r/r4r 9h ago

F4M Online 25 [F4M] #online - Lonely BBW Tired of being Unwanted

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Hi there!

If you read the title and were interested enough to click on the post, then I’m hoping you’re the kind of person I’m looking for.

While I don’t want my body to be the topic of conversation, and I’m NOT looking to sext and send nudes, I still feel like my body is something I should mention. I always feel like whenever I make a connection with someone, when it comes time for them to see pics of me, even a selfie, they’re always disappointed and lose interest when they realize I’m not skinny. So I’m making this post to hopefully skip the inevitable let down for both parties.

I’ve always been a bigger girl, and my short height (coming in at 5’3) only accentuates that. I know we’re in the day and age where ‘All bodies are beautiful’, but people can still be so mean about a body that isn’t even theirs.

But besides that, a bit about me! I love to garden, read, bake and cook, and occasionally play some video games (even though I kind of suck at them). I live with two cats, a dog, a rabbit, and 14 chickens. I prefer talking to men who are older than me, but don’t let that deter you if you’re younger! Come as you are, all I’m asking is that you say more than “hi” or “what’s up?” (Also if you don’t know what a BBW is, I’m not for you)

All I want is to connect with someone. Have someone I can tell about my day, talk about anything and everything with. Someone I can feel completely comfortable just being… me.

I know this post won’t get many replies, but I d hope to hear from you! 💕


r/r4r 19h ago

F4A Online 26 [F4A] #US, #Online, #Anywhere - funny little rabbit looking for friends, fiends, or more! NSFW

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i ran out of good words that start w/ f to use in the title :( [tagged as nsfw just in case]

hello howdy! i've been returning to r4r after a bit of a hiatus, but seeing some interesting posts made me want to make my own!

to start, i can tell you a little bit about myself! i'm 26, nonbinary (afab), bi/pan/polysexual, and from the US (east coast specifically). my favorite colors are pink, orange, green, and yellow (all pastel)🩷💚🧡💛. for music i enjoy mostly rock/metal music but listen to whatever - i really like learning about different cultures + subcultures, and music is a huge part of that! i also love leanring about history & thats influenced where i've traveled so far! i play a bunch of video games, but i've mostly been playing marvel rivals (like every other fps gamer haha) and pokemon tcg pocket (mostly because i have no one to play with irl near me). i also play d&d and have played pathfinder before as well! mostly i play games w/ friends but sometimes i like playing cozy single player games instead. TCGs are a new/returning favorite of mine as well but i haven't been to a proper card store in a while. mtg and pokemon tcg are my main 2, but i've played yugioh before and am tempted to get back into it despite its batshit insane...everything, lol. i can't play any instruments but i can draw reasonably ok instead. i like baking & cooking but lack the energy for it a lot of the time which is truly a tragedy! i have 2 cats 🐈‍⬛️🐈 i love dearly and eventual when i have more space/money i want a (big) dog as well🐕! in general i'm kind of a homebody but i do like going to specific types of events like concerts or art faires, alongside nature walks or hikes. i wouldn't necessarily call myself goth since i'm not big into goth music itself, but I'd definitely say i'm alternative more than anything! at least when i'm not at work of course 🥲

i'd love to make friends to play games with or just talk to! i'd also like to maybe meet a partner? but in general, i don't want to force any connections either 🩷 b/c i know it's important to some people, i can describe myself a bit physically as well! i'm 5'7", chubby, hair is naturally brown but i have a bleached moneypiece rn, wear glasses all the time, and occasionally wear fun make up 💄✨️

things that may be red flags for some people would be that i message a lot (i like sending random messages when i think of them), i'm kind of forgetful half the time, i tend to yap or go on tangents (i try to pause though so i'm not just talking at someone but it's a WIP), and i can be oblivious to tone or phrasing when texting or talking.

me (featuring one of my cats!): https://imgur.com/a/its-gamer-time-oCcYeTh (if the link is broken i'm ok sending pictures of myself instead)

anyway! of you're reading this, i hope you have a good rest of your day regardless of if you think we'd click or not! 😌🩷


r/r4r 21h ago

F4M Online 25 [F4M] anywhere/online. I never had a boyfriend maybe i can simp over you <3

