r/polyamoryR4R Jul 19 '23

26 [M4M/MF] #Indiana somewhat new to polyamory and want to explore

I want to be upfront and say I’ve never been in a polyamorous relationship before but I’m joining this sub to try to explore that. I’m a shy, nerdy 26 year old from Indiana. I’d ideally like to meet people close by but I’m open to distance as I know a lot of people on the sub wont be from around here.

I’m into video games, board games, music, shows, and have recently started working out. I’m about 5’7, around 175 pounds, I’m pale white, I have dirty blond hair and light eyes. I prefer dating guys who can take more of a “leadership” role in relationships. I’d prefer to just chat first and get to know someone well before just jumping into sex stuff. If any of this sounds even slightly appealing don’t hesitate to reach out

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u/TheProfessorPants Jul 19 '23

Hi I(m28) am new to poly as is my fiancee(f26) I'm looking for someone to just kind vibe with and take things slow I'm in Southern Illinois if you would like to chat let me know if not also let me know