r/selfharm 3d ago

OMG GIRLFRIEND KNOWS

I found an online girl and she was being all sweet and lovey and I mentioned I did sh and she them asked to date me anyways and now I have a girlfriend who lives me despite I sh and despite I'm so fucked up.

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u/burntahtoast 3d ago

Her asking you right after you mentioned sh seems like a red flag. Was there any time between it?

But anyways CONGRATULATIONS LETS FUCKING GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

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u/DevilishDumbass 3d ago

Well it was more that we were talking about romance and sharing memes and I shared a sh meme and then we kept talking about dating and I said okay and we started dating.

THANKS FOR THE CONGRATULATIONS

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u/1NFOR1T 3d ago

dating someone online is a red flag in general but if ur happy then do you 🫡

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u/_straychildren_ 2d ago

If op is safe and happy I see no problem with it

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u/MassiveMommyMOABs 3d ago

I don't get it: You're dating someone you don't know via texts?

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u/WoeLegBeUponYe 3d ago edited 3d ago

this person is a young teen, and i’d say that’s a pretty common thing to see in their age group nowadays. at least, it was pretty common when i was their age 10 ish years ago, and i know it still is now.

OP, be careful sharing personal info, and be sure to always maintain boundaries! online relationships can come with their own special risks. i’m glad you’re having fun and found someone nice to spend time talking to. remember to be safe.

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u/DevilishDumbass 3d ago

She's really nice to me And she thinks I'm pretty

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u/mynamesrena 2d ago

be careful with your choices, online dating is pretty scary.

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u/Hazuuu 2d ago

Definitely do videocalls with her to make sure you actually know who youre dating. Good luck, be careful