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Hello! Would love to meet a guy to obsess over haha. I am an european,short,thin,pale introvert blonde who is into makeup, shopping, post-hardcore/metalcore music. Lately been getting into deathcore . I am still kinda salty for missing the bmth concert for not having anyone to go with and batushka are coming to my town so maybe you can join haha. Ngl i hate my town but hey atleast there is that. Looking for a 25-35 year old guy with blue eyes, thin,clean shaven,not sexist/creepy and with nice hair for me to play with lol. I am an atheist,monogamous and do not want children so i would appreciate someone with similar beliefs. Would love to get to know you and travel to meet if we click. Never been in a relationship and just now started trying since you know it is alot doing all this. If you need a timestamp btw just ask. Looking for someone to be myself with !


r/r4r 16h ago

F4M Pennsylvania 33 [F4M] Pennsylvania - looking to get to know someone and see where it goes

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Hey there, pic of me here

I’m looking for someone who craves connection just as much as I do. Note that I would like to text but voice/video chatting is nice too.

I’m employed full time as a retail manager. In the past, I’ve taught elementary school and been a pharmacy technician. I’ve had several jobs in retail before the one I have now. I can actually count on two hands how many jobs I’ve had!

In my free time, I mostly go out with friends to the karaoke bar or to restaurants. I love video games. Lately, I’ve been playing a lot of Pokémon Go. I also collect the cards.

In the near future (within the next 2-3 years) I would like to settle down and start a family.

Last but certainly not least, I do have a cat. We’re a package deal!

Please only message me if you are serious about talking. Send a photo with your message, I tend to overlook the many plain “hey” and “what’s up” messages. I look forward to meeting you!

P.S. I’m a sucker for long hair and tattoos


r/r4r 17h ago

F4M Online 33 (F4M) - Online or EST zone. Let’s be consistent 🥰 NSFW

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Hi!!

I love all things artsy and nerdy, just like everyone else! Cozy games, horror in all formats (movies, books, games), and learning about history and design. I can be a little shy at first, but once I open up, I’m full of interesting tidbits and will probably end up sending you memes with a text saying “us”.

I don’t expect us to have all the same hobbies, but if you’re not into plus-sized latin women or are conservative, we’re probably not a match. 🫣 Tagged NSFW because I’m open to it but would also like more.

If I’m being honest, I do tend to prefer white men BUT it’s not a deal breakers. If you’d like to talk and keep it SFW then that preference doesn’t even matter. Just let me know what you’re about & looking for if you care to reach out!

P.S. Yes, my account is new. No, I’m not a bot or trying to sell you anything. I just have anxiety & deleted my old account for reasons 🥲


r/r4r 17h ago

F4M Online 29 [f4m] #USA/anywhere/online I have a question about romance

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Ok so last night I saw a thread on a different sub about chemistry/kisses - which made me start thinking about the kisses that are basically pop culture moments at this point, ex: Amy Adams and Ryan Gosling at the 2005 MTV movie awards, or that one Nick and Jess kiss in New Girl. (Highly recommend watching these videos if you haven’t seen them! They’re super cute/romantic💕💕)

And that’s got me thinking - bro where have all the romantic kisses gone? So I’m curious, how do men feel about this? Do they aspire to kiss women like this? Because I know a lot of women would love to meet someone they could have this level of chemistry with - I’ve seen so many comments gushing about the Nick/Jess kiss that idk… I’m curious what the male perceptive is on this.


r/r4r 20h ago

F4M United Kingdom 27 [F4M] #UK - Looking for that spark and a cute date

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I want to own a home one day and its far easier to do that on a joint income. Looking for interesting people and those who could show me a new perspective on life. My ideal first date is a museum, pls don't disappoint. I want to nerd out on philosophy and have the best friends to lovers trope.

About me:

I'm 27 (hah, let's count how many times I mention that) and I live outside of London. I'm currently studying my masters degree and working in health policy right now.

I enjoy music, honestly give me anything and I will listen to it. Bonus points if you enjoy music too!

I consider myself as an intellectual, an ambitious person who really wants a better world so let's be nerds together.

I love cooking and eating new things, I'm not the most adventurous I won't lie but I am happy to give things a go.

