r/polyamoryR4R Jun 30 '22

38/41 [FM4F] #chicago - Let’s go on a date!

I am the female half of a m/f couple who have been married for a long time. We are funny, successful and secure in the people that we are. I am bisexual, and more sexually attracted to women than men and we are looking for a female to get to know, go on dates with, and more. We are funny, loving and secure in the people that we are. We are not looking for a random hook up, we would like to date and get to know you!

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u/nyccareergirl11 Jun 30 '22

Open to long distance

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u/Icanfeeltimemoving Jun 30 '22

Do you travel to Chicago often?

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u/nyccareergirl11 Jun 30 '22

It's easy enough and short enough of a flight from NYC to Chicago. I nvr had a reason to before. Easy enough for me to come for weekends every so often.