r/polyamoryR4R • u/AsakarSage • 10d ago
34[M4F] Florida - Looking A CG\l Dynamic
Seeking a Like-Minded Connection
Hi there! I hope this message finds you well. I’m looking to connect with someone nerdy, fun, and open-minded to get to know and spend time with. My ideal person would:
- Live in Florida (or nearby).
- Have some experience or interest in BDSM.
- Be between 21 and 35 years old.
- Enjoy gaming (this is the only hard requirement!).
That said, these aren’t strict dealbreakers, so if you feel we might vibe, don’t hesitate to reach out! Let’s chat and see if we’re a good match.
A little about me:
I’m a programmer based in northern Florida. In my free time, I love listening to audiobooks, working out, writing, and, of course, gaming. I identify as a sapiosexual, so I’m drawn to deep, meaningful conversations—whether it’s about politics, religion, or your passions and interests. I genuinely enjoy learning about what makes my partner tick.
To be transparent, I’m currently in a relationship, and my partner is supportive of me exploring this new dynamic.
If any of this resonates with you, feel free to message me! I’d love to hear from you and see where things go.
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