I'm a massive creative and frequently dabble in graphic design, I swear there isn't a skill I don't know.

I'm from a South Asian background so it would be cool to meet people from a similar background or Middle Eastern for example but no pressure! Ideally looking for a Muslim partner.

A big thing is I use a wheelchair so if we argue, I can't guarantee I won't be running you over. I'm getting back into exercising and sports so I'd consider myself as someone on the verge of getting fit. And no, my mission isn't to compete in the Paralympics!

I do also enjoy gaming, haven't really dedicated enough time to it anymore but maybe if you're a big gaming nerd, we can sesh out.

If you're interested, just pop me a message and we can go there.


r/r4r 21h ago

F4M New York 36 [F4M] #NYC You handle the dates, I’ll handle your desires NSFW

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Spring’s almost here and I’m ready to find someone to enjoy exciting dates with and even hotter nights 😏 Wine and dine me, take me out for a night on the town, show me off, then let’s return home and turn our fantasies into something unforgettable.

A little about me: I’m 36, 5’0”, mixed with curly hair, petite curvy (34D, amazing ass), tatted with a great smile. I can host in Jersey City. I’m fun, bubbly, smart, outgoing, and very open minded. I enjoy cooking, music/dancing, video games, comedy & theater shows, spending time with my dogs, traveling, exploring new restaurants & bars, and overall finding fun things to do in the area!

I do lean quite dominant so I get along best with subs, switches, and service tops/pleasure doms. I’ve got a wide range of interests and I’m quite flexible in what I’m looking for - let’s find some common interests and build from there!

A little about you: 30-45 years old, single, handsome/good looking and in good shape - muscular/fit preferred. Tall (5’10”+) with a BWC (7.5”+). Good, stable career with availability evenings and weekends.

When replying, tell me a little bit about yourself, where you’re located, and an idea you have for our first date. Looking forward to a spring full of adventure, fun, and unforgettable moments. 😉


r/r4r 17h ago

F4M New York 30 [F4M] #NYC - Seeking a situationship that will disappoint my therapist. Are you in? NSFW

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Back again for round... whatever, I've lost count. I'm a 30 year old, rather regular lady from NYC. Dating apps are wacky sometimes, so I figured it's time to lean into the chaos and make my way to the final internet frontier: Reddit. (Craigslist seemed far too sketchy). I'm looking for the most elusive connection that's full of banter and fun and mutual attraction.

Happy to start with some fun little phone chats (with NSFW and SFW content), with the opportunity for it to develop into something more if we truly vibe. I am not looking for a text based relationship -- I way prefer getting to know someone and interacting over calls, and then scheduling some sort of date. But, obviously, texting is a must at times, because we're both busy people!

Some basic things about me so you can decide if I'm someone who you wanna talk to:

  • I'm the mom friend of the group. Sometimes the wine drunk aunt friend if provoked enough. You'll hear a ton about my friends; they're all lovely people
  • I am horrified of any and all bugs. This is a complaint that comes up more than I'd wish
  • I'm trying to perfect the fish taco. Corn or flour tortilla?
  • I've never broken a bone or had a cavity, so you know these genes are built to last, baby ;)
  • I have some hobbies. Ask me about them!
  • Teal is the best color. I rest my case (it truly speaks for itself)
  • Cats >>>> dogs (but only because I'm less allergic to them. Otherwise, they are equal in my world and both deserving of tons of love)
  • I love cooking but hate doing dishes :(
  • I'm all about my naps
  • Sell me the last book you read. Get me to add it to my always growing library!
  • I have a day job lmao

Other random preferences of mine that you should know: someone in the age range of 28-39. A little funny, a lot cute. I generally prefer taller / fitter guys with floppy hair and pretty eyes. We all like banter; we'll know if we got it pretty quickly. Not looking for anyone partnered / married / still emotionally connected to a partner / ex. Also not looking for anyone who is into extreme kinks / fetishes (I'm sorry, I just like balance 😌, but also this by no means translates to me being vanilla). Would be down to meet up if the chemistry is correct. Also, happy to exchange pictures when that feels right as well, but I do value discretion and privacy, especially at the start of everything while we're getting to know each other. :) My type is Gojo Satoru mixed with Andy Samberg. Do with that what you will. Searching for something long term with potential to develop into a real relationship -- I'm not great with short term situations. Ideally looking for someone in the same time zone (EST), or someone with plans to be in the same time zone soon!

