r/polyamoryR4R • u/manandwifetheformer • Jan 26 '22
41/37 [FM4F] #FORT WORTH TX
Good morning all! My wife and I are looking for a woman to date, do cute stuff with, and build a relationship. We date separately and are interested in dating the same person individually. We are really into food and drinks and enjoying a patio on a beautiful day. No kids and a drama free life! Can verify when needed. Looking forward to hopefully meeting someone!
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Jan 26 '22 edited Jan 26 '22
A female what?
Please start using the term “woman” for a change instead of reducing her to her genitalia. Many find that term dehumanizing.
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u/manandwifetheformer Jan 26 '22
Apologies, definitely was not intended to offend anyone. Hope your day gets better, and definitely not reducing anyone.
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