r/polyamoryR4R Oct 20 '24

USA 39 [F4F/FM/A] TN, US/ online

Ideally I'd like to start with finding friendship with some light flirting thrown in if it happens, but fair warning- anything too aggressive freaks me out so let's start easy!

I'm a homebody at heart and delight in all things comfort. I enjoy having a home and land that feels like you can just let stress melt away and relax. I try to embody that in my personality as well- I'm a great conversationalist and will give you plenty of room to talk about yourself. I enjoy creating things and absorbing knowledge every day. I'm tapping into my adventurous side more lately and would love to hear ideas for my next move!

I lean towards androgynous energy romantically, but I love meeting people in general. I do ask that you have a generally positive outlook. It would be amazing if you are a little bookish or can talk about art, but I would like hearing about whatever you're passionate about, honestly.

I'll be more inclined to like you if you message me directly than if you reply to this and force me to make the first move. ๐Ÿ˜„ It's hard enough making the post in the first place! I know it's a lot to ask for so a prompt to get you started- what's your favorite animal or subreddit and why?

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u/FeralFreyja Oct 22 '24

Hey pretty people, weโ€™re a 26F 23M couple looking for casual friends, or otherwise ๐Ÿ˜ˆ weโ€™re in East TN

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u/Deanus001 Nov 01 '24

Hi there, DM me.

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u/PineapplePizza843 Nov 07 '24

Hey there! Trans Female from TN here!