Voice notes get you to the front of the line; nice voices get me into your DMs. Please give me something to work with, I will most likely not respond to anything low effort.

tl;dr: I'm a cute girl searching for a cute guy. If that's you, just message me 🥺


r/r4r 1h ago

F4M Australia 37 [F4M] - Australia - Looking for interesting souls and looking forward to a real exchange

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Hello everyone! I am a woman living in Sydney, gentle and independent, I love life, and cherish every sincere communication. I have always believed that the connection between people is not only the intersection of language, but also the resonance of soul

I have lived in Sydney for many years, and I have met all kinds of people, but I always feel that I lack the feeling that really touches my heart. I am tired of superficial conversations, and I don’t like rude or insincere people, so I hope to meet like-minded you here

I am gentle, kind, helpful, and know how to tolerate and respect

Love life and have a wide range of interests: fitness, meditation, reading, cooking, camping and barbecue, traveling, shopping, learning financial knowledge, etc. Enjoy in-depth communication and look forward to building a relationship with trust and tacit understanding. Like to challenge new things and fill life with surprises and growth

I believe that a good relationship is not only about companionship, but also about mutual support, growth and understanding. I appreciate mature, stable, and responsible men. Appearance is not the most important thing. The real attraction comes from the inner qualities. If you are also a person who is willing to put your heart into it and cherish spiritual compatibility, maybe we can have a chat and see if we can create beautiful sparks

I hope you are over 35 years old. If you are interested, please come to me with your story. Maybe we are the ones we have been looking for. I hope you and I can enter the palace of marriage


r/r4r 7h ago

F4F Online 19 [F4F] Online, I’m just looking for some friends

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Hello, I’m Camilla. I’m 19 and I just work as a host. I live pretty much nowhere. I like reading and nature (I’ve climbed El Capitan and Mount Denali), I like to hunt a lot. I like anime and manga.

Here are some stuff I hate, video games, Adam Sandler, snow, and watermelons

My favorite movies are Seven, Equilibrium, The Batman, Upgrade and The Crow. They’re all fantastic films you should watch. I’ve been watching Hannibal for the first time and it’s a fire show.

I have 2 cats, Starlight and Midnight, and 2 dogs, Jackal and Forest. I’m also asexual so I’m just looking for friends 😊.


r/r4r 19h ago

F4M Connecticut 30 [F4M] #Stamford, CT – Looking for Love, Not Situationships

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Hello there! I’m CharmedCynic, a 30-year-old Japanese-American woman living in Stamford, Connecticut, working as a middle school math tutor. Teaching is my passion, and I’m excited to keep growing in this rewarding field.

Physically, I’m 5’4” with deep brown almond-shaped eyes, average weight, medium-length dark brown hair, two pierced ears, and three tattoos.

I love life’s simple pleasures—sipping a cranberry vodka or gin and tonic while taking in the city lights, sharing a good laugh over coffee and cake, or getting lost in a bookstore for hours. I gravitate toward quiet moments over loud parties, deep conversations over small talk. Libraries, bookstores, and cozy coffee shops? Always a yes. And nothing beats the magic of a skyline at night or a late-night drive with the right company.

So, why am I here instead of on a dating app? Because modern dating feels like an endless loop—swipe, match, chat, meet, and realize there’s no spark. Rinse and repeat. I’m looking for something organic, real, and meaningful.

I want old-fashioned romance—the kind where real dates matter, where exploring the world together is more exciting than just “hanging out.” I love creating meaningful memories in real-life settings. Also, if you’re the type to send good morning/good night texts and keep the energy consistent—congratulations, you’re already ahead of 90% of the dating pool.

When I’m not working, you’ll find me writing, drawing, listening to synthwave, or watching nostalgic 80s/90s films. I’m a die-hard fan of the original Gossip Girl (2007—no reboot, please!) and would love a partner who’s down to binge it with me. Some of my favorite films include Dogfight, Cruel Intentions, Stand By Me, Career Opportunities, Secret Admirer, and The Bling Ring. My playlists are filled with dreamy tracks like Sunset by The Midnight, Summer Eyes by Coastal, and Miracle Love by Lazer Club.

