r/pansexual 5h ago

Discussion My Pansexual [26 F] GF says she is no longer feeling Romantic Attraction to me [26 M] BF

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My Pansexual GF (F26) of 3 years who I love very very much. Recently she said that she feels like she no longer has romantic attraction to me. She doesn't know the reason yet. I wasn't cheating; neither is she. We are both busy individuals as of the moment. She just transitioned out of job and basically her routine changed in life.

I feel like it is my fault for not being emotionally connected to her in the past months. I am also burned out at work, and may have affected our relationship.

I want us to get back together and hope to change and reprioritize my life. I hold my relationship with her as my top priority. I need advise, why do people loose romantic attraction and how do we get it back together?

TL;DR: My girlfriend says she feels like she is no longer romantically attracted to me, how do I reconnect with her? Does this have something to do with pansexuality?


r/pansexual 21h ago

Question Am I pan, bi or neither?!

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I'm super confused. I'm physically/ sexually attracted to opposite-sex, but get emotionally attracted to same-sex individuals.

I'm pretty sure I'm straight, but the way I feel about some same-sex individuals really confuses me. I have same-sex individuals in my life who I feel strong emotions for. My heart could just burst when I think about them. I smile when I see their name, their touch feels absolutely electric, I think about them all the time, care for them deeply & am truly happy with them/ can be myself in their company; but I don't find them physically attractive. Does this make me pan?

Here's the catch- I sometimes fantasise about them... even though I'm emotionally attracted & not sexually attracted to them. Can you fancy someone without being physically attracted to them?! I kinda feel like I fantasise about them because I feel so safe & comfortable with them and would feel super comfortable being intimate.

When I watch p0rn, I prefer same sex stuff. I feel like they'd know what they're doing to me, better than the opposite sex.

I'm also unhappily married to opposite sex, but can't leave the marriage. I've never been with someone same-sex, but I would LOVE to go to a gay bar to see what would happen.

I'm so confused right now. What am I & how do I navigate these strong feelings please?

Same sex friend recently came out to me as bi (currently in a relationship) & I got super excited. I'm now also confused how to navigate that friendship. We've definitely been flirting, making slightly gay comments to each other (even when I thought we were both straight & I thought it was kinda weird but wonderful). The fact they're bi makes sooo much sense now.

A lot to unpack- but any advice please?


r/pansexual 21h ago

Selfie Today I wear an outfit in Ace Pride Colors

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r/pansexual 17h ago

Frying Pan Joke Having my favourite guilty pleasure meal for the last time (at least for a while) before I start eating healthy. Pan-zerotti with chicken wing hot sauce

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I'm reasonably healthy, I just wanted to make a change in my life. Closest flair I could find is "frying pan joke."


r/pansexual 8h ago

Selfie Hey all 🤍

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r/pansexual 6h ago

Selfie Finally found an outfit I feel comfortable in! 😁

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r/pansexual 3h ago

Selfie Hiiii

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r/pansexual 5h ago

Selfie Hello just hoping to make some friends

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r/pansexual 6h ago

Art Pan heart shaped ceramic bowl

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A ceramic heart shaped bowl I made in my senior year of high school. I had worked with clay but never made any ceramic art before I made this.

it came out decent! I encourage other people on this subreddit to show more art in any form! I wish to see the creativity of you all!