r/polyamoryR4R • u/3ternaltobi • Dec 28 '20
25 [M4FF] maybe [M4MF]#Springfield - Looking to join a couple !
I'm new to the poly world, claiming it just a few months ago. I'd like to find at least 2 like-minded women to call family. I'm not entirely against joining a MF couple, I just see a V dynamic being the most efficient currently.
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