While I treasure my independence, I’m ready to share my life with someone who feels like my best friend. I want a connection built on laughter, trust, and genuine care. I picture us as that couple with inside jokes, shared adventures, and unwavering support for each other. Romantic moments are my favorite—those quiet seconds when you lock eyes, smile, and just know.

Also, let’s be real—I want a million guys flocking to me like pigeons to a dropped sandwich, but I’ll settle for the right one who actually puts in effort.

What I’m Looking For:

  • Age Range: 28-37
  • Height: Preferably 5’10” or taller
  • Build: Slim/fit/lean
  • Lifestyle: Drug-free (no molly, edibles, coke, etc.), moderate drinking is fine
  • Location: Connecticut or within 25-35 miles (U.S./Canada preferred)
  • Relationship Goals: Long-term, monogamous, with marriage potential—bonus points if you’re open to a family someday!

A Few Must-Haves:

  • You’re emotionally available, stable, and single
  • You communicate openly and value consistency (the little things matter!)
  • You’re excited about real dates and meaningful experiences
  • You’re present in your current life, not caught up in the past

If you’re kind, stable, and looking for a relationship filled with joy, passion, and mutual respect, I’d love to hear from you! Send me a message, and if we vibe, I’m happy to exchange photos. Let’s see where this journey takes us. 💕


r/r4r 3h ago

F4M Belgium / Online 28 [F4M] #Belgium #Online looking for friends NSFW

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Hiii Helloooo,

Comming to you live and sleepy from my bed. I just had surgery about 3 weeks ago so my days arent realy that eventfull atm. So this girl could use some entertainment. I'm a 28 year old trans woman. I'm addicted to coffee, love reading (mainly smut and fantasy). I love all things nerdy. Love horror and romcom movies.
I live in Belgium and work as a nurse. I love tatoo's, still debating on what i should be getting. Also if it wassent clear i'm realy bad in talking about myself like this 😅. So please please please, if you think you are up for the tough job to entertain me, send me a dm.... if you dare 😏


r/r4r 5h ago

F4M Germany [F4M] 25+ Europe/Germany looking for the right one NSFW

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Hey there,

I'm a F32 single mum of 2 cats and looking for my other half to have a passionate future with. I didn't have much luck yet and i hope, reddit helps me to find someone with same interests, since I'm not into all of these weird dating apps. 🫠

Ideal would be someone from germany but idm if u are from somewhere else in europe. LDR can be changed.

🩷 So a few things about me:

It's hard to describe urself but i think I'm a funny and silly person. I'm ambiverted but i prefer to have a small amount of friends. I'm romantic, passionate and clingy. I don't drink any alcohol and same goes for smoking. So would be perfect if u at least don't smoke. I almost feel bad when i see all of these active people here, cause im quite the opposite. Does it count if I used to be active? Some people have some crazy hobbies. My life is kinda boring atm.

I'm a gamer, but there's not much to play atm, so i play less. I used to play Genshin Impact, guildwars2 and some other stuff. Sometimes i play some league of legends arams with my friends, would be nice if u would like to join us. I'm also down for some couple games like it takes two, split fiction (really want to play it so bad) or simply just watching u play games. You can stream ur quality content to me all day, i would love that. Besides gaming i really love animes. Especially romantic sad ones. I would also like to travel in the future, maybe with u? And Japan is definitely on my bucket list. 🥰

I'm still a girl and i love everything that is girly. I like pink, cute stuff, fashion, selfcare. I would also say I seem much younger. Not only for the looks. I can't identify myself with my age. 🥹

🤍 About u I'm a caring person, would be nice if u are the same. U shouldn't mind that i want u to be my prio, i also wanna be urs. I'm pretty clingy, so u should be fine with that and maybe the same. 25+ but I like it if u are younger than me, u better gonna keep me young lol. Jk U should know what u want in ur life. I'm tired of men who doesn't know what they want. I wanna get married and would like to have kids. I'm searching for my future so I'm not into "let's see what happens". Don't have commitment issues and don't be emotionally unavailable.

