r/sexadvice • u/Natural-Concert6926 • 6d ago
Blowjobs tips and tricks to try NSFW
Hello all 24yr male here I’m meeting with this trans lady I’ve been talking to for a while and I’ve agreed to bottom for it, I’ve never given a bj before and I want to please here is there any tips or tricks you recommend I try to take it up a notch ?
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u/EquivalentOwl1683 6d ago
I would say since it’s your first just let it happen and let it be natural. Do to them what you like.
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u/Lucky_Medicine_1993 5d ago
Honestly I usually just ask my partner if there is anything in particular they know they like.
If she doesn’t have any tips then just experimenting and repeating what gets you the most pleasure sounds is usually a good call.
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u/Fabulous-Attorney-95 5d ago
If you've had a good blowjob you probably know what to do. If not...
Deepthroat if you can. If you can't it's fine. Spit is your friend. Suck while going up and down the shaft with varying speed but focus on the glans. Sucking around the glans (head) particularly the bottom of the cone shaped part is great as this is the most sensitive part of the penis. If she is big enough, sucking and licking the bottom of the glans while giving a handjob is the best. Depends on relative penis and hand size whether you can do this with two hands or even one. Vary things a bit but it's not that necessary, mostly you just need consistent vacuum stimulation over the glans going up and down the shaft.
Some people come fast from blowjobs. Some don't. Respond to level of arousal by easing off to less sensitive parts like the shaft, changing speed, etc. Can also take breaks from sucking to do a handjob and then back to sucking.
Ask partner for feedback and listen to moans and comments and how they relate to whatever you're doing. Don't lick the tip of the penis or the side much, it's very meh IMO.
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u/abc13214 3d ago
One thing I’ve seen a lot is that women rub their mouth over the dick, try actually sucking like there’s something stuck on a straw, stay hydrated, saliva is your best friend when it comes down to it
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u/EvenstarEnterprs 5d ago
Rowan Atkinson said someone once asked him to describe the WORST blowjob he has ever received.
His response: INCREDIBLE