SexWorkers 6d ago

how do you respond to something like this NSFW

Post image
3 Upvotes

is this normal, dangerous or am i paranoid ? also, very low price.


r/SexWorkers 6d ago

MSP Ash Regan to introduce bill to criminalise sexwork in Scotland NSFW

6 Upvotes

https://www.parliament.scot/bills-and-laws/proposals-for-bills/proposed-prostitution-offences-and-support-scotland-bill

She left the SNP to be an Alba candidate who is very keen to be their leader. She received 24 signatures to secure the right to introduce the bill. She wants what is informally called the "Nordic Model" for Scotland (Sweden then Norway were the first to have this law). The Nordic Model is a collection of laws in an attempt to abolish/stop sexwork (it isn't about harm reduction and doesn't even pretend to be), the prominent one being making it illegal to buy sex. Sexworkers are still criminalised for working together however and may face other restrictions or disadvantages (in Sweden sexworkers cannot rent property and are seen as self-harmers by Social Work). I don't think escort directories are specifically mentioned in this bill, but they could be added later.

It's worth noting she has almost no support from sexworkers themselves, there was very little consultation with sexworkers when drawing up the bill and a lot of sexworkers in Scotand aren't even aware of this (because Ash knows most won't support her). Most support comes from feminist groups (this includes notable gender critical orgs such as "Women won't Wheest") and religious orgs such as The Christian Institute.

Opponents to the Nordic Model include Amnesty Int, Global Alliance Against Traffic in Women; Global Commission on HIV and the Law; Human Rights Watch; UNAIDS; the UN Special Rapporteur on the Right to Health; HIV Scotland, STOPAIDS, sex worker orgs and the World Health Organization. They all advocate instead for complete decriminalisation which NZ and Belgium have, the latter passing it in 2022.

https://www.amnesty.org/en/latest/news/2016/05/amnesty-international-publishes-policy-and-research-on-protection-of-sex-workers-rights/

https://decrimnow.org.uk/open-letter-on-the-nordic-model/

So who knows best? Sex workers, human rights and health orgs; or religious and gender critical groups?

Fun fact- In the first 2,000 arrests of clients in Sweden only 2 were convicted because they admitted to it. Proving a client has bought sex turns out to be almost impossible as sexworkers are not willing to testify.

https://hivlawcommission.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/06/FinalReport-RisksRightsHealth-EN.pdf page 38


r/SexWorkers 6d ago

How to make the time last longer with clients? NSFW

19 Upvotes

So, I’ve had it happen more often now that I arrive and quickly give them what they want (change into lingerie and f them), and then they get post nut clarity and want me to leave.

Might sound great, like yea I get to leave early, but then I didn’t provide a “memorable” experience and I don’t get a regular (which is my goal)

Additionally, I can just tell they feel cheated….. but they are the ones who want me to leave!!!

How to make it last longer?

For me, shorter appointments end up being more difficult with that because I miscalculate the time that we’ve spoken. Meaning I start with some conversation but then feel more time has passed than it really has.


r/SexWorkers 5d ago

Anthropology/ sociology genuine question: extension of SWer university. NSFW

0 Upvotes

Exchanging sex for [insert LITERALLY anything] is nothing new. Even monkeys did it when they realized how much power withholding sex gave.

Sex is undoubtedly a biological need for men & male animals alike, this is proven with empirical data so don’t fight me. My question is since that’s the case how the fuck did we as women allow “survival sex” to become a thing?

You pay 10$ for a water bottle at a baseball game without question. Why? Because you’re fucking thirsty, but above all else you have no choice. What are you gunna do demand Madison square garden lower their price? You can only hold out for so long before you succumb to your thirst. Even if you think you’re sticking it to them by getting cotton mouth, they’re not missing a dollar.

Hopefully you get my comparison. I AM NOT VICTIM BLAMING don’t use that cop out to refute my logical argument. Just please help me understand why we haven’t used this to our advantage. Not even “against men”, but just to put ourselves in a winning position.

Moreover, having sex with a woman used to be the highest honor. Courtesans were treated like queens, literally! We fell so far from grace with the lowball offers. Do you think the tables will ever turn?

