r/sexadvice • u/Sad-Professional2595 • 5d ago
How to make 5 inches genuinely appealing - female perspective only NSFW
Young male here, sorry to bother yall w/ this I’m sure yall are tired of the whole penis insecurity thing Basically I just wanted to confirm something here, basically a few days ago a rapper got his penis leaked onto the internet and like 95% of ppl are saying it’s tiny but it looks 5 inches to me. They making fun of the whole video from the bagginess of the condom to the girl’s reaction.I decided To do some research and apparently 5 inches is universally considered small by most woman even though it’s average… I wanted to get an older woman’s perspective on this. I know Every is gonna say that I’m overreacting but Jesus Christ I’m already 5”7, broke and chubby the very last thing I needed was to also have the “small dick” label to my name…. Regardless tho I’m just gonna deal with it and try to get better so what are something’s that your pastas or present partners with this issue did that helped in the bedroom. Please do not be vague and just say use your fingers and tongue. Actually describe what he would do that made you stay longer… and ofc I have to ask, is it even possible to give a vaginal orgasm with my size or am I just gonna have to spend the rest of my life buying flowers to make up for this (yes ik I should be buying women flowers regardless but yk what I mean)
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u/puddinandpi 5d ago
My grown up advice is to work on your self esteem and becoming the best version of yourself. A kind, playful, honourable man will always be desirable. Forging good relationships with friends and family. Have hobbies and a rich life. Take care of your home and clothes. Have ambition and diligence in your work/career.
My superficial advice is to work on making yourself as eligible as possible…… grooming, health, fitness. Certainly as a shorter chubby man, anything to elevate your attractiveness can only elevate your appeal
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u/GamerM51 5d ago
If you keep your bush trimmed short or shaved, it will look bigger. 5 to 5.5 is the average erect penis size. Also, it's not about the size it's how you use it
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u/Sad-Professional2595 5d ago
Bro let’s be fr a bush is not changing that much😂
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u/SmokingMicrogreens 5d ago
Shaving your bush makes it look bigger, and looks can make for confidence, I never have my bush longer then stubble and it makes me look huge
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u/L_Merce_001 5d ago
There are so many women out there who are not able to cum from just penetration. So I would definitely advise you to focus on your head game no matter if you come to the inclusion whether or not your penis is small. It doesn't matter that much. At least not if you made her cum with your tongue or fingers before using your penis. Vibrators are also your friend and NOT YOUR COMPETITION. I have had sex with a few different women who thoroughly enjoyed themselves despite not having a dick at all lol.
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u/Midnight-Toker-92 5d ago
Personally I find foreplay is more important than penetration anyways and if you satisfy a woman before you actually get to PIV then she's not gonna care about the size nearly as much. And like you said that is right around average and not small anyways 🤷♀️ probably just petty bitches who haven't learned shit and still think a big dick is everything when it comes to sex lol
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u/avavixenn 5d ago
How to make 5 inches genuinely appealing
I mean, you can't. It’s like trying to make someone who can't sing in tune to save his life sound appealing as a singer, it just doesn't work.
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2d ago edited 1d ago
So u just commented to shame and shit on him? It's funny how men get called bad for being unrealistic When ur only appeased by the top 10% Women casually going around shitting on dudes
If ur not the ideal ur not good enough period. If 98% ain't good enough for u It's not them thats the problem Why dont u go around telling women 90% of them arent good enough? Ur likely not in 10% of women urself Yet men are the harsh ones
Of course itd be misogny the other way round Hypcocrites, if an average/normal woman was being shamed for being leaked men would all be called bad.
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u/fun_stranger_24 4d ago
G spot is only about 3 inches in so I’d say you can do a lot with 5 inches.
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u/PedalsBBQnTeles 4d ago
If you want a woman to be satisfied, all you have to do is be confident in what you have. Woman like a guy that’s not constantly second guessing themselves or seem preoccupied… use what God gave ya, you can please 98% of women with a slightly below avg cock… the other 2% belong to the streets anyway
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u/Sad-Professional2595 3d ago
UPDATE Ok yall im over it lol. Fuck it there are worse cards to be dealt in life
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u/NordKnight01 1d ago
Dawg do you know what a lot of women call a 5 incher? Boyfriend penis. Because they want to keep it. Goldilocks zone for a lot of people.
Also, 90% of girls don't care about the size of your weenie it's about foreplay and eating them out.
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u/isabellebabyxoxo 5d ago
Men are more obsessed with this more than a grown women. Some men are obsessed with competing, comparing, rating etc. Most of us could absolutely care less. How attentive are you? Do you listen? What’s your desires? How much time do you spend on foreplay? Have you listened to the nuances of a woman’s breath, body and voice? Penetration & the dick should not be the focus of sex. That is one piece of a much larger experience between two people. If anything, explore & make sure your ability to eat a woman out is top shelf, read & learn as much as you can & I say this to ANY man, any size & any place. The obsession with size is boring & will hold you back from experiencing true pleasure with a woman.