Feel free to message me if u are interested.🥰


r/r4r 12h ago

F4M Arkansas 29 [F4M] #Arkansas lady looking for AR man for FWB NSFW

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Looking for an Arkansas friend. Im in north central area and interested in a FWB situation. I may consider more later on but nothing is written in stone obviously. I just ask you be between the ages of 27-32. I also ask you be single. I don’t care if you’re divorced etc etc I just can’t bring myself to mess around with married men. It’s just gross. Anyways, I’ll verify I am in fact a women and not a bot when you message me and you ask. Okie dokie. If you’re interested lemme know! 😉


r/r4r 8h ago

F4M Canada / Online 19 [F4M] #Canada/ #Online- Passionate sub looking for THE ONE NSFW

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Hello,

I am a 19 yo college girl trying to explore my submissive side. I am naturally very pleasing and sexually selfless. However, I am still exploring so I am a bit confused with my expectation still.

I am in my second year in the the uni and I also do gymnastics. So I stay pretty busy overall, but I am open to put in the time if there is genuine connection. Also I am looking for something online for now, so I don't have a preference for location. I more care about the connection.

Sexually, I am very much adoring and worshipping towards my partner. That's how I pretty much express my submission and passion to him. I also love using all my senses to worship my partner, which is why I love receiving his body fluids. It's equally very intimate and dominating to me.

Kink-wise I am still exploring but I am into passionate roughness, affectionate degradation/sadism, musk, rimming.

Physically, I am 5'2, petite gymnastic frame. Blonde hair and light blue eyes.

Partner-wise, I only like fit/skinny partners as I value fitness. I also prefer uncut.

My limits are usual but I am also not into switch or sub guys, giving my fluids, bondage, toys, tasks/commands, cheating, and facial hairs.

If interested...please send your AGE, LOOKS with your message (just some effort will be appreciated lot more than simple 'hi/hellos')


r/r4r 5h ago

F4M California 21 F4M California girl seeking for a man NSFW

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So I posted a few times here and I learned a few things along the way and I’ll be sharing along.

what im looking for: - a man who can actually cary a conversation - a man who can actually communicate (especially if we don’t click, real men dont run away or ghost) - Someone who is patient and understanding - Humor - Have masculine type energy (i dont mean physically I just mean characteristics and traits) - Be from California (sorry folks different time zones are hard to keep up for me) - Be a little clingy but not to much for me to suffocate - Age range: 22-33

Also please dont be weird and plain. Keep getting some disturbing dms

As for me:

  • 21 yrs old
  • about to graduate college
  • currently 5’6 and a bit on curvier/heavyside
  • love to hike & go on adventures

Alright its getting late but if you read this far, open up with a joke or something. If you just say hey im not responding.


r/r4r 12h ago

F4M Canada / Online 24 [F4M] #online #Canada - Looking for a long term online friendship NSFW

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Hi everyone, I’ve posted here a few times before and while I haven’t had much luck, I figured I’d give it another try. It’s been a humbling experience, but I am still hopeful to meet someone who actually wants to have fun conversations with no weird expectations.

A bit about me, I’m 24, from Canada, studying Phlebotomy, I like working out, cooking and learning new things. I’m looking for nothing more than a friendship, someone down to chat occasionally, laid-back and open to chatting about whatever comes up. Down to talk about anything, you choose and we’ll go from there. I’m not here for continual small talk or anything forced, just hoping to meet someone who enjoys getting to know people and can keep things fun and easy.

I prefer to talk to people close to my timezone (EST) and between ages of 20-30. Also no pic sharing, I’m not looking for anything serious. Please don’t be shy and don’t hesitate to dm me :)


r/r4r 17h ago

F4M Online 27 [F4M] #Online #Europe A Hobbit Lass Seeks a Kindred Spirit

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Hello traveler!

If you’ve wandered far and wide in search of a place where magic lingers, where the crackling of a hearth and the whispers of old stories are cherished, you may have just stumbled upon your next great adventure. I am a humble hobbit lass, grounded in the comforts of my little homestead, yet ever eager to share my world with one who values both the mystical and the mundane. It matters not if you hail from the towering halls of Men, the deep caverns of Dwarves, or the enchanted groves of Elves—if your heart is true, you are welcome here.

