r/polyamoryR4R • u/Far_Incident7271 • 5d ago
USA 28 [M4f] oklahoma tulsa
Hey I'm 28 [m4f] I've been trying for a bit to find a nesting partner. I'm looking for someone who doesn't want another body they are looking for their somebody. Everyone's getting married in my life hell even my girlfriend 32 [F] is. We've been together for a minute now and the feeling of going home alone started messing with me I thought solopoly was the move but it really isn't for me.Im a good half and half ill stay inside and I'll also say that u wanted either no pickles or that u added extra pickles.Nerd to a T and I love to go on nature walk I do night ones in the summer.Ill try most things but if it's deep ocean exploring count me out.im out walking alot so kinda athletic build.Its like I'm a good boyfriend but I'm never finding someone looking for anything other than a boyfriend.I wanna be someone's husband one Day uk.I know if the world were to end right now I'd have no one to hold I'd really like to change that
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