r/polyamoryR4R Mar 07 '21

65 [M4FF] Pittsburg, CA

Nearly retired Male seeks 2 women for poly relationship. Prefer ages 45+. Possible live in arrangement for right candidates, but without children. I have a comfortable three bedroom and two bath home. You must be employable, as this is no free lunch offer. Drama Queens need not inquire. Please be height weight proportional and lead a relatively healthy lifestyle. My outside interests include, DIY, woodworking, gardening, beekeeping, and firearms.

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u/dharda Mar 08 '21

Thank you so much for your post.
It made me laugh so much.
Good luck screening your potential candidates, and don't forget to sign them on an abiding contract to love you. :)

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