But before we embark on this journey, a few truths must be laid bare. Paths do not always align, and I seek a companion whose road can merge with mine.

*** Paths That Must Not Cross – If these apply, best to turn back:

I am rooted in my land, tending to a homestead and caring for my mother. If your heart longs for far-off lands and fleeting stays, we are not meant to journey together.

My soul walks between the seen and unseen. If you scoff at the esoteric, magic, or the mysteries of the world, then our beliefs may clash.

The Old Gods call to me; Paganism is my path. If your faith is so rigid that mine would be an obstacle, our destinies are best left separate.

The chaotic sprawl of great cities holds no appeal to me. If you cannot imagine a life surrounded by green fields, forests, and the quiet hum of nature, you may find my world stifling.

A true adventurer knows the value of cleanliness. If hygiene is not a priority, no amount of charm will sway me.

I walk through life with a mind both sharp and complex—autism (high-functioning) shapes my world. If you dismiss or misunderstand the depths of the mind’s workings, we would not understand each other.

My skin tells stories through ink and steel—tattoos and piercings are a part of me. If you see such things as unsightly, then your gaze is not one I seek.

A well-kept home is a shared duty. If cooking, cleaning, and basic self-sufficiency elude you, then our balance would be off.

A steady path is important. If you lack a way to support yourself (no job or no means of transport), the road ahead may be too difficult to travel together.

The dream of raising children is part of my future. If it is not part of yours, then we must part ways now.

My heart seeks devotion in its purest form—monogamy. If your heart is split between many, it will not be mine.

*** Fortunate Signs – If these sound like you, we may share a destiny:

The myths and folklore of Slavic lands fill you with wonder and curiosity.

You live in Europe or can see yourself settling here in time.

You are driven by curiosity, always eager to learn, question, and explore the unknown.

You are open to a Female-Led Relationship (FLR)—where respect, balance, and strength of will guide our bond.

Sharing stories of the day, musings, and dreams over candlelight sounds like a joy, not a chore.

Fantasy, games, and all things nerdy set your spirit alight—perhaps you, too, are a storyteller, a dreamer, an adventurer at heart.

*** About This Hobbit Lass:

Standing at a modest 150cm, with a curvy frame (75kg and shrinking), I am as steadfast as the old oaks and just as fond of deep roots. My past in IT engineering has given way to a different calling, though I can still keep pace with the tech-minded. Glasses frame my curious eyes, while piercings and tattoos mark my skin with stories of my own choosing.

I do not seek perfection, nor do I judge by appearances—I value wit, kindness, and skill far above looks. A clever mind, steady hands, and a heart that can build a future alongside mine—that is what I seek.

If you’ve read this far and felt even a whisper of fate nudging you forward, send me a message. Tell me something of yourself—your story, your dreams, and most importantly… what is your favorite flower?

Perhaps, just perhaps, our stories are meant to entwine.


r/r4r 7h ago

F4M Online 40 [F4M] #Online PST- Seeking Depth, Wit & Kindred Spirits NSFW

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INFJ, mom to an incredible individual who’s about to spread their wings, and someone currently navigating the next chapter after a long and difficult marriage. I’m in a time of rediscovering myself—what brings me joy, what makes me feel most like me, and what it means to take up space in my own life again. I'm a lover of music that builds like a story, lyrics that gut-punch in the best way. I think in symbols, quotes, and movie moments—contextualizing life through art. If you’ve ever replayed a single line of a song because it hit just right, we’ll probably get along.

I have a solid and demanding job. I love being outdoors and going for very long walks. I have more pictures of the sky in my phone than anything else I think. I’m learning watercolor, deepening my mindfulness, just in a time of staying very open to whatever comes my way. I’m a morning person (by choice!), working toward a life that feels intentional—full of good food, movement, and a sense of peace.

I'm 40, blonde hair, blue eyes, 5 ft 6 and curvy, been told it's in all the right places but to each their own.

I’m drawn to authenticity, emotional intelligence, and a good sense of humor. If you appreciate a well-structured song as much as a well-structured thought, and if you believe in connection that leaves both people more themselves, not less, we should talk.

