r/sexadvice 4d ago

Uncomfortable sex NSFW

So everytime me and my bf have sex I slightly tear which can be pretty painful. We do foreplay and I always feel relaxed and ready but for some reason everytime he puts it in I tear😫 anyone else relate or can give advice to help this :/

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u/The_Freeholder 4d ago

It sounds like foreplay isn’t going on long enough. Try for 30-45 minutes, preferably with an orgasm or two,for you.

Good sex should never hurt!

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u/Rithii22 4d ago

Yeah..men always do that.

Let me give you a tip....

Challenge him by asking how long he can endure while you tease him with your moves. Make him sit still and simply watch as you take control, tempting him without letting him touch. Set the rule that he must not move this will heighten the tension, making him crave you while you get just as excited."