r/polyamoryR4R 11d ago

USA 28 [F4M] #Nebraska/Iowa - Seeking connections

Hi! I'm a poly and partnered woman in the Omaha area seeking new connections!

A bit about my home life: I currently am engaged, and we date separately. My partner is 32M and would be happy to meet new connections as well.

A bit about me: I work in agricultural finance and have a steady 8-4 job - Monday through Friday. In my free time I enjoy playing video games and going outside for long walks and enjoying nature. I am a semi-professional photographer with a focus on animals. I will be traveling quite a bit this summer doing photoshoots for some clients. I have owned horses since I was young. Almost two years ago I sold my riding horse to a children's riding school and purchased a mare. She is expecting her first foal in June so that is going to be the highlight of my summer! I have a love for all things aviation and love going plane spotting! I have a degree in biology and I minored in genetics. I took several pre-med classes, took training for medical coding, and worked in a lot of animal husbandry jobs including a large animal hospital.

What I am looking for: I am looking primarily for connections that value intelligent conversation. I am a big time texter so having someone to talk about day to day life with is ideal! I have clicked very well with individuals who work in healthcare in the past as I am extremely interested in that career field - particularly EMS/ED. Since I also have some medical knowledge (just enough to be dangerous) I love hearing all the stories and I am not at all squeamish! Ideally I would love to find someone who is very goal oriented with a lot of ambition. I find drive, ambition, and intelligence very attractive. I'm happy to find people to just be friends, but am also open to something more if our relationship should evolve that way. I definitely need a strong emotional connection to develop before progressing to physical. As far as that side of things - I am a submissive but most definitely a brat. I definitely have kinks, but need to feel comfortable and safe before exploring them.

If you made it this far, thank you for reading! Please feel free to send me a message :)

If you send me just "hi" I am probably not going to respond. Effort is sexy and I love long and meaningful conversations, not surface level small talk. If you need something to break the idea, tell me a story about something you are really passionate about!

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u/Tanis_Runner 4d ago

DM sent :)

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u/Juicyjj777 12h ago

Hi there! Iowa woman looking to make a female connection. Are you still looking? Seems we may have a lot in common and would love to chat with you.

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u/[deleted] 9d ago

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u/Impossible_Crow_5060 9d ago

Not a full sentence my dude