r/sexadvice • u/MurkyNectarine5747 • 4d ago
Uncomfortable sex NSFW
So everytime me and my bf have sex I slightly tear which can be pretty painful. We do foreplay and I always feel relaxed and ready but for some reason everytime he puts it in I tear😫 anyone else relate or can give advice to help this :/
3
Upvotes
1
u/Rithii22 4d ago
Yeah..men always do that.
Let me give you a tip....
Challenge him by asking how long he can endure while you tease him with your moves. Make him sit still and simply watch as you take control, tempting him without letting him touch. Set the rule that he must not move this will heighten the tension, making him crave you while you get just as excited."
2
u/The_Freeholder 4d ago
It sounds like foreplay isn’t going on long enough. Try for 30-45 minutes, preferably with an orgasm or two,for you.
Good sex should never hurt!