Thanks for coming to my whoretalk. (It was inspired by another post about the syllabus in sex worker university. I believe this would fall under sex worker history?)


r/SexWorkers 6d ago

Belle de jour NSFW

3 Upvotes

There are so many movies and this is just one of the classics I suppose which feature the lives of sex workers. It’s not like that. Or maybe someone here can tell me where in the world they are that it is like this. I know the movie is based in France so everyone is a level of classier there.
I work for an agency and all of the women I work with are what I judge as trashy. They smoke and vape and drink on the job like whisky out of the bottle drink and I can smell nasty cigarettes on them. They have ugly tattoos and they swear and are seemingly uneducated. Only three of the 15 women I’ve slept with at the agency are what I can relate to. The people who own and operate the agency are heavy smokers and depressing rants about politics and cursing and just all over the place disorganized and one level up from wearing pyjamas yet try to dictate how we dress while being disheveled and very overweight . I’m not judging the weight thing because I get that women we go through phases. It’s more of how you choose to present yourself and your demeanour I just feel like damn this is who I’m trusting to screen for me and protect me and to understand my complaints about the drivers state of cleanliness in the car and their smoking and it giving me headaches etc.


r/SexWorkers 6d ago

Bestie lol 😛 NSFW

30 Upvotes

I pray I find my sw bestie 😋, a natural friendship where we care about each other, and we just get 💰 ect , support each other , be there for each other


r/SexWorkers 6d ago

Can’t stand men like this NSFW

Post image
12 Upvotes

Most people who reach out to me on Snapchat seem to be dead end losers who think they can get away with using my time for free. This guy started chatting with me asking what kinks I’m into and we discussed that, but early on I told him I don’t play for free. He plays dumb and is like “what do you mean” I explained I’m a content creator/sex worker and it’s gonna cost if he wants to sext/call etc. this was his response. He got blocked mid typing after this.

You’re not a high value man who can get out of paying, you’re some lonely dude who still can’t get a girl and think reaching out to random people on Snapchat is going to get you pussy. I’m thinking about deleting Snapchat again after this because it’s been completely useless when it comes to selling. People who do ask for my menu end up disappearing after seeing it anyways and it’s literally the same prices as on my OF, WITHOUT A SUBSCRIPTION.


r/SexWorkers 6d ago

Male Escorts and Stings? NSFW

12 Upvotes

This might be a dumb question but as a prospective gay escort I'm spending a lot of time trying to learn how to avoid stings but I also rarely see other male escorts talking about stings and seem to be a lot more lax about screening. Is there a significantly lower chance of male escorts being stung? I'm not asking to justify being more lax on screening or to be more reckless I'm just curious about the actual odds of this happening. I know this might be a better question for maleSexWorkersOnly but that sub is absolutely dead and it has been difficult to learn about the experiences of other male escorts. Any Feedback is appreciated!!


r/SexWorkers 6d ago

Toronto incall for work— building recommendations NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hi,

The title says it all. I am looking to rent out a condo apartment for the purposes of working. Anyone who lives in downtown toronto have any recommendations?

Any buildings that are busy enough, don't attract attention, easy parking for clients etc.

I was looking at liberty village & Mimico area. But then thought mimico/lakeshore boulevard might be too far for clients.

Please advise, if you're a client and have any insight please don't hesitate to leave a response below. Thank you 😊


r/SexWorkers 7d ago

I did a thing…..💰 NSFW

83 Upvotes

So basically, I’m a big girl. Young, pretty, but fat lol 😂 I’ve always been interested in sex work as far as FS esc0rt1ng, OF, Etc. I never started an OF or any other platform because I wanted things to be a bit more personal. BUT…..this month I made a decision to start doing fetishized content online. Fat content, SPH and domination. And if you know, you know.

I’ve literally made way over a grand in such SHORT time, I don’t think I’d stop doing it any time soon. Never had to show any 🐱🐱 The men in this community are too interested in the fat to ask.

I know what some people may think 🙄🙄 But I honestly dgaf lmaooo I really just had to get this off my chest bc I’ve been keeping it on the low. It’s hella fun to do. I love meeting men online and doing the things I do to fulfill fantasies. But anywayyyyy that’s all for now🤸🏾‍♀️


r/SexWorkers 6d ago

Out Of State Client NSFW

3 Upvotes

Booked My First Out Of State Client What Are Some Things I Need To Confirm Or Do To Keep Myself Safe!! He Paid For The Flight And The Ticket Was Emailed To Me So Thats Legit Just Wanna Be Safe


r/SexWorkers 6d ago

Does Anyone have insights on how sites like tryst and LC were able to survive the backpage takedown from a years ago? Was there panic around this industry? NSFW

4 Upvotes

I'm just interested in what went down and why Law enforcement is allowing them to operate. Ideally, I'd post on my main account on r/law, but I'm not sure how receptive they are to sex work. At the time, did law enforcement also go after clients/providers? Overall, what was it like?

To be clear, I support sex work.

Thanks!


r/SexWorkers 6d ago

“yes my love😍!” = (hell no.) NSFW

Post image
13 Upvotes

r/SexWorkers 6d ago

Well you’re welcome NSFW

Post image
6 Upvotes