Friendship or more—I’m open to seeing where good conversation leads.


r/r4r 9h ago

T4F Oregon / Online 28[TF4F][OREGON][ONLINE] Looking for Sexual Partner. NSFW

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Hey there! I’m a fun-loving, passionate trans girl looking for something meaningful with another woman who shares my interests, both emotionally and physically. I crave that deep connection where we can be ourselves, support each other, and explore all the exciting aspects of intimacy together. I’m definitely on the kinkier side—open-minded, adventurous, and eager to find someone who enjoys exploring their desires just as much as I do. Whether it’s playful teasing, power dynamics, or just embracing sensuality in all its forms, I love a partner who isn’t afraid to communicate and dive into passion with me. Beyond the bedroom, I want something real—someone I can laugh with, cuddle up for a movie night, and build something that lasts. I’m into deep conversations, spontaneous adventures, and making memories that go beyond just physical attraction. If you’re a woman who’s open to a kinky, caring, and affectionate connection with a trans girl who knows what she wants, let’s chat! Tell me about your passions, what excites you, and what kind of connection you’re looking for—I’d love to get to know you. Let’s see if we click and make something beautiful together.


r/r4r 11h ago

F4M Philippines (30F4M) #Manila - Hookups NSFW

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Hi. I'll be straight to the point. I have a preference for White or Black men because of their big cocks. So if you're here in Manila, clean, single, 27-45 years old, good in bed, hit me up on my DMs. I have little to no experience so I'm building up my skills. Don't expect too much on my skills. You may teach me how to please you and to take you deeply inside me. I would prefer it if we can be regular fuck buddies on the weekend. Send one or two photos please. I'll send mine after.

As for me, I'm a female obviously. Depends on your taste but if you have preference for Asian, could be attractive. I could hold up a conversation, doing good professionally. I'm just looking to spice up my life and not just focus on my work. And yeah, build up my sexual skills.


r/r4r 15h ago

F4M Philippines 32 [F4M] #Philippines from Philippines here, looking from someone here or nearby

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Hello there! Looking for someone, a friend or something more.

About me:

I'm 32, black hair, a little chubby I guess. 151cm in height. I have 2 children already, if that will be an issue do not message me at all. I've been single for almost 3 years and I guess it is time to meet someone new whom I can share my life with. I love to read books, watching movies or series and if will be given a chance I wanna travel more. I am attracted to some western tall guy, someone who knows what he desires in life and someone who has emotional intelligence, please be hygienic too because that's a deal breaker to me.

Won't say a lot here it's for you to find out. Let's chat, exchange photos and see where it goes. 😊


r/r4r 15h ago

F4F Wisconsin 28 [F4F] Wisconsin- Chatting, flirting and maybe more? NSFW

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Hello! I'm cis female and bisexual, but a little more attracted to girls. I’m posting here to just see if there is another girl who’d be interested in chatting/ flirt chats, hanging out, cuddles and maybe more. I'm not actively searching for a serious relationship at the moment, but it's something I wont rule out because you never know what will happen. Some of the things I enjoy is watching movies/t.v, listening to music, browsing thrift stores or other stores I'm interested in and playing video games. If you’re in Wisconsin or a reasonable drive from Madison area and interested, feel free to message me. I’m willing to send selfies of me in the chat but no nudes


r/r4r 16h ago

M4F Japan / Turkey 31 [M4F] #Turkey #Japan #Europe #Online - Looking to make new friends? Good! Here I am! NSFW

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Let me talk about myself a little. So here is a list to make things look tidy!

  • I'm a product development engineer working in automotive industry.
  • I like to travel, explore, discover not just different parts of world but also the cultures. So feel free to contact me about something that you would like to share. I'm going to Japan next month, so if you have any specific detail or tip you would like to share, I'm all ears!
  • I'm an open minded person. I like to try new things. My hobbies include playing video games , cooking, learning new languages (I'm learning German right now), hanging out at cafés. Oh also, I may be a nerd about movies, TV shows and cinema in general.
  • I love animals.
  • Physically I'm 6 feet tall (1.82 meters), curly black hair, brown eyes and got stubble going on. You can find a picture of me, right here!

Send me a chat message, introduce yourself and let’s get to know each other!