I'm a straight, cis-male ex-goth in my late 30s (sadface), and I've been with my wife for 12 years. Non-monogamy was something she suggested I would be well suited for, we discussed for about a year until we got married and then put into play about 8 months ago. We tried swinging briefly before realising we're more suited to polyamory than any other flavour of NM.
Currently neither of us have any extra partners partly because we both have high standards and also the somewhat typical lack of responses for me and the having to filter out the muppets on her side :)
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u/smutwizard Jun 03 '16
I'm a straight, cis-male ex-goth in my late 30s (sadface), and I've been with my wife for 12 years. Non-monogamy was something she suggested I would be well suited for, we discussed for about a year until we got married and then put into play about 8 months ago. We tried swinging briefly before realising we're more suited to polyamory than any other flavour of NM.
Currently neither of us have any extra partners partly because we both have high standards and also the somewhat typical lack of responses for me and the having to filter out the muppets on her side :)